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fraktious · 23/06/2011 13:07

So we don't scare the viroids on the antenatal thread with horror stories of no sleep, chomped boobs and endless laundry or make them envious with tales of cuteness....

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CuriosityCola · 31/12/2011 16:38

We have managed to squeeze ds's cotbed into our room. He sleeps for the first part of the night in there in his sleeping bag. Then the rest of the night in with dh and I in a double bed. Think if we weren't co-sleeping I would be a total zombie, but it's a squeeze.

What kind of crib is your dd in esk? Not really sure what to suggest. You might end up needing somewhere comfy for you in dd's room?

I have just read on a thread in sleeping how cotbeds can be used as an extension of co-sleeping. One side is removed and bed is pushed against it. I am thinking this could be a good temporary solution to my lack of bed space! Will practically step from hall onto bed though Grin Would you have room to do this esk?

CuriosityCola · 31/12/2011 16:41

Hope everyone has a happy new year! Hopefully one that says goodbye to the four month sleep regression very quickly!

GrinBlush

vallinnapod · 31/12/2011 18:15

Well 2011 brought us our gorgeous babies, 2012 will have to go some way to top that but a few full night's sleeps would be nice Grin

Happy New Year my lovelies! You are a fab bunch who have helped me loads over the past few months (and more!) I am really grateful for everything x

FeijoaVodkaPlease · 31/12/2011 21:57

I have a pile of pillows on the bed that I prop myself on and DD on the feeding pillow. This is why I keep falling asleep with her in my bed. Her habit of waking up just as I fall asleep makes things worse! Last night I kept dreaming about roast potatos and putting her back in her cot only to wake up and find her still in my arms!!! The 3rd time I woke up I actually managed to get her in her cot, rahter than dream it. Of course she woke up, hence the early wake up time. Thankfully I managed an hours nap later on Grin

Now however I have most of a bottle of wine in me and am trying not to let on to DH I'm pissed. Xmas Grin He wan'ts to go to bed. I do not.

This coming year has to be a better one, cause for it to be worse I'm don't think I could carry on! Thank you for being here for me to vent to this year my lovely viroids. MWAH (ps don't google the meaning of viroids!) xx

CuriosityCola · 31/12/2011 22:37

Haha, love the dreaming of roast potatoes!

Ranting on here and sharing advice has certainly helped keep some of my sanity. Thank you!

OhFraktiousTree · 01/01/2012 01:11

Loving the new name but what does it shorten to?!?!?

Happy New Year everyone. Who's going back to the JSing thread for round 2 this year? Wink

vallinnapod · 01/01/2012 09:37

LOL frak I'll join you but I have a horribly feeling we will need our two little frosties...as a result we are not bothering with contraception. I want a two-ish year age gap so I am assuming this will guarantee immediate pregnancy?! HmmGrin

CuriosityCola · 01/01/2012 16:02

We are technically back at jsing, so we prob should head back Grin. I miss Nelly, need to get her on our thread!

Fvp - also stands for first vice president. Grin

Went for a 90 minute walk today to encourage ds to snooze. He only slept for 20 minutes though Hmm. Was lovely family time though and had homemade soup ready for our return.

Has anyone made any new years resolutions?

Eskarina · 02/01/2012 11:05

Js as in ttc or at least "dont mind if it happens" ? Blimey CC you're brave.
We tried our first post dd js yesterday. Didn't work. Don't know if it's the scar tissue or just lack of practise. DH was lovely about it though.
We'd like a 2ish year gap, actually prob just under as I'd rather have a gap of 2 school years not 3. But that means ttc js from about dd's birthday. Eek! And that means I'd practically be going back to work pg. hmm.

CuriosityCola · 02/01/2012 18:02

Meant to post wink rather than smiley. We are actually like two teenagers trying to use condoms plusky again. We have had a few failed attempts for similar reasons. I naively thought I would be healed by the six week check. I probably could have done with a bit more warning about how long scarring takes to heal. From chats with my nct group there is only 1 person out of 8 of us that reports a regular sex life again. The rest of us have managed it about a handful of times Envy

OhFraktiousTree · 02/01/2012 20:53

We've managed it twice. Just too tired and a couple of times we've tried it's still uncomfortable and scarred Sad Still, I'm back on the wine now so that might help loosen me up a bit.

We're revisiting the idea in April when DS will be 1. Although I'm still fully BFing and no ERTD here still so if it's still that way in a few months it might take a while!

CuriosityCola · 02/01/2012 21:13

Frak I can't believe your ds is one in April. Where is the time going?

CuriosityCola · 02/01/2012 21:14

Can I be nosey and ask how long are you continuing breastfeeding for?

FeijoaVodkaPlease · 02/01/2012 22:25

Ohh Finest Vice Presidant. I like that Grin

I'm strangely Envy of all of you going back for round 2 of the JSing for a baby. I don't actually want another baby, but I do. I'm putting it down to hormones and lack of sleep Hmm

Val it took me all blimmin day to work out what you were on about with Frosties! Hope you don't need them, but good to know they are there if you do.

CC I'm still bfing and plan to as long as I can. Can't be arsed faffing with bottles. DD was 6 months yesterday.

vallinnapod · 02/01/2012 23:38

Sorry for the 'frosties' confusion! They are our frozen embryos Grin We then get in to the, do we risk having them both put back and having twins? I feel we were so, so lucky to get DS on out first attempt. Although miscarried his twin...just hope it happens naturally but not just yet IYSWIM?!

