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Feb 2010 - turning two and turning heads

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BigBadBear · 10/02/2012 12:33

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SocietyClowns · 10/05/2012 08:06

dd2 would like it to be known that her bottom fell out of bed last night... Grin. Took the side off her cot bed yesterdays which she was very excited by. But then her bottom (and the rest of her) fell out of bed in the night and she got a bit of a fright. Will put toddler chairs against the side tonight and hope for the best. dh is totally against having an 'open' cot because it means she can come and go as she pleases but I think she is old enough. After all, she keeps telling us she is most definitely not a baby any more!

Will comment on posts later - got to take dd1 to school and haven't done her hair yet...

InmaculadaConcepcion · 10/05/2012 14:27

Mous that sounds reasonably encouraging, I would say! Although I can imagine it's also frustrating, especially as your DD2 regressed a bit speech-wise. FX for the hearing test.

Survival I bet you're your own sternest critic! Well done, hope the boys are co-operating today!

Arf at your DD2's bottom falling out of bed, Soc!
I must say, I still intend to keep DD in a pen cot until she either physically outgrows it or learns to climb out (no sign of either at the moment) - luckily we've been given another cot, so we won't need her to vacate for DC2...

I've just spent an enjoyable morning with my house-selling friend - valuations look good in terms of what she was expecting to get for the place and what we were expecting to pay, so that's all very promising!
Meanwhile, we tried out a local caff (very friendly, staff lovely and got chatting to a couple of mums with newborns who came in too - bodes well for getting to know people in the area!) and our two DDs enjoyed it too - followed by a romp in a local playpark afterward (not a patch on our local one, but apparently there's a petition underway for the council to improve it. Still, the LOs enjoyed themselves). All splendid and more meet-ups are planned.

PenguinArmy · 10/05/2012 14:48

Dd has been in a bed for six months. Weighed ds today, he is what dd was at a year. Dd is 10.6 now and 80 ish cm so has shot up.

Soc sorry he threw you off and wow at 75 mins. I have ask old prof for a Reference

Car got through mot with not too much damage. That is what I was travelling to my mum for when the car broke down but have realised I have saved two hours of fuel Grin will be heading bak tonight as hav physio in the morning. Will carry on tiring dd out by showing off her scooter skills, people here we surprised she could steer it as well.

Ic good luck with potential house moves

Bbb and mous sending hugs and hot chocolate/wine your way

StoneBaby · 10/05/2012 19:23

mous I guess it puts your mind at rest knowing that there're no major issues.

IC great news about the house.

soc Grin at the falling bum. DS is still in a cot and will stay there for as long as he doesn't try to escape.

PenguinArmy · 10/05/2012 21:42

So dbro took an overdose and is at ane, we're all hoping he takes the referral to the crisis team. I am still here, so will miss the hospital tomorrow although that would have happened as my brakes were not bled properly so will take car back to garage in the morning to be fixed.

SocietyClowns · 10/05/2012 23:18

PA Sad xxx

BigBadBear · 11/05/2012 07:26

Sad pa

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InmaculadaConcepcion · 11/05/2012 08:03

Jeez PA so sorry to hear that Sad
Let me know if I can do anything x

LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 11/05/2012 16:55

PA Sad

StoneBaby · 11/05/2012 18:12

PA Sad

My mum left today and I'm sad that she did but also slightly relieved as I can see from time to time that she disapproves how I deal with DS tantrums/meltdowns. But DS had a great time with her and me too to be fair.

I'm out tonight with my MIL and SILs. DH is home and babysitting.

SconesForTea · 11/05/2012 18:38

No time for a proper post but hugs PA Sad

SurvivalOfTheUnfittest · 11/05/2012 22:45

PA thinking of you and your DB.

Mous I think that sounds quite positive. Would it be worth supporting your speech to her with some pictures of what you are talking about (e.g. common foods, clothes etc..) Supporting words with objects/photos is a common strategy for the children I work with who have any speech difficulties (and I don't suggest she does have, just that if you feel it is a little delayed, it might help to support her). How does she make her needs known to you? Do PM me if you would like any other ideas.

DS2 has suddenly decided to be potty trained and is now asking for the potty or toilet even when we were at playgroup today and he was in a pull up. I was intending to take him in pants today, but we had an appointment for DS1 beforehand and I needed not to be dashing to the toilet in the middle. I was intending for him to spend another couple of weeks at nursery in pull ups but the last couple of days have been so good that I think he's probably ready to go for it. He's surprised us really and I think it's because his bladder works properly, whereas DS1 seems to have urinary retention issues like I do, which means he might need to wee 3x in 20 mins. This made potty traning rather more tricky with him!

We've finally got the okay to keep our climbing frame (as long as we agree to move it round the garden a couple of times during the Summer - I'm banking on a few feet at a time!) This is a big relief as it's huge, was expensive and the boys love it. Explaining why we had to take it down would have been very tricky. Now waiting to see what the slightly odd neighbour will do. He doesn't like the other neighbour's leaves falling in his garden so he scoops them up into a wheelbarrow and then dumps them on the neighbour's drive!

