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November 2012 - The Adventure Continues

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StuntNun · 03/07/2013 05:10

Previous thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/postnatal_clubs/1787896-November-2012-Crawling-Already-Uh-oh

This thread's topic is what size of nappies are your babies in? And how are the cloth bum babies doing?

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MadameGazelleIsMyMum · 04/07/2013 11:00

VQ do go further. I like the idea of Official Quiche Roles. Always interesting the way one is perceived by others methinks.

Thankful Thursday, eh?

I am very thankful for the quiche. It's good to know there is a friendly supportive place to go with anything. Coming onto the thread is like going into a big roomful of friends who are ready to help solve any problem. I may be calling on you guys soon. Just in case wont post details here, will go to FB.

VQ I am also thankful for anti-biotics, and the fact that S seems to like the taste.

chasing I don't want to sound patronising, but I am very proud of you. It cant be easy to effectively start a new life, on your own, but you are doing so bloody well. Making the flat all cosy will be lovely, and you can so carve out a lovely, happy, fear-less existence for you and O.

Sophiathesnowfairy · 04/07/2013 11:14

...and you know there is always someone there with some support. Is great. I love the quiche too.

Am sporting the baby drool on shoulder look in the office today!

FatimaLovesBread · 04/07/2013 11:16

Marking place while I catch up

Few quick comments in the end of the last thread

Cocking illnesses VQ Hope J is better soon
Cunting work det
Arsing nobhead CM BP

YellowWellies · 04/07/2013 11:17

I am thankful the sun's come out so I can just leave the washing on the line. Bagsie I'm the quiche's bovine stasi operative Grin . Death to moo juice!

It's raining again mudderfupping BBC weather and its startling inaccuracy for anywhere north of Watford Envy . Ah well it'll be sunny later.

PurplePidjin · 04/07/2013 11:25

I'm clearly the Quiche nappy bore Hippy Wink despite my lack of cosleeping-blw-dreadlocks-n-tiedye credentials!

BigPigLittlePig · 04/07/2013 12:07

Thankful for nurseries with spaces at short notice.
Thankful for the quiche and it's ready supply of hitmen and women.
Thankful for my mum who is just ace.

Am back from seeing not one but two nurseries.

First one, with the meadow, was lovely. Airy, bright, small (in terms of number of children), well-spoken staff (yes, snob alert). Open plan between different ages but with low-level barriers to stop rowdy toddles trampling on the immobile babies. But cost a freaking fortune, and completely unflexible, ie. you pay for 4 full days, regardless of what you actually need/use. F got picked up by one of the staff and wept.

Second one, on hospital grounds, is less nice, premises wise. A bit hot and stuffy like the rest of the hospital then, smaller rooms which are isolated from one another. Less immediate outdoor space, but access to the local parks. They charge per quarter of an hour (!), and work their staffing around the demand placed on them - so can accomodate shifts and charge accordingly. They charge a minimal retainer if you are on holiday and therefore not using them. F played happily for 30 minutes whilst I was in and out of the room, one of the carers sat next to her but not in her face (which she bloody hates) and chatted to her, and had lots of smiles.

If money and time were not an issue, I would want to try the first one. But they are an issue, and I need somewhere flexible. The bonus is that F seemed happier in the 2nd one, and I will be no more than 10 minutes walk away if she is upset.

Evilwater · 04/07/2013 12:27

I'm thankful for the NHS, which I've used many times as a worried mother. I'm also thankful for my friends who have made me realise my faults of course the quiche.

The dr said N is fine. It was just reassurance given.
Evil

MadameGazelleIsMyMum · 04/07/2013 12:36

Glad N is fine evil.

BP tough one if you are torn. The first one does sound lovely, but your childcare needs to work for you, and it doesnt sound like that one will. Given your job, shift work etc, and the location, cost and flexibility, from a completely outside point of view, seems like a no brainer to me.

sophia I get dressed literally last thing before I leave the house to try and avoid that look. I usually have errant baby emmissions somewhere.

PetiteRaleuse · 04/07/2013 12:42

pig I agree. No brainer. Would go with the second one. Would you be able to pop in during breaks like they do in greys anatomy ?

ChasingDaisy · 04/07/2013 12:49

Yep, no-brainer pig Smile

Loving the quiche roles chat but Blush at mine. I am not worthy. Definitely agree with Luis as quiche daddy and not by default. He is a strong backbone (pastry?) for our quiche and is a shining example of how a daddy should be.

