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hmmSleep · 06/05/2011 10:46

OK, so I sneakily added the word 'thread's', but went with SGJ's suggestion Grin

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rollerbaby · 04/08/2011 16:10

Hello everyone, it's a while since I was in here last (bit crap at keeping up I know). Thanks for the good wishes - can't quite believe it, but the doctor tells me it's true!!!! March 2012 here we come!

Hard to believe in another 8 months my first will be walking and not really a baby any more. No idea how I will cope, so not even trying to think about it.

Thanks looopy for remembering me! x

Lainey1981 · 04/08/2011 21:37

Hi honeymoo, huge congrats to you! There are 13 months getween me and my dsis and although we fought like mad as teenagers, we were also the best of friends as we were into the same things at the same time.
Think it will be a while before i am ready for another but still a bit Envy at the thought of a newborn. Smile
hope everyone is coping with school hols.
All fine here, off to Cromer for a few days tomorrow, then back for a few days and going again the following week. Really looking forward to the sea air and a game of croquet lol

AWimbaWay · 10/08/2011 16:10

Congratulations honeymoo, I thought I was mad with 18 months between my first two! Small age gaps are great really Smile.

AWimbaWay · 10/08/2011 16:12

hmmSleep here btw! Fancied a namechange.

Babybean1 · 10/08/2011 23:03

Congrats honeymoo....just had a peak and if I remember rightly there was tiany on here before right?? Well she's also due in march so looks like we are slacking ladies :o

addictediam · 11/08/2011 10:06

Hi ladies, I havent been here since dd was born! So i doubt any of you remembet me Grin

Congratulations honeymoo, I'm also expecting another but in cough January cough Shock looking forward to the challange!

How is everyone else?

bunnygirl80 · 11/08/2011 11:06

Good grief addicted you moved fast Grin Congratulations Smile

The snot monster seems to have made a comeback today - poor William has been sneezing, pouring snot and generally grizzly. I tried to help him out using the snot sucker, but when I went to empty it I lost concentration, moved my hand, and squirted the contents straight into his mouth BlushGrin

He's also developed eyes only for DH at the moment. If he can hear DH in another room he races over there to go and find him. He also cried when I tried to take him home from nursery yesterday......I could start to get a complex Smile

addictediam · 11/08/2011 13:27

oh bunny that is gross.

dd is a daddys girl too, she likes cudles and races to him whenever she sees him. he's currently working from home (due to riots) and she keeps banging on the conservatory door to get him to come and play with her Sad if he's here much longer we will have to get a big screan to put up so she cant see him.

although i have to say i'm the only one she wants when she is tired, hungry or in pain Grin

SGJ · 11/08/2011 17:40

Congratulations pregnant ladies! Tiny babies, goodness me. Not for a while for us I think. On a related note, finally got my period, only 7 weeks after last breastfeed! I was actually quite excited about it!

Loooopy · 11/08/2011 21:00

so that's 3 from this thread expecting 2012 babies?! crikey, i know i'd like one but my body isn't back to normal yet, not had a period so think i may be waiting a while yet....but part of me is envious of those with ickle babies growing!

DS loves his Daddy too, he always gets big beaming smiles, i think DS gets bored of me, but Daddy is a novelty as he only sees him at weekends and if he is lucky briefly in the mornings before DP leaves for work at 7am

AWimbaWay · 11/08/2011 21:53

January addicted! You must have become pregnant when your dd was only 5 months? Shock, both impressive and mad Grin, congratulations and hope you're feeling well.

bunnygirl80 · 11/08/2011 23:06

sgj I was about to ask how long it's taken people's periods to come back. We're now a month after the last BF and still no sign of anything - shouldn't complain really as I'm quite happy without the hassle, but would just like to know everything's working again.

looopy I think one of the reasons Will's suddenly become obssessed with DH is that he's the fun parent while I'm the one that sounds like a broken record constantly saying no, be careful, get down from there

addictediam · 12/08/2011 06:54

Awimbaway, yep dd was 5 months, it was only half planned! Dd took 3 years and many mc to concieve and we didn't want a huge age gap so we thought we wouldnt start swi just yet but we stopped using contraception and almost instantly I fell pg! It was alittle bit of a shock.

