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October 2011: Gaining teeth but still losing sleep.

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sassy34264 · 17/03/2012 03:29

hope this works! the pressure is on at 3.30am!!!!

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Jnice · 02/04/2012 21:55

Yes, just like other milestones they are able to sttn at different times Wink

My mum just took Leo while I had a run and I'm feeling pretty good despite the sleep deprivation. L now hates being in the buggy and won't sleep in it anymore, won't nap in his cot today either. The ergo is the only thing that works.

He is really out of sorts today, that constant moan due to being overtired I think.

PenguinArmy · 02/04/2012 21:59

hope he is better tomorrow Jnice

DS this morning still had diarrhea, I am hoping it has passed now. Been 5 days now, this bug has been lingering a while. I've been clear a day now so . I was able to put him down for a bit today so progress so feel that means he must be on the mend.

MamaMaiasaura · 02/04/2012 22:07

These babies certainly do keep us on our toes.

J asleep on me after another feed at 9. She's not feeding as well in the day.

golemmings · 02/04/2012 22:56

Cheshire, I think that(s why I find feeding mush easier than blw because I only have to think about A. For blw I keep assuming that we eat the wrong stuff esp because he's not quite 6mo yet so we're only giving him fruit and veg. I'm just not sure quite how to extract the veg from a quorn bolognaise... I guess come next week when I'm prepared to give him wheat then I just put a spoonful of bolog on his tray with some chopped strands of spaghetti and see what he does with it. Is that right?

PenguinArmy · 02/04/2012 23:00

basically yep Grin

with DS I have to scoop back into a pile again every so often as he spreads it to thin to then pick up. Not for bigger things, stuff like porridge.

golemmings · 02/04/2012 23:45

It's really that easy

We're down at my dad's and i've not wedged a pillow under Alex's mattress so he's lying flat for the first time in months and he's in his back looking very relaxed. Mind you, I dozed off with him in my arms, allegedly and came to to find his bin in my lap and his head dropping off the side of the bed. Not exactly helpful...

CheshireDing · 02/04/2012 23:49

I would probably do a good sized pile Lemmings because as Penguin says it gets spread out and you do gave to chuck it back on the tray a few times. P had the middle of a saucers-worth piled high.

Oh and she mostly eats naked and I wear an apron for carrying her Grin

Penelope1980 · 03/04/2012 02:40

Am glad to hear from you all about sleeping, no-one in RL seems to have the problems (or maybe they are all lying!)

Cheshire I know what you mean about not having much imagination re food. I am a bit useless with cooking, and am not very good at pureed stuff and thinking what to feed A'tai. My coffee group are all talking about what to feed their babies and how they make them etc and sometimes it's like they are speaking another language.

We had a very messy pumpkin incident yesterday, was hilarious - will have to post the pics on FB

Engelsmeisje · 03/04/2012 09:39

Hi everyone! Time for a mammoth catch-up post I think?

Welcome back elgolden. I think feeling anxious is very normal for mums, especially when thinking about going back to work. I was dreading it, but now I?m back (part-time) it means that I feel like I get a bit of time to just be me, rather than just M?s mum (speaking to other grown-ups about things other than snot and poo!) and also I feel like I appreciate my days at home more now that I have to be at work. And as for housework, no one ever regrets not doing more housework on their death bed. I finally have an excuse to be the slob that I am Grin

M finds lying on the floor very boring as well ? if he?s really antsy then I?ll put him in his bouncy chair to watch me while I?m washing-up or making dinner. Most of the time he just wants to see what?s going on.

jnice How are you doing? I?m also an advocate of writing a list of things just so I can cross them off! Hope you are managing to get some sleep. Good to hear you got out for a run. It?s what keeps me sane right now.

Good to hear from you scheh. I always give food then followed by milk (like sassy said). How is it going weaning C off breast milk? I?m down to 2 bf per day (and 3 ff) now and will drop another one at the end of this week.

pen sorry to hear you?re not getting much sleep. M had about a month of leeping through then started waking up every night at least once. At first I could settle him with the dummy and mobile, but eventually ended up feeding. Might just have been sleep regression? He?s back to sleeping through now though, and has a bad night maybe once a week. He has started taking a longer nap in the day rather than short naps though (like pink said).

lemmings if M does wake up screaming in the middle of the night and I?m going to work the next day then I admit that I will just feed him as it?s quicker and easier than trying to soothe him back to sleep Blush . And regarding holidays, it was our trip back to England in February that kick started M sleeping through the night. I think he was so knackered from travelling and from being dragged around to see all of my relatives!

M decided not to settle last night. Typical, since I was heading back into work for parents evening. Felt guilty leaving DH at home with a screaming baby Blush . Think he has a blocked nose though and may have some more teeth coming through.

