Well I have survived today. Thanks to bryzoan, kyz, bigpig, vq and others for kind words.
My naughty baby slept for 4 hours at nursery. They call him "smiling boy" there. He's so scrumptious that I can forgive him for last night's dreadful shenanigans until about 4am this morning. My naughty toddler also slept at nursery which is less usual, and said she really fought being woken up. Hmmm, wonder why?
stunt when I change the sheets, the bed gets made when it suits me - sometimes I do it immediately but sometimes I wait because it is convenient. If DH stripped but didn't remake the bed before I wanted to use it, he'd probably lose a limb.
bigpig leaving F will be ok. Yes, she will smell like someone else, and have done other things. But there is absolutely no one like you. Promise. Going to work is worth it for the smiles of recognition when you get back. And you're giving her independence and stimulation and the opportunity to get used to other people which really is to her benefit.
Hi eggs.
Congrats Sophia
Good luck MM