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CakeandRoses · 23/08/2011 20:00

am bf A and telling F off and have still come to the rescue.

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CakeandRoses · 27/08/2011 09:19

dylth come back and talk to us, please. what's going on?

yy mlic i agree re black swan - at least you weren't wearing ballet pumps at the time tho presume Grin

kk what have you decided re travelling?

we're pretty sure now that A did have c pox recently (her friends have all got it). feel awful as we didn't know at the time as so were out and about everywhere with her. mind you what's worse is one of my friend took her infected DSs to visit a newborn and she did have a fair idea they had c pox but was in denial as they didn't have many spots Hmm

she's since contracted shingles and i have to say i thought that was a bit karmic

oh and in other news - F's now learnt to lie Sad

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DesperateHousewife21 · 27/08/2011 09:24

mlic yes I thought the Black Swan was v odd too, quite scary in some places. DH quite liked it Wink

dylthan sorry you're feeling so rough, I hope you get better vv soon.

We're going to the cinema today, first time since I was pregnant. FIL+wife is looking after D, our flat is en route back to their house from the cinema so we're going to stop by and have some 'dylan free time' hehe!

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MalibuStac · 27/08/2011 10:59

Morning all,

What you going to see dh?

cakes what's F been lying about?

Anyone got anything on this weekend?r seems much better today thankfully. Still very thirsty at night but I suspect that is due to her blocked nose. J on the other hand is still limping about moaning. Younger kids are far easier to deal with when ill honestly he is such a whinger and its not about the pain. Have to go shopping today for a bag and stationary for college. I'm so nervous.

kk did you get away?

needles hope your evening goes well, what happened with your dress?

hg and melissa how are your lo's?

mlic has W's cold cleared?

kkfairybrains · 27/08/2011 12:36

We've had to leave her at home :( :( :(. I just couldn't chance it if there was a pregnant woman in the plane or someone recovering from cancer it can be so dangerous to them. We've been agonising all morn about what to do and everyone has been reasoning with us saying she's not unwell with it so theres no point in wasting our tickets so she's with dp's mum for the weekend. We dropped her up there and put her wellies on and she shot straight out to the puppies and didn't give us a backward glance so I know she'll be ok. It was such a hard decision to make but we really thought about it. If she had been in anyway unwell we wouldn't have gone. was really looking forward to the weekend together and my relations all seeing her but hey ho :(
Cakes they say lieing is a sign of a good imagination Grin

MyLifeIsChaotic · 27/08/2011 12:49

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kkfairybrains · 27/08/2011 12:56

Thank you mlic Smile.

memphis83 · 27/08/2011 15:33

kk have a great time, must have been a hard decision! :(

cakes what is he lying about?

tsc glad Kate is having a good time.

dylthan dont disappear come back and talk to us, and go to your doctors its not a bad thing!

chulita must be horrid, dont know how you have got through it, not long til he is home though!

Well im in a very angry mood today (see facebook) DH is in my bad books, I remember reading a thread not long ago about a womans whos dh pissed in the house and people were saying dump him, he has a drink problem, this is a different fucking level! Im off to keep telling dh what a fucking dirty pig he is.

Dylthan · 27/08/2011 17:08

I have been slightly stressed.

I have things to do for work that I just never seem to be able to get time to do and if I don't get caught up with worse case scenario I could loss my job.

Money is tight now I've gone part time.

D is being contrary and argumentative at every turn.

And B is still not sleeping at night.

Nothing really major and I honestly feel I am on top of it all apart from the work thing but dh has now agreed to take the kids out this weekend so I can at least make a start.

I haven't had any more panick attacks I think it just hit me how much worse the situation could of been the pain came on so suddenly but it left me compleatly unable to do anything what if I'd of passed out or somthing what would of happened to my babies.

I don't think its stress (but maybe I'm in denial) I honestly feel there is something else causing my stomach pains because my insides haven't been right for some time now. I will be going back to the doctor but they can be a bit usless tbh.