SC love the falling out of bed - as long as she's okay. We still need a bed guard for DS1 as he's so dynamic in his sleep! They now argue with each other in their sleep and DH is getting amorous in his sleep again so we've had some very busy nights recently!!

My boss sent me a very positive email after my presentation so I'm feeling happier about it. I've also done half the work to catch up on the nromal stuff I hadn't done. I can't believe the new head of Ofsted says teaching isn't stressful. Would DH agree with that IC? I bet he has a wife who does all the housework for him and doesn't expect him to do anything with the kids (or is a batchelor who doesn't have to try and balance the job with family life!) Have a lovely weekend all.

SocietyClowns · 12/05/2012 09:30

dd2 has caught the question bug... Everything is now why, where, what etc. with her which is cute but exhausting. This morning her random questions included

Papa, what's that hole? (His belly button) followed by more questions because she didn't agree it should be called a button when it clearly isn't a button... Hmm

What's this called? (duvet) Where's that from? (er, shop - can't remember which)

Papa, what's that do? (It's a clock, it says we should all still be asleep! Blush)

And then to me: Mama, no 'hmm hmm', say 'yes'!! (I am not very verbal before having coffee...Grin

InmaculadaConcepcion · 12/05/2012 13:49

How are things PA?

That Ofsted head may have been a teacher for many years, but I don't believe he was in tough state schools..... And Survival, DH would certainly NOT agree with him that being a teacher isn't stressful. What utter toss.
Good news on the climbing frame! Your neighbour sounds like a pretty unreasonable type, glad he didn't win on this one.

We get "What's s/he doing?" all the time from DD, SC - I almost always answer thus: "You tell me!" - which she almost always does (some of her assessment are quite funny!)

DD was awake a few times last night - not sure why - early this morning was a killer as she did the double hit when I was just dozing back off when she called out again. Thankfully after that, she did go back to sleep and stayed that way until almost 08.30.

PenguinArmy · 12/05/2012 13:50

well we are back home. Being at my parents was bad for DS's skin but we have an appointment for that anyway on Monday.

thanks for comments btw, I will not return questions as it is just too much to go into.

sb our gro clock tells DD it's bedtime or get up time. Being away we found we were able to extend the technique to any clock. Was so nice to take my time getting dressed this morning and being able to put DS down to sleep.

SocietyClowns · 12/05/2012 16:01

PA just to say I hope you fb is alright and gets the help he needs [hug]

SocietyClowns · 12/05/2012 16:02

Argh phone... 'db'

StoneBaby · 12/05/2012 20:18

PA have a glass of Wine

DS had a good day on the potty today but I panicked when we were out for lunch and DS said wet and started pulling his trousers down! Blush I convinced him to go to the toilets to get changed, so he followed me walikng like a cowboy Grin

I may get a grow clock as DS is now waking up at 5.45am and starts calling at 6.15am.

We don't have the 'why, what' phase yet as DS doesn't do sentences yet but his speech is getting there both in French and English.

PenguinArmy · 12/05/2012 20:19

thanks soc

anyone else think there are too many usernames beginning with s, i have to think each time.

one of the dad's at swimming asked me if my dd was the fearless one Grin She took straight away to jumping in off the side

StoneBaby · 12/05/2012 20:39

PA I'll think of a new username Grin

PenguinArmy · 12/05/2012 20:43

that will make my head hurt more Grin

BabyGiraffes · 12/05/2012 21:26

PA Waves... I've gone back to my old name for you, does that help Grin

BabyGiraffes · 12/05/2012 21:28

I have one of those clocks with the star etc but dd2 is rather adept at switching it on and off and changing the settings... I think it is possible to lock it but I have lost the leaflet and just hope dd2 doesn't find the setting herself! Blush

SurvivalOfTheUnfittest · 12/05/2012 21:33

Think I need to buy a groclock tomorrow - went to bed at 12:30a.m. (stupid emoticon) and DS2 woke us up at 5:15am and refused to go back to sleep, even though we didn't get him up. Got to be at a car boot sale by 6a.m tomorrow so I'm not impressed!!
Hello BG.

SB sorry that I failed to acknowledge your mum's leaving making you sad yesterday. Hope you are ok too.

InmaculadaConcepcion · 13/05/2012 08:33

BG, Survival, I've been wondering how the lighter evenings and mornings will affect DD this time round, but so far she's still falling asleep at her usual time, despite the lightness of her room and thankfully usually not waking up before 07.00 (even managed to convince her to go back to sleep yesterday morning despite the daylight). We've got the blackout blinds for back up, just in case....

So fab to have some sunshine again - lots of time spent at the park yesterday....

SB I always have mixed feelings when I say bye to my mum too. I love her but we still have the capacity to drive each other bonkers from time to time..!

PA hope you're okay. Family trauma is no joke. x