Okay, I'm back. Gosh, that WAS long! I'l try and make this a bit less "ranty"!
One - I never had the numb bump thing (hurrah - one symptom I escaped! Lol!) but by the sounds of it, nothing to worry about. Not long now till you join us. Seems no time since you got your BFP, either!
November - my LO was the same with the dummy, like I said before, spitting it out in disgust initially, but he takes it now... Might be worth persevering with? As I say, I've found it to be an absolute godsend!
Yorkshire - lol at you and your target dates! You were exactly the same when ttc, remember?!
Hermya - how many nappies are you going through a day? I worry about LO, because he never cares if he's wet or dirty, so it's always down to me to remember to change frequently, and I always really hope I do it often enough...
Worrisome - that's brilliant that you're feeling so much better. x And good that you're getting more sleep too. Makes all the difference, doesn't it? :)
I STILL can't get on and see your pictures! :( Why not?! Or Yorkshire's! Yet Hermya and Bunny's are fine! Anyone know more about computers than I do?
Pixie - was starting to wonder where you'd gone! Glad all's well and hope you're back soon. x
Right, my news... Basically, I'm the world's worst mum, apparently. Having carried out a lot of research into vaccines, I withheld permission for LO to have them last week. I felt that with a compromised immune system (LO still has a trace of his cold), it wasn't the right time to bombard his little system with 6 different vaccines. Also, I feel that, particularly at this stage, some of those 6 are unnecessary. For example, tetanus... That's contracted through an open wound. Seeing as LO can't yet move about, and seeing as he doesn't spend any time with animals, I feel that the risk for him contracting this right now is very low. So I'd prefer that he was vaccinated later on, when he starts crawling. Next, diptheria. It's very, very rare. In 2006, there were only 10 reported cases in England and Wales, all of which were contracted abroad. So I don't feel the need for LO to be vaccinated against it at this stage. And polio... There hasn't even been a single case of that in the UK since 1998, so why my 8wk old baby urgently needs that vaccine put into his system while it's still so immature, I don't know. Anyway, the health visitor appears to believe that I'm the world's worst mother, seeing as I had a valid counter-argument for every point she made, and I've no idea when we've to see her next. I was ushered out of the room with the advice that I should "go home and talk to LO's dad about my decision". I don't know what kind of relationship she has with her husband but I would NEVER make a decision like this without the complete backing of DH. Anyway, seeing as I'm on the topic, I've long thought she was a bitch and have long questioned how good she is at her job. The first time was when I explained about pain in the left breast whilst feeding, and a reduced flow of milk on that side. I thought it was probably a blocked duct, but didn't want to mess about unless I was sure. Asked her and she told me that as I was right-handed, the right boob was bound to be more comfortable, because "everyone has a better side". So I ignored it, it got worse, I complained to my mum, she told me what to do, I unblocked the ducts (plural) and the relief was immense. Second very bad thing was that she taught me how to do LO's heel prick incorrectly. (He has to have his blood levels checked twice weekly to keep his PKU under control.) Anyway, there's a card with circles on, and you've to drip his blood into two of the circles. She told me to completely fill both circles, with several drops of blood, and, during her demonstration, she had to prick LO 4x to get enough drops. Doing it this way myself, under her supervision, I had to do it 3x. A couple of weeks later, I was speaking to the dietician, and she asked how I was getting on. I said I found it a bit distressing having to keep pricking LO and she couldn't understand why I was having to do it so often. Turned out that all we needed was a single drop of blood in each of the circles. And worse than that?! In putting so many drops on, the blood was overlapping itself, becoming more concentrated, and with that being the case, there was a good chance that LO's results could be inaccurate! How ridiuclous is that?! Ugh... Did I say this wasn't going to be a ranty post?!
I must just be in one of those moods. Though I suppose I'd better go anyway, get a shower and tidy up, so that MIL will believe I actually am a perfect mother/wife! Lol!