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AuldAlliance · 28/01/2011 14:44

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bebemooneedsabreak · 06/02/2011 19:50

I found too BB that the stresses of my normal days seemed to make the sickness worse, but on days which were different and I had less stress overall, well, I seemed better. I other thing to consider is if you're managing to eat when you're just starting to get hungry rather than waiting until 'the last minute' that might be what's changed things too.

Bicnod · 07/02/2011 08:41

Puzzle - how's your chest now?

BB - I spent the first trimester desperate for the nausea to stop and then when it did (for a few hours/days) desperate for it to come back. How are you feeling now?

Bebe - any news on the health insurance? [worried]

Boff - I woke myself up sobbing the night before last because I had such a vivid dream about my beloved Grandad (who died 14 years ago). No idea what triggered it. Weird.

Auld - hope you had that bubbly.

Schulte - when we meeting up? I've invited Puzzle and WildRumpus round to yours as well Wink - or you are all welcome to my flat although a bit further for everyone to come - we should do tea and cake SOOOOOOOOOOOOOON. O keeps asking about H - I think he took a bit of a shine to her Grin

Today I am mostly feeling like poo on a stick Sad - nasty cold, coughing, snotting and shivers. Bleurgh. Not going into work so, on the upside, will be reacquainting myself with the likes of Jeremy Kyle Grin

O is brilliant at the moment - he has slept through the last 6 nights ShockShockShock and is chatty, cuddly and generally fabulous. Feel a bit sad that soon it won't just be me and my little boy anymore (but obviously over the moon that there will be another one).

bebemooneedsabreak · 07/02/2011 09:37

Still no insurance...we're still waiting for additional stuff (we apparently have no control over) to get done. Hopefully by the end of this week we'll have ourselves properly sorted. Only now dh seems to have lost his banking card (2nd time in so many weeks -first time was 3 days before we left). It is very odd that it should happen as he's very exact when we deals with cards/wallet and keys. Sigh.

Had a fairly nice weekend here, it got to about 12'C and we went into Munich and went for a drive to see the mtns. Such beautiful countryside. I can see why my home state got settled by Germans actually because there are parts (not the mtns) that look JUST like home. :)

Bicnod hope your feeling better soon, BB I hope you're feeling worse Wink Grin today to help put your mind at rest.

PuzzleRocks · 07/02/2011 09:44

Bicnod I know what you mean. I have been feeling guilty recently that Holly gets all of my attention. So...on Saturday Ellen and I went out for lunch together. It was lovely to spend some time on my own with her and eat chocolate cheesecake.

I hope we are all well this morning? My chest is still sore but not too bad.

BabyBolat · 07/02/2011 10:48

Still no sickness Sad. And I have my appetite back Sad Thought I was nauseous yesterday evening but then think it might be just getting myself upset. Boobs still saw though Smile x

Told DH I was worried last night he said, if you're not bleeding you are fine! Such a sympathetic sole Wink

Bebe, K has been so lovely since we have been here and a bit of a mummy's boy so it has made me really sad that he wont have all my cuddles. But I am going to make a real effort to share my time and make sure he has mummy only time too, especially as all being well the little bean will arrive as he has just gone off to nursery so he may feel a little pushed away.

Fingers crossed for insurance. I sound just like your DH, super organised normally but when I need to find my driving license / bank card / marriage certificate, it is not in the place it is supposed to be!!! Grin my new favourite phrase which is driving everyone crazy is 'It's not my fault!'

K has the runs. Nice. Even that isn't making me feel sick!

BoffinMum · 07/02/2011 13:44

BB why not go to the Fetal Medicine Centre for a very early scan, if it helps you get to terms with all this?

BabyBolat · 07/02/2011 14:54

Well I am in Turkey for another week so am not paying international medical prices. Sure it's fine. Am feeling better about it today.

Schulte · 07/02/2011 15:40

Hullo

Yes why don't you all come round to mine? Grin

I haven't got a pool though!

Hope everyone is feeling appropriately sick/not sick today!

Bicnod · 07/02/2011 15:47

Schulte have replied to your FB message - yay for cakey meet ups Grin

Still feeling like poo (just sneezed all over the laptop) but better than this morning.

BB I honestly think the symptoms come and go in the early weeks. Fingers crossed for you lovely x

BabyBolat · 07/02/2011 17:47

Thanks Bic, am feeling much better today about it all. After all I am only 5 weeks and this time last time I wasn't even sick at all! So just enjoying not feeling rough part and eating lots of food that is bad for me but according to my mil, good for the baby! xxx

BabyBolat · 07/02/2011 17:48

hope everyone is ok xx

ZuluWarrior · 07/02/2011 19:24

GingerSarah - April 6th
Bicnod - July 14th
ZuluWarrior - July 26th
BebeMoo - late August
BabyBolat - ????

Grin

Finally had a scan. The race is on Bic! The last one was a week early... Smile.

Bloody hell BB, you're as bad as Bicnod. STOP WORRYING!!!

Puzzle hope you're continuing to feel better.

