Wow, dsm, love the dress!
Another vote for metanium Yellow: it was what they used in ScBU if the teeny tinies got nappy rash. Always works a treat on mine, it's just drier than the other creams and seems to calm the irritation quicker.
Baptism was lovely: very low key (I'm a Methodist) and relaxed. It was just me and the spawn, DH is an agnostic so prefers not to come but we're very tolerant of each others' spiritual journeys, as it were. Other relatives are too far away/old/disinterested, the church folk we know are lovely so that was all we needed. Plus a big stack of tea, coffee, cake and millionaires shortbread.
hawthers that sounds v encouraging! Keep it up and see how you do: I've heard that boys can be trickier especially with poos but that seems positive if he's nailing the wee bit. A lot of kiddies do wees in the day and then wait til their night nappy is on to poo til they get used to the whole idea...