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July 2010:Our actions get dafter, all for the reward of giggles and laughter!

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kkfairybrains · 28/11/2010 13:55

new thread! thanks once again to spireal for the name!

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Xmasstac · 22/12/2010 09:06

memphis its the huggies pure i have been using and will keep using them. Try to have a good time hum the pnd will go away hun. Hows the tabs going? I have a flat tyre so i'm stuck in. R has the cold, bad cough and ds was sick last night so he's at home and i have loads of wrapping to do x

MyLifeIsFeelingFestive · 22/12/2010 09:33

Productive morning - I have sat and put a load of photos onto a usb stick to go with the digital photo frame I got for mil for Christmas. Got a load more photos off the camera afterwards though, I forgot they were on there but I've wrapped it now! Also wrapped dh's aunt's present.

Got to have a shower now, then deliver some presents/cards, then couselling at 10.45, then need to brace myself and go to Tesco (dreading that).

memphis I looked in every shop in the retail park and only found two! I hated the first one (in TK Max, it looked cheap and nasty and I knew I'd never put him in it) and the other was in Boots which I bought. I didn't really want another cream one, but it was the best out of the two, and rather that than him not have one!

How's F today cake?

DesperateHousewifeIsXmasCrazy · 22/12/2010 09:49

stac yeah D was 9 days early but Im still going to wean him next week, I dont think 9 days makes all that much difference.
I cant help you with the lumps as Dylan is going to be given whole bits of food, as Im a bit of a BLW freak fan Xmas Grin

I cant spend another day indoors so I might brave it out a bit later, the roads dont look that bad, its just getting out of my road, its a sheet of ice and uphill.

Xmasstac · 22/12/2010 10:02

i hadnt even thought bout rileigh being born early regarding weaning i think that would only matter with prem babies whereas at 38wks she was 'full term' dh i cant get out have 2 sick kids and a flat tyre.

Wonder if i can incorporate blw with the puree? May need to phone hv

memphis83 · 22/12/2010 10:08

mlic i got my last one in M & S but they havent got anymore in out boots dont have any if i dont get one after xmas i will get one online! good luck at Tesco later i did my shop yesterday but need some wine and bread roll so will walk to Tesco on xmas eve about 6am to get them!
stac your poor ds hes had a rough time of it with being ill! the tablets are ok its just something like this has set me back again dh has agreed to tell his mum to come to us boxing day rather than us go there, at least then im on my own turf and if it gets too much i can bugger off into kitchen

CrimboCakeandRoses · 22/12/2010 10:14

mlic still really not good, thanks for asking tho!

not really eating at all since sun (apart from apparently at nursery yday Hmm), not even his advent chocs and as he's a slight little thing anyway, I'm starting to panic about him losing weight too now.

Arrrrghhhh, I hate hate hate molars.

catch up properly later as need to get sorted before a friend visits shortly

kkfairybrains · 22/12/2010 10:26

Cakes its a nikon coolpix or something like that. I haven't liked it since the day i got it but got it in new york so couldn't just pop in and change it! our pictures now are mostly at home and of ellie wherever we are. If i'm going out on a night i'll keep my other camera for that. I don't really know how much i want to spend as o don't have a clue how much the kind of camera that i want costs! but i'd be willing to save for a bit for one but don't want something top of the price range iyswim.

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Xmasstac · 22/12/2010 12:18

a good bit of advice I was given when i had pnd memphis was to take each day as a new day, just cos you had one bad day they are not all like that. So you had a crappy day the other day and maybe feel low today but tomorrow could be fab. Think its the glass is half full attitude iyswim. Also at this time of year everyone is stressed and you are doing the crimbo dinner so its no wonder your had a wee set back. I did xmas dinner the year I had it for about 16 people, it was manic lol. Yeah ds has had a crappy time at the moment think his immune system must be low, from headaches to the cold to now this bloody sickness bug always the same,

cakes poor F hope he feels better soon, have you called the doc about the stool sample?

MyLifeIsFeelingFestive · 22/12/2010 13:13

I'll let cake do the camera talk cos I'm no expert, all I will say is I have a Sony Cyber-Shot and I really like it.

cake stop panicking. You said yesterday 'Felix was happy all day at nursery, was slow to eat but otherwise normal'. He is eating, just not like he usually does. If he was really ill he'd be more than a little bit off his food, with a little bit of a temp (38.4 is a high temperature, but you don't usually need to worry until it's 39C or over as that's what's classed as a fever). I honestly don't think it's anything but teeth, but you've done the right thing takng a sample if you're worried, so wait and see if that shows anything. But in the mean time, stop panicking

I'd be happier on my own turf too memphis, think you've done the right thing there. And I was going to go to Tesco after my appt but it was snowing really hard and I was concerned about the kids getting soaked in the trolley and being more miserable than usual all the way round the shop. Will maybe go this afternoon or tomorrow. I'm out tonight Shock but worst care scenario I will go when the kids are in bed tomorrow night.