Sorry for the essay Blush

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DesperateHousewife21 · 27/08/2011 21:12

stac we went to see the Inbetweeners, it was really funny though I can see why not everyone would like it.

D didnt have a nap for FIL so he went to bed at 6 because he fell asleep in his highchair eating dinner, thats the first time hes ever done that!

CakeandRoses · 27/08/2011 23:54

dylth a lot of the thread toddlers seem marish at the mo - it's bloody tough coping with them without anything else going on. def sounds like a trip to the docs is sensible and like mlic said - have you spoken to work?

memph Shock

just watch The Great debate - really good film but don't blame me if you hate it mlic

A been up half the evening with teething again. she'll prob be up half the night too. sigh....

re F lying, nothing very imaginative i'm afraid - he bit A and then when i asked him he said he hadn't done it - she had teeth marks on her fingers Sad

where is everyone? having bank holiday fun i hope.

think we're off to greenwich for the day tomo. what are you all up to?

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MyLifeIsChaotic · 28/08/2011 03:53

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WhatSheSaid · 28/08/2011 04:23

What are you doing up at 4 in the morning mlic ???

Dylthan · 28/08/2011 07:28

It's not work that are setting the tasks its the professional body that regulates us.

It's a long story but basically registration of technicians was voluntary in 2006 with a view to being mandatory in 2007 because due to dh job we were moving to shetland I joined the registar at that time because I was unsure if I would get a pharmacy job where we were going and therefore there would of been no one to counter sign my application.

As it turned out registration has only been mandatory since June this year Shock

While the royal pharmaceutical socitey regulated us cpd (continued professional development) was necessary but no set rules were put in place as to what was required but in 2009 the general pharmaceutical council have taken over and now there very much is set rules.

Due to the fact that technicians didn't have to be registered until this year there has been no help with what exactly it is I need to do. There is going to be a workshop at some point at the end of the year but that is something that would of helped me in 2006.

Now my problem is that in 2009 I was coming of the anti depressants I was given when I had D. But I did not cope well with coming off them and basically that year was beyond awful and I was signed off work for most of it. It also ment that compleating my cpd was the last thing on my mind.

But I now have to come up and write up 9 pieces of evidence for that year which I barely have any recollection of 2010 I should get away with because I was on maternity leave but that means I'll be short so they will probebly want evidence from further back which I don't have a chance in hell of finding out and then obviously 9 pieces for this year.

It all needs to be done in my own time including any workshops or distance learning packs I do and no allowances are made for working part time and failure to have it done and to an appropriate standard means you risk getting struck off.

On top of all this the nhs require you compleate eksf and pdp (also to be done in your own time) to show that you are at an appropriate level to match your job description and now because training has been so lax the department has set out a competancy folder that need to be completed.

It just seems so unfair with my cpd I've paid £120 pound a year to have all this stress heaped on my while my work colleugues that only registered this year are getting all the help and support they need and don't have to prove themselfs past this year.

Sorry that really was an essay Blush

Dylthan · 28/08/2011 07:35

Ooh and on top of that my registration fees are due now (they normally collect them in December) and like I said money is tight at the moment (dh earns much more in the winter) so I don't have the money in the bank to pay it so I'm going to have to put it on my credit card. :(

CakeandRoses · 28/08/2011 09:39

dylth have you tried speaking to them and telling them exactly what happened? ime, bodies like this aren't there to make their members lives hell and you do have a very understandable position. i wonder if they would allow you to start your registration from this year instead?

mlic until recently F would always be truthful even if it meant being told off because he obv didn't realise there was an option of lying. i knew it would change at some point but still makes me a bit sad.

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Woodlands · 28/08/2011 12:15

hope you can find someone who will understand, dylthan.

Went to the pub with DH last night, there was a talent show on. I drank far, far too much. It was my turn to get up with J this morning. I kept almost vomiting while giving him his breakfast. Just starting to feel more human now. MIL has taken J out for a walk so we have some peace.

