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beans37 · 01/01/2013 21:04

Come join me....

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DeidreBarlow · 04/01/2013 18:59

I have app now. I'm sure it will get easier as it gets more familiar!

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poisondwarf · 04/01/2013 19:35

Worra lorra chat! 127 messages on thread!

American accents - yes mine do weird American accents too when pretending to be someone else. It was particularly bad when they went through their Dora phase. Quite cute though.

LadyT hope the panto is not too pants. We went to one up north in the hols and I wasn't expecting to but I actually really enjoyed it. I wasn't keen when I was a kid either. It was in a small theatre but really professionally done and had loads of people from various talent shows who I'd never heard of, plus one Corrie star Best bit was when one of the ugly sisters grabbed DP and made him stand on a box on the stage with a feather boa while they did It's Raining Men. Well DP seemed to enjoy it anyway - I think the DCs were less impressed. I will have to post another time about the Spanish thing as I'm on my way out to see Life of Pi (woo!). The book wasn't everyone's cup of tea as I recall but I really enjoyed it. As I'm sure I'd enjoy your novel - I'd be honoured if you sent it!

jj will pm you with my details but no time right now.

And Vag have just checked out flights and I can get Stansted to Amsterdam early Sat 2 Feb returning Sunday 3 Feb for £85. Shall I? Shall I? Anyone else fancy it?

Will check back when I get back from the pictures later. I am definitely in a mood to book!

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SummerLightning · 04/01/2013 19:57

Hello what a lot of chat!
No time right now but I read on here if you don't work not to quit child benefit even if other half over the limit. Something to do with state pension depending on claiming cb if you are not working?

Might apply to you ladyt?

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SummerLightning · 04/01/2013 19:58

Oh and I would be up for a weekend meet up jj

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DeidreBarlow · 04/01/2013 20:17

We took the DC's to the panto at Christmas. I actually loved it, DD too. DS not so much but he was still pretty uncomfortable with pix scabs.

JJ I would defo be up for a cottage break. Possible a vag visit, but I also have 2 hen dos this year. However I'm still owed a few treats after DH went to Ibiza for 5 days!Wink

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ShadyLadyT · 04/01/2013 21:22

Aww, The Holiday is on ITV2. It's a bit cheesy but I love the way it LOOKS...the country scenes even more the LA ones (which is unusual for me!)

Right, so I may not be going to the panto on Sun...We spotted a spot on DD2 that looks suspiciously like the pox. It's only one, but it's just too much of a coincidence. We'll see where we are in the morning....

PD, those sounds like good flights but not sure I can commit until DP settles into this trial. And PM me your email address and I will send you my novel gladly. I could do with an unvarnished opinion, I lost perspective on it long ago. Let us know if Life of Pi is good...Hats off to your DP for having to stand there through It's Raining Men Grin

SL - thanks so much, I think you may be right but actually I am officially self- employed so pay NI contribs anyway myself which may protect me re: state pension but I do need to check...

Have lovely weekends, all

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JamInMyWellies · 04/01/2013 21:39

Anyone watching Celeb BB. Loving it!

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DeidreBarlow · 04/01/2013 21:40

Oh jam, thank The Lord you just said that! I'm sat here watching it and feeling very guilty. Normally hate it but am loving it so far! Grin

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JamInMyWellies · 04/01/2013 22:12

Not watched it for years Dieds but no DH at home and my Essex homeboy Rylan couldnt not watch Grin

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poisondwarf · 05/01/2013 00:41

Life of Pi was fabulous. A good story well told, and a visual feast to boot. Not as good as the book but they never are are they? I would definitely recommend it.

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McKayz · 05/01/2013 04:33

Nearly everyone I know that's been to the cinema recently has said the trailer for Life of Pi looks awful. I probably have uncultured friends and family Grin

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beans37 · 05/01/2013 07:14

PD off to see Like of Pi asap. Mum saw it in 3D and said it was magnificent and she's quite a film snob. DH and I both loved the book, which is rare.

I loved Celeb BB. DH played Halo 4 while I watched CBB in the playroom. Heaven! DH played Halo til 2.30am. I am on early shift this morning. If he does it tonight, it's his problem and I'm not doing early shift tomorrow!

