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Vagolajahooli · 28/06/2013 13:23

Well it seems appropriate you cheeky breeders.

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beans37 · 18/07/2013 17:26

Hi Sybs! Also Spot MIA.

Yes, small one first, then will get in structural engineer to see if roof needs to be removed to do big loft. If that's the case then we won't do it as will sit almost double. But if not, then we'll do it in a year or so.

Due to be cooler tomorrow. Pheweeee. I don't want to wish away the glorious summer, but just a few degrees cooler will be a bit of a relief! Felt a bit faint today!

Mckayz · 18/07/2013 17:52

Good news about the loft Beans.

It is meant to be hotter here tomorrow, we have the end of school picnic and I am dreading sitting there as there is no shade.

Honsandrevels · 18/07/2013 22:14

Gee whizz, it was hot here today. Poor dd2 kept taking her dress off and wanting to sit inside 'my too hot'. I had a five minute sit down in the cellar today. Nice and cool.

DH's brother and wife are staying with us tomorrow on their UK tour from Oz. I've bought new towels which makes me feel very middle aged for some reason. The old ones had some holes in and were bought in 2002 so they are a legitimate purchase but still..

JamInMyWellies · 18/07/2013 23:43

So what do you do with a husband who has been at Lords all day just arriving home so drunk he has vomited in the garden AngryAngryAngryAngryAngryAngry

Honestly he is nearly 40 FFS

beans37 · 19/07/2013 08:11

Oh Jam. He'll be feeling like death this morning... Make him clear it up!

DeidreBarlow · 19/07/2013 13:38

I've been married 10 yrs today. DH took day off work to take me out to lunch. Told him we had to be back by 2 as I have a teddy bears picnic with DS at school. Don't an hour driving round looking for a country pub he had no clue of where it was. Never found it mother of all rows and home with no lunch as we had to get back for DS. I'm AngryAngryAngry. And starving.

Now I've to pack for our hols tomorrow, be at school in nx 20 mins and he's sunbathing in garden. I'm still starving. Knob head!!!!

Jam I'd make DH clear the sick up and anything and everything else I could think of!

Mckayz · 19/07/2013 14:07

Oh Deids that is terrible. But happy anniversary! Go pour some water over him.

Jam, I hope you made DH clean it up!!

JamInMyWellies · 19/07/2013 14:56

Bloody Men dieds!

beans37 · 19/07/2013 15:11

Grrrr. I suppose the thought was there, but the execution was appalling! Have a McDonalds!!

My children have been gutted not to have a bath for over a week... The shower appeal has now become a battle. Bathroom is far from finished, but lovely plumber has got the bath working for us so they can have one tonight. Phew!

Love the sunshine; hate the flies.

JamInMyWellies · 19/07/2013 17:49

Blimey its hot I am sporting a bikini top which is failing to hold my mahoosive norks in, denim cutoffs and a baseball cap. Topped off with a very sweaty face. Happy Sunny afternoons, hope the neighbours aren't looking out their upstairs windows.

beans37 · 19/07/2013 19:49

My mahoosive norks failed to materialise. Sadly.

DH did bedtime tonight, phew. One of his friends came round and they've gone for a run and a pint. I embarrassingly wept on his friend because my feet are so sore and a quite swollen and I just suddenly felt overwhelmed with how much childcare is ahead of me for the next 6 weeks!

We're not eating til 9 and I'm so hungry!! Crisps me up, baby.

JamInMyWellies · 19/07/2013 20:36

Beans I know if you are free we can get together and moan about being swollen.

beans37 · 19/07/2013 22:15

Jam, I would absolutely LOVE that! Yes please!

ShadyLadyT · 20/07/2013 00:26

I'm here, oh fabulous ladies! Missed you. Just got back from my book group and DP is in bed so I am snatching some time to post even though I can't do that catch up I want to.

Basically, last week DP spent most of it at the Test at Trent Bridge and the night before he went we had the mother, father and godfather of all rows (not about him going away for four or five days, I didn't mind that) so to cheer myself up I upped and offed to London for a couple of days with the girls and it was bloody bliss. I know I won't be able to do that when DD1 starts school so it was extra sweet.

And this week, because I am the pre-school chair there just seems to have been loads I have needed to tie up bef the end of term. We break up on Tues. (And then there's been all the usual of my Italian lessons, stuff with the girls, trying to work, endless other crap. And of course, the sunny weather is such a gorgeous distraction!).

I have started doing the 5:2 diet so have had two fast days this week. Haven't lost a gram. I will try it for a month and see. I am keen on the general health benefits but am predominantly doing it to shed some lard, so if it's not helping me to do that I might sack it.

Am still wrestling with the third child thingy. DP and I aren't getting on that well so that's offputting although we've already got two kids so what difference would a third make? I get so tired in the evenings, though. Is that everyone, or just old old me? I mean after the whole supper and bedtime routine I feel about 163. But I have to say the girls have been so magnificent and interesting and sweet the last couple of weeks, a third tempts me. Until I think of the DISTURBED NIGHTS. So still a ?????? on that front.

Well, I have blabbed on about me horribly. I am sorry about your anniversary lunch, DB, that is such a shame. Is it hols for you this w/e? Rubes, how is lovely Spain?