Looopy thanks for your help on my other thread, hopefully a rputine will help a lot.

bunnygirl80 · 12/08/2011 07:40

addicted that must have been a bit of a shock after all your ttc difficulties the first time round. You haven't quite managed to beat my dental nurses's record though - she only has an 11 month age gap between her 2 DCs!

bunnygirl80 · 12/08/2011 08:45

addicted I've posted on your other thread

Loooopy · 12/08/2011 08:50

addictediam i also meant to mention, DS doesn't get a nightly bath either, if he is lucky he gets one on a Wednesday afternoon, after nap but before tea, and then he always gets one on a Sunday morning after his morning nap or before his afternoon nap. i know it's not in the "ideal list of a million things you should do at bed time, but he goes hyper in the bath, so it is NOT a good thing for us to give him a bath before bed as he won't settle then lol. Besides, we grow our own veg so i also need to fit watering the garden into the things to do in the evening, plus picking and processing anything that is ready to be used from the garden (we freeze a lot) and also making sure our chickens are ok, the cat has enough food and water, and finally that we have something to eat too...so housework is low on our list too!! Re the routine, if DS does not get his food and sleeps at those times, he is really miserable and crys/screams/tantrums, if we stick to the times he is a delight to be around, which in itself perks you up and makes life a better place to be, hope you find a routine that works for you and your little one x (and get your DH/DP to help make lots of food for the freezer this weekend :) )

AWimbaWay · 12/08/2011 08:58

Yes, Lottie is only bathed 3 times a week, I was actually advised to bath less frequently by the gp because of her eczema, the water dries her skin. Have also posted an essay on your other thread addicted.

Loooopy · 12/08/2011 14:06

here is the curry recipe i used that DS now loves (from AK's book)

We did 4 times everything so that had lots for the freezer as that means just 1 squash and 1 can of milk, made sense to us!

ingredients
1 tbsp sunflower oil (we used olive oil), 1 small onion, peeled/chopped, optional 1/4tsp fresh grated ginger (we didn't bother) 1 1/2 tsp mild curry paste eg Korma (we couldn't find this so used a tikka paste and when multiplying the recipe up by 4 we actually used 4 tsp rather than 6 as DP said tikka is stronger) 100 ml water or unsalted chicken stock (used heinz baby stock cube - which is fine in 400 ml of water) 100 ml coconut milk, 4 dried apricots roughly chopped, 1/4 of a butternut squash, peeled and finely diced - about 150g, 1 small chicken breast, cut into small cubes (we used thigh/leg portions as higher iron content in these than in a breast)

method
Heat the oil in a saucepan and saute onion/ginger for 5 minutes and then add the curry paste and stir-fry for 30 seconds, then add all the other ingredients and bring to the boil. Then reduce the heat, cover and simmer for about 12 minutes until the chicken is cooked and the squash is tender. Puree it in a food processor to the desired consistency.

SGJ · 13/08/2011 00:51

Bunny, I gradually reduced BF over 5 weeks & then 7 weeks after that got period, so it's felt like it's been a long time coming! Actually I've felt a bit 'odd' every time I've had a day away from Jessica so I wasn't expecting to get one until October when I went back to work (hormonal maybe?!?) but haven't you gone back, at least part time already? Or have I confused you with someone else? I think I'm quite the exception though & that most people got theirs fairly soon after stopping BF x

bunnygirl80 · 13/08/2011 06:20

SGJ I weaned Will over a period of about 8wks, he had his last BF over 4 weeks ago, but it took another 2 weeks to stop being so engorged at the end of each day that I needed to hand express when I was in the shower. So maybe I've only stopped producing BFing hormones in the last couple of weeks. I think if I don't get any sign of a period in another 4 weeks, then I'll head to the GP. My cycles were all over the place when we were ttc so it might be worth getting it checked.

addictediam · 13/08/2011 09:07

looopy that looks really nice...not just for dd, i might just have to make it for the whole family!

