I know nethun... I'm a bit of both "scinglish" if you like. Full scottish heritage, born and raised in england, moved up here with hubby and kids in mid 2000s It was great when we first came, but it has soured a lot since the start of the first campaign.
It annoys me a lot and the thought of having another referendum is making me feel pretty Ill and is causing me problems with uni and work. It still hasn't settled down from the last one and it was terrible then, God knows what it will be like. We've had to warn the kids, because if it is successful we are putting the house on the market as soon as the votes are counted, shutting down the hubby's business which will be awful and one of my daughters will be right in the middle of her highers. I am worried that if we don't do it then we might lose our UK citizenship. I don't want to be stuck here while it is like this. I don't think the UK will be very much interested in joint citizenship deals after this and the SNP will get to choose who has scottish citizenship from those people born or those living in scotland according to the home office advice. We might not even be able to escape it when we were all born in England.
Quite a few of my scottish relatives are like it too-not all of them though thank god, so I know not everyone is like this.
It embarrassing really, and upsetting tbh. It has made me ashamed of my own heritage, which I used to be very proud of. I can no longer wave the Saltire and be proud. I feel like it has been comanderred by the first Munster for her dastardly plans of self destruction 
My family are central belt.
As for Sturgeon and McKenna, I wouldn't bother sending hate mail, but I do hope they both fall in to a puddle up to their necks Vicar of Dibley style. 