We are EBF and no idea if ERTD will reappear (the whole reason we needed IVF was my lack of ovulation) but told that it is about as 'safe' as the withdrawal method in terms of contraception.

OhFraktiousTree · 02/01/2012 23:44

CC no plans to stop Wink I would live to let him self wean but not sure I have the patience as we would like another sometime in the not too distant future!

vallinnapod · 03/01/2012 00:27

Forgot to add today was our first shag, let alone JS since DS arrived. Wot Frak said re: tiredness. Also, I notices at my medical a couple of weeks ago, as they smeared me, an odd tightness at the top, can only assume bit of scar tissue which was obvious today too Blush Not great but a hurdle to be over BlushBlush

CuriosityCola · 03/01/2012 09:56

I am due a smear and a little nervous about it.

That's a really big decision for you to make Val. Hopefully nature will do it for you.

I was aiming for 6 months of breastfeeding, but don't really want to stop then anymore. I think weaning will be a big enough change without stopping bf too. What are everyones thoughts on blw vs purée vs a mix of the two? I have the weaning talk in a couple of weeks at nhs but really should do some reading on it before then. Don't think ds is ready yet and I'm too shattered to think about it properly at the moment.

Ds was awake and feeding on/off from 4am this morning. He is having a great snooze now though Envy

On a completely separate note. Do you all think thank you cards should be written 'from' dc for Christmas presents?

Eskarina · 03/01/2012 10:41

Hmm. I was always planning on ebf for as long as it works, probably looking at about a year. DH certainly still thinks that way. But d has formula in the evenings now, and I'm starting to droop under the very frequent wakings - every single hour last night and the night before - and I wonder if more ff or hungry baby ff would help. DH dead against it though so won't do it without his agreement.
If I knew hunger was def the cause I would consider early weaning too, but then read around and couldn't find any real research that suggested it actually helped. Plus I don't feed dd every time she wakes, generally just 3 times, so it isn't necessarily hunger waking her anyway. I just wish it would stop! I know I shouldn't compare but even the youngest baby in our nct group, 5 weeks younger than dd, has started sleeping through and I'm beginning to wonder what I've done to deserve this.

My own feeling on weaning is that BLW is probably for us, but not in it's militant form of never feeding from a spoon, I disagree that all spoon feeding is force feeding!

I think it's sweet for thank you notes to be from dc. I felt a bit awkward writing them from us after she was born, like I was about 6 again! I do need to get on with them though. The invitations to dd's dedication service should come through today so I can post them along with the thankyous

Weather is awful today. I thought I might take dd down to clinic to be weighed and see whether the HV had anything vaguely sensible to say about sleep, but I don't fancy taking the buggy out in this weather, and I'm too tight to pay the £3 to park at the hospital for 20 mins!

CuriosityCola · 03/01/2012 12:09

It kind of makes me feel better Esk as most of the babies I know are sleeping through the night. Many of them 7pm-7am Envy. From reading on here though I'm starting to wonder if it's true. Ds is same age as your dd with a very similar sleep pattern so I assume it is just a stage. From what I have read they should come out of this growth spurt by 5 months, but it seems ages away!

Agreed that early weaning doesn't seem to make a difference. One of the things that has kept me bf is my friends baby is the same as ds (similar temperament) but formula fed. She doesn't have the luxury of feeding whilst snoozing though and is still being woken up hourly Sad

Dh is coming round to the idea of me feeding for longer. Think I'm going to go attend bf clinic/group as I think I will be the only one in my circle who is (has) gone past six months bf.

I'm leaning towards blw. Ds received three sets of spoons from different people as part of Christmas presents and I noticed that mil keeps giving him a baby spoon to play with when we visit. Grin Oh, also as given gigantic box of milk buttons for ds Shock. I had to eat get rid of them. Blush

CuriosityCola · 03/01/2012 12:10

*was

CuriosityCola · 03/01/2012 12:14

Product recommendation alert: I was given wipes www.cheekywipes.com/ as a gift for ds. They are fab!

Can you tell the weather is rubbish and I have nothing better to do than ramble on here GrinBlush

CuriosityCola · 03/01/2012 12:15

Try again www.cheekywipes.com/

Eskarina · 03/01/2012 12:45

It's just brightened up a bit here, now it's too late to take dd to clinic.

I've found this blog really helpful in explaining some of the weirdness that's going on in dd's head!

FeijoaVodkaPlease · 03/01/2012 14:12

I've been BLW. I did purees with DS and I have to say that BLW is just as messy as purees, but there is no faffing about with extra food as she just eat what we eat and takes care of herself while eat. She does like some things off a spoon (baby porridge, yoghurt etc), but I just load the spoon and she does the rest. Apparently giving them control of the spoon once loaded is stil BLW, I just think of it was the path of least resistence. The good thing is because she is trying lots of new things and has no preconcieved notions of likes and dislikes, DS is seeing her eats things he often won't try and is now at least trying them. Also as they eat their dinner together at 5pm I've bought the BLW cook book in an effort to make them better dinners every night.

Either way with weaning the thing to remember is that until 12 months, milk is still their main sorce of sustinance and food is just for learning new tastes and textures, not to fill them up with.

If it helps I know lots of people who ff their babies and their babies were still rubbish sleepers. It really is a myth that formula will make them sleep through. It is hard though. DD stopped sleeping through at 13 weeks and I feel like a zombie most days.