yw I am completely besotted with my boba 3G. Gives great support as has a higher back than the ergo, also has a hood (great for sending him to sleep or protect from the rain) and adjustable stirrups to keep good hip position as they grow. Don't need stirrups yet for g but do use them when I carry dd in it. Both g and dd love it. It is also lovely to wear. It really is an awesome bit of kit. I got mine from b2boutique which I have a 5% code for if you want it. They sell other structured carriers too.
Lily - good news re scan at st thomas. Hope they fit you in soon. Fingers crossed for a false alarm.
Chasing - it is awful but it sounds like you can't expect support from his family. Call the hv or womens aid and get some advice on where you can get support. It is just as important that you eat as little one does. You need to look after yourself now more than ever for both your sakes. X
Bloody lucky escape here today. Dropped dd at nursery then went round waitrose. Got back to find my car key still in the ignition. Thank fuck the car was still there complete with contents. I blame sleep depravation. was up in the night but not with it enough to read let alone post.
Poor G has been properly screaming alot today. V out of character. Don't think I've eaten anything unusual - possibly too much caffeine. The thought of cutting back on that petrifies me 
Have to make an Easter bonnet for dd's nursery Easter party on Friday. Eek!