Beans, I am so sorry about the planning permission, that must be very upsetting when you have geared up for it. We had a surveyor over this week to discuss plans (maybe a conservatory, maybe converting old stone outhouses at bottom of garden to an office each) and he has discouraged our ideas and suggested completely different stuff, so now we are a bit stuck and need more time to think. Actually, I am in no mood to rush into anything. So that's fine.

Arti - what on earth happened with your loft stuff? Worried for you. Are you at Wilderness in a couple of weeks? And you know it's about 3 miles from my house? Grin I know you are going with pals but happy to pop over for a coffee.

I have to repeat this conversation with DD2, it has worried me. Her sister was eating some nuts (under supervision, of course).

DD2: I don't like those naughty nuts.
Me: Don't worry, they're nowhere near you and we have your medicine.
DD2: But they talk to me.
Me: Oh, really? What do they say?
DD2: "You're going to DIE".

We have never said anything like this to DD2 about her allergies. It must either be DD1 (which she denies) or some kid about pre-school.

Sybs, am I right in thinking you have escaped the chop at work? Did i get that right?

Jam, I bet you look lovely in cutoff and a bikini top!

Right, better go up to bed. I am facepainting at the school fete tomorrow. I suck at it. They will all have to have 'butterflies'. Or my normal make up face.

ShadyLadyT · 21/07/2013 08:26

Oh dear, have I gorn and killed the thread? The sun left the West Oxon Cotswolds yesterday. It's even more dull today and the forecast for the next few days doesn't look brilliant. I love that magical sunny weather and I hope it returns... On the plus side, it's easier to sleep and I get more done.

We are going for lunch today. To Nando's! Am a recent convert.

Rubena · 21/07/2013 10:32

I'm here lady. Sorry to hear about the Barney with dp. Is it all sorted now?
Back from Spain. Lovely time. Weather perfect. Lovely accom despite howling dogs every night. Great company. Night out last night not quite as enjoyable. Nothing like dropping 300 quid on a night out to only be hungry after, and have to devour pizza at 2am. To add insult to injury, cancelled original Gaucho Grill res to join others which we were cautious of, and then sat and listened to some guy I didn't know, talk about his marriage probs all night. Never mind. We live and learn.
At least I didn't drink much so manage a (very pathetic) light jog this morn, after 8 days off at least it was better than I thought! Adrenaline I guess as still seething about night out.
BBQ later with the outlaw and fam.
Deids and Vag hope hols are going nicely!
Right I have salads and burgers to make x

beans37 · 21/07/2013 15:55

I'm here Lady! Lovely to have you back. And Rubes, holiday sounds lovely. Think of last night as a story for you to tell about a truly crappy night!

Hope all ok with DP now, Lady?

So relieved the sunshine is back this afternoon. We had a fantastic BBQ and I have NEVER seen the DDs eat so much! DH and I didn't do too badly either! DH talking about taking the girls to his parents, but am suspicious of hot air. I'd like him to as after today. I'm on my own with them til 17th August, pretty much! Obviously I'll see other people, but DH away next Saturday until 10th and I don't get back from Wales til 13th.

beans37 · 21/07/2013 16:11

Than DH at work til the weekend... Oops. Posted too soon!

Although I say that, I'm hopeful that I'll have 4 hours of help every couple of days in Wales, which will be lovely.

Wow it's not out! DH playing on trampoline with girls. Nutter!

Honsandrevels · 21/07/2013 16:28

Just a quick stop in, I'm ill. How can I have a cold and cough in the middle of summer? I completely lost my voice yesterday. Feeling worse today.

LadyT Sorry to hear about the row. I certainly feel exhausted after the whole tea, bath, bed routine. During the day I plan evening stuff like weeding the get patch properly or doing some baking, and then I expand my last ounce of energy with bedtime and lay prone on the sofa.

Deids Hope you bought yourself something nice to eat to celebrate in the end. That drive must have been sooo frustrating.

Beans Aww, try not to panic. I remember when DH went to Australia I was sooo worried about how I was going to cope. Try and break the time down in your mind and concentrate on getting through a few days at a time. Also get invites to other people so you aren't the one having to cook/ entertain.

Rubena · 21/07/2013 18:59

Already applied that Beans! Good plan!
Nice BBQ, bit let down by the cricket.
Morning exercise majorly counteracted by afternoon drinking Wine urgh.

Rubena · 21/07/2013 19:02

Hope you feel better soon Hons. I was ill late in week. Carried on having wine. All good now. Sil struck down with it. Blaming it on abs lol and downing olive leaf extract - whatever works. Or doesn't Hmm

Rubena · 22/07/2013 08:10

Just read back as missed so much. Only got to Deids. I'd be furious too. Hope you are now enjoying hols.
Jam. Appalling. Hope you made him clean it up. Rub his nose in it.
Watched "This is 40" last night. Hilarious! Can SO relate!
Kids at nursery today. Nice break as with 5 here it's been full on. Have to collect ds early and go to big school for meet the teachers hour. Then to the water slide before getting dd.

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beans37 · 22/07/2013 16:59

What's everyone feeding their nippers for tea in this hot weather?

Mckayz · 23/07/2013 09:00

Beans, the boys have been asking for sandwiches a lot as it has been too hot. I've made a lot of pasta too that we can eat cold.

DS2 has been up before half 5 for the past 4 mornings. So much for a lie in during the holidays.