CrimboCakeandRoses · 22/12/2010 13:21

ok kk here's a starter for ten - feel free to ask questions if this doesn't make sense or you want more detail!

Until the last year or so the two digital camera types available were:

DSLRs - which pros/serious amateur photographers use.
Excellent results, flexibility to be more creative (e.g. play with depth of field to get blurry backgrounds), control over all elements of the photo (light, speed etc), you ca also buy numerous lenses and filters to get different effects (e.g. zooming to get distance wildlife shots). Downsides are that they're expensive and big and heavy plus you do need to know what you're doing to get the best out of them.

Compacts - this is the type you currently have and they're good for everyday snapshots. They're much cheaper than DSLRs and really range in quality depeding on what you spend. They're usually small and light and easy to use but you're very limited in terms of control over the finished photo.

And then more recently a new type has been developed which is a hybrid of the two above, it's called the CSC (compact system camera) and it's the type I use. It's much smaller than a DSLR but gives you similar control and results - the technology isn't yet good enough for pros but is great for serious amateur photographers. You can buy different lenses and filters just like with DSLRs. The downsides are that they're still bigger and heavier than a compact and they're expensive.

Your choice should probably be between a Compact and a CSC. If you go for the former then I've always found the higher end Sony Cybershots give good results. If you fancy a CSC then I'd go for either the Olympus Pen EPL1 (smallish and with a retro look, it's what i have) or the Panasonic Lumix (bigger and heavier).

It would also be worth downloading something like Google's Picasa as it's free and very quick and simple to use to fix red-eye, crop, make improvements to contrast etc and also email or file photos into albums.

CrimboCakeandRoses · 22/12/2010 13:28

hah x-posted mlic and both mentioned sony cyber-shots!

thank you mlic. i needed that talking to as i've been getting really worked up over it Blush I'm sorry I probably sound totally neurotic whereas I'm really the opposite, very calm and sensible about everything except F and A!

I must have offered F every type of food in the house at breakfast but he'd only drink and nibble at a cream cracker (because he thinks its naughty as they're DH's!) I'm going to keep giving him high-calorie drinks for now and hope he starts to eat more soon. He's just said yes when I offered him beans on toast for lunch so let's see...

WinterChillita · 22/12/2010 13:37

kkfairy there should be a 'red-eye' setting on your flash which will stop anyone getting glowing devil eyes in your photos. DH had a Coolpix til it died on him.

cake fwiw L is exactly the same. She's not eating/very mumsy/crying all the time/living off Nurofen and Calpol. She also has a stonking cold and a chesty cough, woke up the other night unable to breathe and wheezed for about 40 mins. I was so close to calling an ambulance cos her chest was caving inwards with every breath and she couldn't even cry or say 'mummy' she was struggling that much. Eventually I calmed her down and she was a bit better but I was terrified! The only reason I didn't call them was cos she was so upset I thought they'd just tell me to get her to calm down first. I put some Anbesol on her gums and I can feel at least 2 of the molars very close under her gums so it's the last push now but man alive! They're horrendous..
L also had a night terror last night, I was so upset by it. She was screaming 'mummy, mummy' over and over but when I went in to cuddle her she kicked me and was writhing around in bed just screaming my name :( It lasted about 10 mins and then she went back to sleep but it was horrible!

mlic I need to get to the shops too but I'm not sure the car will get out of the drive at the mo and I need too much to walk. Hope you get out soon, have fun tonight!

kkfairybrains · 22/12/2010 13:50

Thanks for that cakes! im going to look through the spec of the one you have and bring it shopping with me! one of my friends actually has the cybershot and its actually very good photographs too. Just mad i didn't get that one when buying mine as it was the same price but i was clueless! Hope F Eats his beans on toast!
Well i think we have tooth number 1 here. God love her she's been crying in pain and has big red dry cheeks. So gave her calpol and ambesol and its calmed her down a lot buy she just wants cuddles. And can see a spot of white where its breaking through!
Stac they were out looking yeterday and oir whole area is out of water and its looking like it will be this time next week before we have it Sad. how's your two now?

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CrimboCakeandRoses · 22/12/2010 14:46

actually kk, chulita makes a good point re red eye reduction - i meant to ask if you had yours switched on but got caught up in describing new ones!

It's worth seeing if you're happy with the results if you have that setting switched on (if you don't already) as it may mean you'll be happy with your current camera and save some money!

CrimboCakeandRoses · 22/12/2010 14:49

chulita god, things sound awful with L there. Has made me realise it could be worse with F.