Currently sat eating my lunch in a park which I have just walked round 50 times to get O to sleep while O snoozes. I don't know where my shy, clingy boy has gone. He loved story time, which was full of noisy children and singing. But he was smiling and babbling away, was happy to be held by my friend and even gave her a wave of sorts as we left Smile

I am feeling very poorly today. I need the Quiche Doctor please.

Today I am thankful for the quiche. More than I can say Thanks

Sophiathesnowfairy · 04/07/2013 12:51

bp having had 4 mini fairies through nursery my advice would be that yes outside space is important, but what's most important is the atmosphere when you are there. Imagine your first gut feel when you walk in. f will get the feel too. Look at as many as you like you will get there in the end.

I looked at two posh expensive ones and one cheaper one, funnily enough also on hospital grounds. The expensive ones were lovely but the cheaper one that didn't look so snazzy had a lovely industrious happy atmosphere when I walked in. My mum was an Ofsted Inspector specialising partly in nursery provision that is attched to school sand I tried hard to think about what she would have said.

I went with my gut and it has been great. They are like an extended family to us and when I had O they were so helpful as we have no family locally. All the girls do babysitting for extra pennies. DS1 loves it when the one that we use comes round.

I was quite tearful writing their resignation letter!

BigPigLittlePig · 04/07/2013 12:57

Chasing you called!?

Sophia it's tricky, because on gut feeling alone, I'm not sure. I am torn. I preferred the 1st one, but F seemed happier in the 2nd. If I had known the costs beforehand, I wouldn't have looked at the first because I can't really afford it (£705 a month for 4 days/week).

I think I will end up using the 2nd, for convenience as much as anything. And yes PR I can pop in on my breaks Grin

ChasingDaisy · 04/07/2013 13:02

pig I have a sore throat and a cold. Could you please prescribe me a full day of bed rest and junk comfort food. And inform Oscar of his responsibility to allow me to do this Grin

BigPigLittlePig · 04/07/2013 13:04

Not sure if that worked and I missed the lecture where they told us how to make babies listen

Sophiathesnowfairy · 04/07/2013 13:21

Maybe pop back for a second look pig. To stimulate your gut! Grin

Pikz · 04/07/2013 13:53

Pig I agree with the wise fairy. Go back and check how your gut feels.

Get better chasing

Babies don't get jet lag do they!

itsnotyouitsMeals · 04/07/2013 14:00

Also pig do you get childcare vouchers? Up to £243 a month salary sacrifice so worth £80 more due to not being taxed on them. More if higher rate tax payer. Might sweeten the cost of first nursery if that's the one you want

Just a thought also but maybe F needs a v long settling in period? Our nursery (been going on about it on FB as it is fab) won't take a child until they are happy they've settled so do loads of sessions with you and then build up the time they're left if that's what's needed. Perhaps ask the nurseries their policy on this? Sorry if stating the blimmin' obvious!

ValiumQueen · 04/07/2013 14:34

Pig do you qualify for the childcare element of working tax credits? Might be worth checking as can be worth up to 70% of your fees. The vouchers can be claimed by both parents if their employers do them, and I know for a fact yours do. I personally would go for the hospital one. Up I have never been able to find anywhere that just allows you to pay for what you use, and being near enough to pop in would be great, although I do not recommend it as can be unsettling for baby and mummy.

I have antibiotics for my lovely chest infection.

Jacob has a lower strength steroid for his eczema.

He also has Domperidone for his reflux, on trial for a month. If no improvement we can try Omeprazole.

Oh, and I am signed off to the end of the month. I guess I should tell my boss. Tomorrow.

Sophiathesnowfairy · 04/07/2013 14:36

Sit down vq I will bring you a knee blanket and a cuppa. Xx

Pikz · 04/07/2013 14:41

Massive massive cuddles VQ

itsnotyouitsMeals · 04/07/2013 14:45

Get well soon vq & vp.

ValiumQueen · 04/07/2013 14:50

Ha ha, thank you Smile lovely cuppa!

ValiumQueen · 04/07/2013 14:51

Thank you ladies Thanks

PetiteRaleuse · 04/07/2013 14:56

Sounds positive vq

Can excema be worsened by hard water? I ask because LO has two patches on her face which come and go. They went completely at my mum's , where the water is so soft it feels like conditioner compared to the disgusting water we get here, where you get out of the shower and have dry skin. Anyway her excema is coming back.

DD1 has just, albeit a bit late in the day, gone for a nap. In her bed. :)

meals our nursery has a long settling in period too. It's a good idea.

ValiumQueen · 04/07/2013 14:58

www.rightmove.co.uk/property-for-sale/property-36528412.html

Thoughts anyone? (Property Porn) I think it would cost quite a bit to get sorted, but may be a little gem one day. Not sure.