what I'm interested in is your thoughts on abortion between 12 and 20 weeks
Deepan - My thoughts are neither here nor there for what should be in USA. How an individual views life, all life, is very much tied up with what they as a single state or as a society choose as a baseline. It's connected to compassion for the mother and the foetus, and it's connected to sensibility.
In the UK the young (and not so young) women are frivolous about their fertility and it is not uncommon to have multiple abortion used as 'contraception'. I saw it when I was a practice manager.
It seems to me that a hardening of the soul everywhere has occurred towards our most vulnerable, such as the old and the very young and inevitably this hardening has made men & women blasé about terminating right up to 24 weeks in this country. I suppose if you dont have a voice, you don't exist.
When I said that Anna should hv been more careful I believe she should have. If I lived in Indiana that had such a constraint (12 week rule), a baby and no job I would do most UTMOST not to get pregnant - whether Mr Wonderful wanted to use a rubber or not.
I managed it thru my teens and twenties - and I live in London, where an abortion would have been dead easy for me to get. If your situation is not good for a second child, you do not take risks.
If I was being asked by America, I would suggest 16 week limit for non-medical reasons. If serious medical abnormalities are found way past that time, then it is up to the woman what she wants to do. Either go to full term & deliver, or terminate very late.
But not taking care in the first place is not an option for me.