Loooopy · 13/08/2011 10:52

lol addictediam you might be right, whilst it was cooking i had DP and his parents salivating over it and saying that it wouldn't be a problem if DS didn't like it as they'd happily eat it! (as a non-curry eater i am determined DS was going to love it, and he does phew :) )

if you have (or can buy) an electric steamer it makes life so much easier and keeps the food more nutritious. Things we've done include putting some chicken thighs and drumsticks in the oven to cook, then filling the steamer with a mixture of new potatoes and carrot in the bottom layer, broccoli and cauliflower in the second layer, and then put a salmon fillet in the top layer with onion/garlic/peas or sliced runner beans. Whilst it's all cooking , make a decent quantity of cheese sauce (200ml milk, 20g flour 20g butter and 8 tablespoons of cheese i think - doing it from memory right now and we also add a decent sprinkling of tesco's italian herbs).

When cooked, mix the chicken with some of the potatoes, peas or beans, carrot, and some heinz chicken baby gravy, or use some of the water from the base of the steamer, to thin it to the right consistency.

Then mix the salmon with some of the potatoes, broccoli/cauliflower, peas or beans, garlic, carrot and onion and add some full fat milk to thin it to the right consistency.

Then use some of the potatoes, garlic and broccoli/cauliflower and onion and mix it with some of the cheese sauce.

If you have time, we also wash and finely slice up 2 to 3 leeks and cook these in a frying pan for a few minutes with a small amount of butter, and then mix these with potatoes, garlic, and the rest of the cheese sauce.

That gives us 4 different sets of meals for the freezer for DS which takes us less than an hour to do (it possibly helps that we grow our own veg so often have lots of fresh stuff on hand, and tubs of chopped onions, beans etc in freezer and tonnes of potatoes stored in the garage and lots of garlic hanging in storage too lol) And he loves them all :)

Also tried the lentil/sweet potato one from AK and the butternut squash pasta one, lentil one took a few weeks but he enjoys it now, the pasta was an instant hit. Also done a mackeral dish for him (which was something we had for tea) - grilled mackeral which we then flaked and deboned for him, mixed in the food processor with new potatoes, mixed with the following that i cooked on the hob - dash of olive oil, finely chopped red/green/orange pepper, chopped onion/garlic, courgettes sliced and quartered, sliced runner beans, chopped tomatoes, italian herbs, paprika and ground black pepper. He loved it. Will try doing it next time with Wahoo steaks, as they are an oily fish too but should be a lot less hassle to prepare than deboning an entire mackeral!!! (Wahoo steaks came from Regal Fish website, but DP couldn't find them in the freezer....)

Have also done a roast duck dinner which he loved, same principle as the chicken one, and DP did a beef casserole but DS wasn't as keen on that but we are perservering.

Hope these give you a few more ideas so you can embrace weaning and make it an enjoyable experience for you both :)

addictediam · 13/08/2011 11:31

dd loves food, she will eat anything! I find it difficult feeding her because of her allergies which are alot better now, but its still scary. in therory its really easy to replace milk with her special milk, but i'm just so scared that she will react to something new, i have difficulty giving her just foods that i know she is fine with.

i did go and see the hv about it but her advice was crap - just try her and take her to a&e if theres a problem Hmm yep that realy helped!

but i am feeling more positive about it all, i want to give her new foods and i want to be able to let her eat whatever she wasnts and have a 'if shes allergic to it, then we give her her medicine and take her to hospital' attitude, but when faced with the decision to give an omlette or bottle of milk i struggle to choose the omlette.

thanks for the recipies, i will definatly make them up and see what happens.

Loooopy · 13/08/2011 11:46

what allergies does she have?

we are pretty sure DS has had reflux since birth but we are slowly getting there, but he is still no good with lumps, so having to use food processor for everything. we tried scrambled eggs but no joy, texture made him be sick, which is a shame as we have chickens.

Only finger food we can do is organix puffs, and fresh fruit in a nuby nibbler. So we are scared of what to give him too, but hoping he grows out of it soon!

addictediam · 13/08/2011 12:45

She has reflux, but not nearly that bad. She is definatly allergic to milk but has reacted to combinations of food rather than individual ingredients so were not really sure what else iyswim.