MalibuStac · 28/08/2011 14:32

dythlan I agree with cakes speak to them. Hope your ok.

tsc don't stay away, what you do with F is your business tell them all to feck off. Wtf ws the problem with the others on the abortion thread? There's some strange people on here.

woods was the talent show good?

dh I agree about the film but even my friend who's quite prudish thought it was funny. Some really crude bits though.

mlic what idiots you must be shattered.

cakes is F still teething? R wants to bite everything in sight. Just now.

kk how's london?

needles how did your party go? Did you get the dress sorted?

memphis did you kick dh's head in? Dp did that in his sisters when he was younger, in his defence (although it can't be defended) her bedroom door and the bathroom door are right next to each other. Still disgusting.

wss keep meaning to as if A's enjoying school?

hg and melissa how are the boys?

chulita how you been? Is dh home this weekend?

R is much better still has a cough and runny nose but such a huge difference. Js legs still sore but he's missing footy. So tired today so my fantastic dp has taken R to his mums so I'm going for a nap. I have to say he has been amazing recently really reminds me why I love him. Sorry for the soppy shit.

MalibuStac · 28/08/2011 14:34

dythlan meant to say if you need to talk feel free to pm.

memphis83 · 28/08/2011 16:10

stac kicked his head in verbally, I am still so angry I cant even look at him, we are barely talking, we were suppost to go to a family day in the village where I used to live today, everyone goes who I know, I couldnt face it, my friends would know something was up and they would find him absolutely disgusting, his friends on the other hand think it is funny, at my best friends engagement he said he felt lower class than all of them, well he wont fit in with them by doing that...sorry that ended up being a rant!
tsc please dont stay away from the thread.
dh we went to watch it yesterday, I think people are going to watch it who didnt really watch or get the series, i loved it, so funny I love childish humour, although my friend went and she laughed so much her boyfriend left the cinema as he was embarassed, i didnt find it that funny Grin

Its another good friends 30th on Saturday, they are having a garden party, dh isnt coming I was going to drive but I may go, get so wasted that I shit in his sock drawer! Ive just had a bath, L is out with dh, his poor teeth are giving him problems. I plan on baking some maid of honours and a carrot cake this weekend, ive never made either!

Chulita · 28/08/2011 16:14

dylthan I hope you can get some help from them, to ask for that much even if you had 3 'normal' years is hard enough, let alone when you factor children in there too. Good luck with it all, and always feel free to come on here and let off steam if you need to!

tsc fair enough, what you choose to do with F is entirely your business. Sometimes people (me included) can offer suggestions to deal with something when actually all you wanted was to have a whinge about it and not have yet another person tell you the 'cure all'. Now that we've all been warned, come back! and we'll try not to say anything

cake S has started biting, he gets me unawares and then laughs at my shriek Angry L will very occasionally lie but most often "did you hit S?" "yes but no"

memphis I hope your dh is in the doghouse and cooking you dinner today. That's shameful.

woodlands good practice for your next one Grin mealtimes are heavetimes in this house... Hope you had a good night despite the following morning!

mlic S goes straight for the road every time we go out the front. He can't help himself, out the door and into the road Angry I'm just glad our proper house has a gated garden (even if the gate's fallen off...)

stac he's not back this weekend, I think he's somewhere on Lulworth training ground digging holes or something Hmm He'll come back wanting to sign off for sure though so it might be the kick we need to find a proper job!

memphis83 · 28/08/2011 17:11

chulita him cook hahaha I dont want to be poisoned, he 'cooked' an easy meal when I was at work, breaded turkey steak, baked beans and go on have a guess.... I bet your thinking chips, waffles, wedges but no he did mash! I didnt say anything as he tried but I couldnt eat it, he is doing everything to please me today, he ran up 3 roads after ice cream van, and he has just gone on a search for ground almonds