BoffinMum · 07/02/2011 22:11

Boffin: Never again, renewed fanjo like a 16 year old. Grin

bebemooneedsabreak · 08/02/2011 09:03

lol Boffin

PuzzleRocks · 08/02/2011 09:31

Good morning

bebemooneedsabreak · 08/02/2011 09:34

Morning Puzz

How's it going today?

bebemooneedsabreak · 08/02/2011 14:24

God I've felt weird all day after being sick last night and now I've got spotting again. Confused :(

bebemooneedsabreak · 08/02/2011 16:06

called dh and he said it would make sense that I'd spot now and again if it was a broken blood vessel and maybe even bleed. We're going to watch it closely and he said if I feel like I'm deteriorating or I actually start bleeding properly then we'll go back in. In the meantime he said he's going to get on the back of the guy that's supposed to be getting our insurance etc sorted.
(this pregnancy if nothing else makes me wish I was back in the UK, why couldn't it be the nice straightforward one I had with Moo??)

bebemooneedsabreak · 08/02/2011 17:11

Want your opinions, Moo likes watching Monsters Inc. and I don't have a problem with most of the movie as it resolves itself quite nicely and she seems unaffected by the baddies and the parts which make her nervous she comes over and seeks reassurance.
The short 'For the Birds,' on the other hand, I worry abt a little. (As a quick reminder: the little birds on a power line are a bit sassy abt the big bird that comes along...in the end they end up embarrassed because all their feathers come off) I feel strange abt her watching it because it shows how people often pick on others/bully those who are different from themselves (it's more sophisticated badness in my opinion than the baddies in the actual film).
Is it silly?
Would you just talk abt it/make comments to help her understand? Or just let it go to sit in her brain and when she comes across it later in life deal with it?
I needn't (obviously) let her watch it, tho she does ask often after the initial film to watch 'Burds.'

bebemooneedsabreak · 09/02/2011 08:46

I went to bed immediately after we had supper. And slept pretty much until 6.30 when dd woke up. (2nd night in the row she's managed to sleep thru the night here- in a big bed no less) I feel a bit better and have had no more spotting. Dh told me to try and stay relaxed today, but he's had a terrible time trying to get himself sorted for work this morning...his things keep going missing which is very strange for him. He was stomping around yelling to himself abt lost items. You'd think in a smaller place with SO MUCH less stuff we'd not be having these problems.

PuzzleRocks · 09/02/2011 09:12

I think just let it go. Ellen had a nigtmare a few months ago because of E.T. (where the men in HazMat suits come into the house) which she has watched since she was 18mths. A lot doesn't register until they are a bit older.

BabyBolat · 09/02/2011 21:12

Hello Hello,

Bebe how is it all now?

On films, K watches Shrek the Halls and gets scared when Santa eats gingy's girlfriend (well that said he did! When he watched it last week, he started laughing at that part!!) She's probably too young to understand most of it and as she grows up you will teach her right from wrong so she will know that certain actions are not nice.

Puzz how's the chest??

Well it's drama, drama, drama in the Bolat foreign household this week...

K was poorly on Monday (temp of 39.1) so we took him to the local hospital dr. 'He has a throat infection' - Really I ask, he hasn't been holding his throat, he is not hoarse, are you sure? 'Yes, yes, take (and pay for) this prescription that has a million and one things and then give him everything AND come back for penicillin injections everyday' hmmm. So we give him the syrup, suppositories (even though I don't believe in them and they give me the creeps) and two days of injections which I personally object to but DH wants to do them. Meanwhile his temp goes up to 39.2 the next morning. Treck back to Dr Stupid, 'don't worry they say, it will take a while to kick in?' - Yes but surely it shouldn't be getting worse?!?!

ANYWAY - yesterday evening his temp went to 39.6 and he was like a little limpet. 'Shall we go back to the hospital?' AH NO (from both DH and I). I called our travel insurance company and got the details of the nearest private hospital we are covered for and drove the 30 minutes to get there. By the time we arrived K's temp was 39.9, he was vomiting, not focusing on anything and just not 'there'. To make matters worse a red pin prick rash came out over his body from the neck up and down do his hips. It was horrendous, I thought he was dying (yes I know I tend to overreact!) but it was like my insides were being ripped out watching him there.

The lovely, lovely team took one look at him, took him straight to emergency and put him cooling blankets, gave him a cold shower and put him in his wet PJs. The pead dr came, was brilliant with him (given that K was screaming at the top of his lungs when they were doing the exam and blood tests), explained to me in English what was happening and settled us in for the night. K was on a drip for about 15 hours to cool his body down and get the antibiotics in him quick smart.

Tests show he has a severe viral infection (funny his throat is fine) and the sheer temperature of his body cause the rash. He has been monitored all day at the hospital and has a course of antibiotics to help kill anything left. Despite looking like a pin cushion, tired and clingy, he is much better and signs of my little boy there (most notably jumping off my lap when the nurse offered him a lollypop and asking for 'SHREK' at the top of his lungs!

Fingers crossed he carries on improving and we can fly home on Friday.

Moral of the story. Make sure you hug your babies every day. I thought I was going to lose mine yesterday and all I could think about was 'I haven't given him any hugs today' Sad

On a happier note, the hospital room we had was AMAZING. Better than any hotel I have stayed in Grin. Shame we had to leave it really Wink

BabyBolat · 09/02/2011 21:15

Oh and my nausea came back - just as K was throwing up over me! Grin. No actual sickness yet but that horrid wanting to vom feeling is back Smile

bebemooneedsabreak · 10/02/2011 01:50

things up and down in the bebe German haus...currently down: sickness, chocolate ?? colored spotting and faintness (might be because I'm so hungry)

bebemooneedsabreak · 10/02/2011 07:05

BB that sounds utterly terrifying by the way!I think I would go back to the other doctor and give him a piece of my mind as he's put a child a risk by not being thorough. Thank God your little one is ok and the other hospital was so quick to react.