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StuntNun · 29/01/2013 12:21

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PetiteRaleuse · 31/01/2013 12:18

I was talking to Dr about saline drops this morning. When they're ill you should do it at least before every feed, literally can't do it too often (though just after a feed isn't a good idea as they vom). Even when they're perfectly healthy morning and evening drops are a good thing.

ShellyBobbs · 31/01/2013 12:38

What's all this about? 3-6 months babygrows are getting too small, from anywhere. Washed at low temp and dried on maiden. 3-6 months pants are still too big for his little legs, tops are fine.

GT Just read about your MIL yesterday. Don't think you're moaning on here, it would be hell on earth living with any ILs. I get on really well with my MIL but if I had to live with her I think there would be some serious rows.

horseylady · 31/01/2013 12:42

Vq - thanks

Pass - yes we have the pre growth spurt or if he's got a cold. He also did it when he needed to move up teat flows. Have you tried saline drops? Just go with it for a couple of days, if it persists then speak to someone.

Erm pretty sure I was going to reply to someone else but can't remember......oh well!!

Sophiathesnowfairy · 31/01/2013 12:50

Ooo hark at you comrade

Sophiathesnowfairy · 31/01/2013 13:03

Envy pulls out ironing to get on with!

Dixiebell · 31/01/2013 13:04

detective, same here with the escaping wind! Is it wrong to blame LO? Wink

ComradeJing · 31/01/2013 13:12

:o Sophia

Night all

ValiumQueen · 31/01/2013 13:15

Just as well comrade is down under or we could be worried.

PetiteRaleuse · 31/01/2013 13:20

Talking of wind, but wind in the sky wind, have you guys in the UK got lots of it? I've had to close all my shutters, it's really noisy.

Brockle · 31/01/2013 13:58

yes PR it blew so hard this morning it frightened Y when he was in the shopping trolley!

ValiumQueen · 31/01/2013 13:59

PR J will be having them morning and evening too. The French medics seem much more efficient at dealing with RSV etc. Nobody mentioned or indeed used drops when DS was in hospital, and there was no Physio.

ValiumQueen · 31/01/2013 14:01

My mum nearly got blown over yesterday. It is pretty blowy today and very cold indeed. Apparently. Just realised I have not been out for a week. A whole bloody week.

MissMummy1 · 31/01/2013 14:09

The spray from the beach is hitting our house it's so windy Shock

I joined him in the cafe after yoga - he was guilt tripped into buying me breakfast tight bugger Wink

Anyway, telephone consult with prospective client went well. I'm tempted to stop my M A as 3 hours a week max worling from home for this client will quadruple what I'm getting just now. Or just drag it out 3hrs in one day over 10 weeks and class it as KIT days. Hmm

Yes YW you choose Scotland meet up venue, if need be I can drive you and wee J. Smile

PetiteRaleuse · 31/01/2013 14:12

I had never heard of bronchiolitis until I moved here and saw leaflets in Dr surgeries etc. I think there is possibly much more of it over here. I have heard in the past that it is more a continental problem, though no idea why that would be. Funny enough they were talking about it on This Morning this morning.

No-one I know in the UK has ever heard of physio being used on bronchiolitis babies but there was definite improvement on LO after each session. The physio started each session by squirting copious amounts of saline solution up her nose, so it sounded like she was drowning, before doing the thumping and massage. You could argue well she'd get better anyway if it was a mild dose of RSV but I can't believe doctors would prescribe it if there was no evidence it works. And the hospitals over here are obsessive with the drops. Children under two get their noses cleaned even if they aren't in there for respiratory illness, because in hospital they will be exposed to children with respiratory illness, and they firmly believe that saline drops help prevent infection. They won't make the child immune to the bug, but they say it can help the child not get a bad version of it, or help it not get worse.

I have spent many hours googling both saline drops and chest physio and there ar conflicting reports in English over the use of them. The cynic in me wonders if the NHS don't want to waste money on unecessary treatment - physio is considered a luxury over there, whereas here all women who give birth either by CS or vaginally get at least six sessions of physio, for free.