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beans37 · 05/01/2013 07:33

We don't have American accents here, but someone in their pretend games always dies or gets killed. A bit disturbing!

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JumpJockey · 05/01/2013 08:45

S doesn't do american accents so much as a weird continental drawl. Lots of her friends at nursery are bilingual so that's prob where she gets it from... ( other languages spoken are French, German, Dutch, Polish, Hindi, Russian, Greek... i feel like we're letting her down by only speaking English!).

Last I read on CB was that if you have received CB related pension benefits in the past, you still will (I guess becuase they have you on a register somewhere) - www.guardian.co.uk/money/2013/jan/03/child-benefit-changes-what-they-mean. See the bit on state pension. If DP is already doing self assessment tax, it's probably no great faff to carry on getting Cb Nd he declares it at the end of the year. Otherwise if he's not, I'd say best to avoid having to get into all that malarkey.

Oh you girls, celebrity BB? [sigh] [snob] Wink

arti was is you who said you get school results in April? I thought there was one national annoucement on May 1? we would prob put S into the indy if she doesn't get the school we want - realise we're very lucky to have this option. It's not that the other schools are in any way bad, but the practicalities would mean she'd have to do both breakfast and after school club (10 minutes bike ride in the wrong direction for work...) and that's something we'd rather avoid. My working hours are rather silly - officially 9.15 to 5.30, have shifted that to 8.45 to 5 so I can get away in time to get the girls from nursery in a reasonable time. Is means that it would be either breakfast club for S and I can leave at 5 to get them both, or move my hours back, drop her at school at the right time but then it's a real push to get them both by 6. Anyone any clever ideas? The school we like best is v close to my work so easier to organise.

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Rubena · 05/01/2013 12:12

Lady I LOVE the Holiday. Own it. Have even been to the pub in it! (Not because of the movie, but because dh always cycled through there with Kingston Wheelers) we are also looking at that area for a potential move but tis very ££££

I am watching CBB! I live Rylan! Loved him in XFactor too Smile My pic to win. Or Claire!

I have full blown sinusitis. Woke up with a stinking headache. Perhaps I should have a glass of wine. I've never felt worse. Must be withdrawal Grin nah. Keeping my pact but will allow myself a glass or two on eviction night! I am sad.

Last night for me was sudafed, ibuprofen, jasmine tea, CBB and Rightmove. Rock & Roll.

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JamInMyWellies · 05/01/2013 13:47

I can beat that Rubes, last night was clean the bathrooms and de mould the bedroom windows, eat a bar of chocolate, paint my toenails and CBB. What exciting lives we lead. Grin

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Rubena · 05/01/2013 13:58

We're livin the dream Jam GrinI may even steam my head later in an attempt to clear mucous. Rock and Roll. If that fails, Rubena won't be flying tmrw.

Vagazzle, I'm so glad your friend has been found. Have been thinking about it daily and wondering what on earth happened. Will be keeping up to get missing bits pieced together. I hope things work out for her.

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Vagolajahooli · 05/01/2013 14:14

just on quickly as I saw PDs post I have a friend coming that weekend and another friends surprise party hear in the Hague so wouldn't be able to get to Amsterdam. ssorry.

also my friend has been found hooray!

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beans37 · 05/01/2013 14:22

So glad about your friend, Vag.

Does anyone else have those times with DHs that just feels like whatever you say or do is wrong or annoys them or just isn't good enough. I am trying to keep upbeat and kind to DH, but am reaching the end of my tether. I do so much for this family and feel like I get zero appreciation. Need time off. From DH more than girls. Having been a single mother for 3 months I really feel like he needs to show me some kindness. Am going to tell him. Tired of tippy-toeing around his bloody ego and moods.

Grrrrrr. Rant over! Please let me know you have similar issues with your DHs sometimes!!!!

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beans37 · 05/01/2013 16:06

Sorry, ignore me. Suspect I am also being a mardy cow, which doesn't help!