So sad about the night terrors - poor mite and poor you Sad

let's hope they both get new teeth for xmas!

DesperateHousewifeIsXmasCrazy · 22/12/2010 15:17

YAY! One born every Minute is BACK! Its on at 8pm channel 4 on xmas eve AND xmas day Grin
(can you tell I like it?)

DesperateHousewifeIsXmasCrazy · 22/12/2010 16:33

Ive just given Dylan some baby porridge, I didnt use the whole sachet but he's eaten everything in the bowl! I was quite surprised as he doesnt seem like a 'hungry' baby.

Now, how do I know he's had enough and should I offer him anything else today?

Ive bought some banana, sweet potato, parsnips etc, should I offer a chunk of banana for example when we have dinner late?

MyLifeIsFeelingFestive · 22/12/2010 17:15

No, take it easy dh, let him tummy adjust. Slowly, slowly is best for weaning.

Gosh that sounds horrible chulita! Does she normally suffer with night terrors or is that the first time? And as for the whole not bewing able to breathe properly - I'd have totally papped myself!

DesperateHousewifeIsXmasCrazy · 22/12/2010 17:20

Ok Ill stop for today, Ill give him some more porridge tomorrow but I might do it for 'breakfast' instead (which is usually 10am for me)

Xmasstac · 22/12/2010 17:31

i am fuming ds was acting it, the little shit made himself sick so he is going to school tomorrow on the last day on the other hand R has the cold x

Woodlands · 22/12/2010 17:33

it'll be cool watching one bor every minute now after having been through it ourselves! andnot as scary as watching it while pg.

MyLifeIsFeelingFestive · 22/12/2010 17:53

My son had may as well be a breastfed baby. Two people at separate times of the day today have tried to feed W and he's refused. Both times he's then fed from me. And on the rare occassion anyone ever offers to feed him this is what happens. It's no wonder I feel like I never get time to myself. Wonder if he'll wake up before I'm home tonight?

I love OBEM too, looking forward to the new series.

A dickhead who was paying no care and attention nearly made me crash tonight Angry Angry. If you can't drive in these conditions, don't. Dickhead.

Oh and for some reason my surgery wouldn't prescribe more than six tins of Neocate today. I tried to explain 6 tins only lasts roughly 8 days and therefore I was worried about cutting it fine over Christmas. They suggested it may be due to the cost. The pharmacist looked it up...£25 per tin!!! Shock And the tins are only tiny - only 400g!!! Mental.

WinterChillita · 22/12/2010 18:35

mlic she's only had one before, about 5 days ago while at the ILs but I didn't know what it was cos it didn't last very long and she'd been a bit funny all day. Last night's was very obvious though - hate them! And fwiw S doesn't take a bottle from anyone but me either so no point expressing to feed - still, another few months and he'll be eating so I won't have to get my baps out every so often (L's started calling sheep 'baps' for some reason so the word has a new meaning round here Grin) Hope you can get some more Neocate, when L had it I was lucky cos it was a military med centre so they gave me loads of it - won't be so lucky here!
stac I'd be livid! Tell you what, I never dared fake it with my mum, she's lovely but she doesn't take kindly to being lied to. How did you find out he'd faked it?

kkfairybrains · 22/12/2010 19:04

oh deadly i love one born every minute!
x posted with you earlier chulita! only read your post now. i didn't realise there was a red eye setting. will have a look now shortly thanks!

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memphis83 · 22/12/2010 22:15

stac naughty ds, is he ok at school for any reason he doesnt want to go to school or just wants to stay in the warm?
chulita poor you and L i hope it settles soon
dh wow dylan clearly was ready for food!! try one veg at a time beofore you mix them together so he gets used to one flavour, ive been feeding L for 5 weeks and only just mixing food past week or so and he isnt as keen as one flavour, think its too much for him, i freeze everything in ice cube trays then transfer to labeled bags (because have no life) our breakfast time is 9 and tea time is 6 going to add in lunch next week!!
i think i may be too scared to watch OBEM it makes me cross my legs thinking abut it think its too raw in my memory still, whoever said you forget lied!! Grin
mlic no wonder my dr wouldnt try L on that food, i was considering nanny goat powdered milk until i realiased that was £25 a tin! well at least you dont have to pay for it Xmas Grin
got work in the morning, finished my wrapping put together Ls present, made mince pies, cooked a carbonara, and just had to go tesco to get more pain killers for my tooth, dont know how to get through xmas in pain they cant do anything til the new year!
on the mil front she came round today was very nice to me, think she has took it on board that she needs to make more of an effort, plus she is coming here on boxing day for breakfast so thats x mas dinner for 9, boxing day breakfast for 4, and a buffet for 9 then im not cooking til 2011