The French do have a reputation for being over medicalised, prescribing too much medication etc, but physio and saline drops aren't like painkillers, antibiotics and anti cholestorol meds. Comparitively they are woo. But they seem to help.

I have been really happy with the care my two have received over the last couple of months (though they have mainly been cared for in Luxembourg, as that is where our paed is). And I have always been impressed with the standard pf care I have received. I can't compare to the NHS as i haven't been treated in the UK since I was a child, but I do trust the systems over here. Which is a nice feeling.

horseylady · 31/01/2013 14:22

Mm surely you can do 7.5 hours however you like per week over 10 weeks!

Just got totally freaked out dog walking. I came home a different way. A chap started following me, the went in another direction then I saw him stood on the bridge looking at me?!

Right - I don't know what to do? A friend has lent me her bjorn to try. I quite like but I'm not sure ds is that comfy. He's very secure in it (unlike the wrap which im finding harder to get right the bigger he gets). I tried on a caboo today which was great but watching the girl put it on I'm wondering if it's any easier than the wrap tbh. Again he felt lovely and secure in it!! The connects or ergo I've not tried yet but I'm wondering how secure they are for long walks? He moves a lot!!

PurplePidjin · 31/01/2013 14:22

I think the wind is what disturbed R last night, it's happened before that blustery weather coincides with a difficult night.

I have a tough decision to make. I've got a good chance at this job, depending on who else applies. Head likes me (he said so) Governor recommended me. A job i was born to do, opportunity to get properly qualified in a lovely supportive environment. Rare opportunity - there are very few primary schools with specialist music. But, dp isn't sure he'd cope with R and i don't know if i could leave him. I always assumed I'd be sahm. Need to do some serious thinking, and try to readjust my mental self image. Opinions welcome.

horseylady · 31/01/2013 14:23

Petite - I love the French they prescribe the most antibiotics of any nation!! They also have the highest number of heavy leg syndrome cases too!!

PurplePidjin · 31/01/2013 14:26

Horsey, look up babybjorn and hips on google. Connectas and Ergos are a completely different shape Wink

horseylady · 31/01/2013 14:31

Pijin - I've seen the research. Now having used one I can see that. I was impressed at how sturdy the caboo dx was so will prob get that. Just seed a bit tricky. Will see.

I might get an ergo.... I just can't find a stockist here and eBay has got some on, but how do you know if it's a fake?!

PetiteRaleuse · 31/01/2013 14:34

Yes they can be ridiculous when it comes to antibiotics. I have been here for 14 years and I still haven't worked out what heavy leg syndrome is.

The younger doctors are much more sensible when it comes to antibiotics. I recently changed GP and went prepared for the usual antibiotic debate as to whether they were needed for various things and she didn't even mention them. My old GP would send you to the pharmacy with a prescription as long as your arm and common sense would need to be used to decide what you'd actually accept.

MissMummy1 · 31/01/2013 14:35

Thank you very much YW - we have ring sling success!

Thechick · 31/01/2013 14:42

Thanks Stunt and Kirrin that sounds like I good idea. Might do it over a couple of days. I'll be out from about 12.30
I get headaches too. They last for a couple of days, and then they are gone for a bit
Sophia I remember Billy Ocean....When the going gets tough....classic song
Garden my LO is the same in that he's not interested in holding things. My finger and my boob when he's feeding but that's about it
Katie I thought Kings were great too. I had a very positive experience there. What's wrong with people, I'm sorry you got attacked. I'm not too far from the sling library. There's a playgroup round the corner from 10-12 if you want to go, at the Salvation Army opposite the fire station.
Horsey I got my ergo on amazon. There's a website about how to spot fakes and I just looked on there. I think there's a serial number that you can check, but there are stockists in the uk if you want to buy it in person or from their website.

Sophiathesnowfairy · 31/01/2013 14:43

pr I love wind. Grin

horseylady · 31/01/2013 14:44

this made me laugh

My understanding though is it is a medical complaint, however most people assume it's to do with having a cold!!

Thechick · 31/01/2013 14:45

I found the stockists on the ergo website

My dad has just brought round two packets of Maryland cookies for ds1. I'm not sure if there's going to be any left by the time he gets home from school