You are not alone @CantCallItLove . I feel exactly the same. It’s not some joyful and relished discussion, it feels more like an obligation because some things simply can’t be left to stand without challenge. But dealing with the response, the insistence that night is day, the endless demands for evidence even when it’s been provided again and again, is exhausting and depressing and sadly the people doing this are impervious to evidence and wouldn’t change their views even if he appeared now to them in some supernatural form and declared to them himself in person that he was, indeed, a racist and misogynist.
It’s lamentable that some posters have refused to accept that they might agree with some of Kirk’s less vile and extreme views but that doesn’t mean that it’s justifiable or logical to defend him and convenient ignore everything else he said repeatedly which was objectively racist, homophobic and misogynistic. And, largely, these have been the same posters who repeatedly claimed that quotes of what he said were “cherry picked” when that’s exactly what they’re doing, or “out of context” even when no context could ever possibly make many of the things he said acceptable to any decent person. The completely unwarranted ad hominem attacks are also particularly objectionable and evidence this determination to try to continue to stoke division, just as Kirk did.
Sadly there is no reasoning with such people because they don’t WANT reason, they hate it. They make any objective or rational discussion impossible deliberately because the posters doing this this aren’t interested in that, rather see this as a point scoring exercise between imagined “sides” and are determined to believe that everyone who doesn’t agree with them “is on the other side”, hence the silly comments about “left” and “right” etc. when most normal people subscribe to neither of these extremes.
It is all very depressing and paints a bleak picture of the possibility of a future where general consensus and balance and a reasonably harmonious society can be reestablished, especially as the extremists of all kinds are continuously ramping up their efforts to recruit more people into their cultish ideologies.