It?s baby central at my school. Ten teachers have finished or started maternity leave this academic year, plus male teachers who?ve had first or second children. The most recent has been christened Kick ? what an awesome name! (an old Dutch name) Makes me think about number two?.. Grin

Anyway, I should try and keep up a bit better so I don?t have to write a huge post again. Have a great day everyone.
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sassy34264 · 03/04/2012 10:27

i'm still reading all your food posts in shock. Grin even though i know you can, im still thinking in my head 'you cant give a baby that' Smile
i cant help it, its just not my era for bringing babies up!!!!!

also, im still spoon feeding 19 month old twins some things! i just cant deal with all the mess otherwise. dp made a ratatuille yesterday and its very rich red. decided it was less bothersome to give it them myself,. more washing and more baths. i just feel that they will have the next 3 years to learn before they go to school,. so why make my life harder. if it would have been on a bath night i would have give it them and i do give them everrything else to feed themselves.

maybe having 6 peoples washing/drying/ironing to do influences me!!!!!

well eva is still asleep! she woke up this morning at 7 as usual, and normally i would get a breast fed done before i have to get the twins their milk and chloes breakfast and lunch made, but because its half term, i just left her. she made a few whining noises and then went back to sleep. dp got up with twins and chloe, so i went back myself. chloe woke me up at 10am! i think my body is just trying to catch up on all the sleep its missed in the last 2 years!

jnice if your mum will babysit for you to have a run, will she not look after ds while you have a sleep? i think thats what i would have done Grin

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TallyBear · 03/04/2012 13:19

Wow i think i must have missed a whole thread! Sorry been absent so long (and sorry for any errors - Seba sleep on my right hand...)

We've not atarted weaning yet...but seb having real problems feeding..hes often either not interested or crys when you go near him with a bottle. Tried to make hv app but earliest she could do was next wed, although there is a hv clinic tomorrow i might go to. Oh and he threw up huge amounts twice on me this morning. Had to change us both twice in about 10 mins.. And its my birthday... happy birthday mummy, have some puke!! And just in case that wasn't enough, have some more!!

elgolden I think a lot of people feel the way you do too. i know i do. Half of me worries about Sebs development (no rolling here) and the other half keeps telling me that they all develop at a different pace. Was it someone on here who said when they are all 21 it wont matter who rolled or sat up first. All fit and healthy 21 year olds can sit up and roll over! I'm back at work in 3 weeks :(. Part of me will be glad to have some structure to the day and company (I dont do well on my own) but part of me really wants to stay with Seb now that we are getting to the more interesting part. Dh is taking over for 3 months so that's something at least. Oh and Seb's got excema too. got some steriods from the doc and theyre working already.

Sassy, you iron?!

got to go... seb awake and being grumpy and i suspect done something nasty in his pants!

PenguinArmy · 03/04/2012 15:09

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TALLY

I found my birthday a bit shit even though I wasn't expecting anything, it just kinda hit me on the day. However I kicked myself up the arse the day after then made myself do a few nice things, like for a nice walk, see some friends etc.

Hopefully DS will grow out of his fussy feeding soon, I remember how draining it can be.

MamaMaiasaura · 03/04/2012 15:21

tally happy birthday Wine and Flowers Smile

MamaMaiasaura · 03/04/2012 15:22

[flower]

MamaMaiasaura · 03/04/2012 15:22

[Bouquet]

MamaMaiasaura · 03/04/2012 15:22

I give up Grin

MrsHende · 03/04/2012 15:44

Happy birthday Tally! Nothing like a good puke or two to make your day Grin!

Jnice · 03/04/2012 15:58

Hello Tally and Engles!

Happy birthday Tally! Cake sorry to hear LO is refusing the bottle. Hope he is feeding well again soon.

L is now on a bottle strike so evenings are hard because giving that bottle led to a dip in my supply. Night was better but still 3 feeds and up for the day (with grandma Smile) at 6.

I got the high chair parts so will be setting it up later and will begin offering foods BLW style.

Hope everyone got a better night last night x

strawberrypenguin · 03/04/2012 16:15

Happy birthday Tally, hope your afternoon has improved. Thanks from me and Thanks here are the ones mama was trying to give you :)

strawberrypenguin · 03/04/2012 16:16

mama it's thanks for flowers, I always have to check that one gets me every time!

BB3 · 03/04/2012 21:59

Happy birthday tally x

Oh sassy, I actually love when you get unplanned lay ins. Even if you've had the worst night ever, those rare times dh takes the kids in the morning are just blissful!

Hope everyone is ok. I'm going to bed in denial. Ds is 3 tomorrow! 3!!! How did that happen!?!?

TallyBear · 03/04/2012 21:59

Thanks everyone. Day did improve!! Dh managed to finish work early so we went to a lovely pub/restaurant nearby with Seb in tow then drove the scenic route back through the countryside.

Oo and I forgot to say we have two teeth!!

TallyBear · 03/04/2012 22:01

Happy birthday to BB3's ds! Great time of year to be born!!

MamaMaiasaura · 03/04/2012 22:08

tally 2 teeth Grin how brilliant!! Top or bottom?

Night bb3 happy birthday for your ds. What have you planned for him?

MamaMaiasaura · 03/04/2012 22:10

strawberry Thanks Smile