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ShadyLadyT · 05/01/2013 17:27

Don't worry Beans, I could practically throttle DP at times. But then he would probably (sometimes) say to me what you just said about DH - "whatever I say is wrong/annoys you/isnt good enough..." To be honest, when the kids are small it inevitably chucks up a load of resentments into the mix, particularly when one party is working out of the home more than the other. I try to be more philosophical about it these days. Sometimes I do wonder whether I actually care less...But anyway, try to think of the bigger picture if you can. That usually helps me.

Vag, that is terrific news about your friend. I hope she is ok. Poor girl.

I think I am going to watch The Holiday again soon, Rubes, I only saw 10 mins of it last night. DP loves it Grin That pub looks gorge. And I love Cameron Diaz's clothes in it. Watch the Sudafed if you've got sinusitis - as I said, the GP thundered at me last year that if you've got proper sinus issues rather than just a cold, Sudafed will dry the goo into a sort of germy cement and it will take five times as long to clear off. He told me that irrigating the sinuses is the best...that thing of snorting warm salty water (you sort of chuck it up your nose and basically snort it) is really horrible - but it does truly help...

JJ, it was me who's getting the school results on April 16. That's what their email said, anyhoo. How tiresome that you would have to take all those half days if S gets her first choice. And I must pm you about available dates although between Jan 13 and April 13 it is somewhat of a mystery...

I haven't watched CBB yet but I expect I will tune in at some point if it's a good year. High culture, low culture, it's all good with me. You don't know what you're missing, JJ Grin And let's not forget the middlebrow. Which is precisely what I thought The Lord of the Rings films were - UNTIL DP forced me to watch them and I was gripped and thoroughly enjoyed them, ha ha. So yes, I'll be toddling off to watch The Hobbit and will now also add The Life of Pi to the list, thanks PD.

We are just watching the Tintin film. DP has fallen asleep, DD1 doesn't really like it (though she has watched all of it so far, it's nearly finished) and DD2 has gone up for her nap. Two spots so far, which may or may not be the pox, so we are waiting to see. Anyway, the film seems a bit lame.

Last night I watched an early Almodovar film. It was tops. People always rave on about French cinema, but I do love a Spanish film.

Anyway, I'm boring myself now Grin

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ShadyLadyT · 05/01/2013 17:32

It sounded like I was saying The Life of Pi is middlebrow. I wasn't Grin Plus, I like middlebrow. I like everything, me. Ok, there are a few BBC radio and tv comedies that make me want to pull out my eyes and ears, but hey, I appreciate the work that has gone into even THOSE.

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beans37 · 05/01/2013 21:50

You're v wise about looking at bigger picture, Lady. Will endeavour to do so. DH has also apologised for being so grumpy today. I suspect he wants sex, though! Hee hee!
Off to watch CBB. Sleep tight x

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Vagolajahooli · 05/01/2013 21:51

I have only recently read Life of pi recently. I loved it, but wasn't sure if I would like the movie. After DBs review I might give it a go.

Sorry to only drop in quickly earlier but I didn't have time to read all but wanted to respond to PD. I need to message JJ about the cottage time too.

Sitting on the couch with poor DH, he has forgotten the password on his new work laptop and is desperately trying to remember it. Considering his profession it will be very embarrassing to have to take it into work to reset.

Lady you mentioned me muscles, I'm not that buff but have definitely got more muscle tone than before so weight loss is proving a little easier. Unfortunately I've not lost enough weight to be able to actual muscles yet Hmm.

Rubes sorry about the sinuses, I know it sounds grose, but I have heard the nasal toilet Lady mentioned does help.

Beans I think I'm a bit mean to DH like you describe your DH is to you. But I don't just wander off lots of weekends. Also, how would you feel about being the positivity your dad was to your mum's negativity, only when she's with you of course. Or would that be a bit tiring.

Had a nice night out last night for a friends farewell, but drank too much beer and it messed up my tummy. I think I'm not used to drinking it anymore. Then this evening had home made pizzas at a friends, her husband is a brilliant cook. But I over ate and feel really stuffed. I think it's time for a detox.

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Vagolajahooli · 05/01/2013 21:54

Oops forgot the word 'see' I'm too tubby to actually see the muscles.

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