It's a bit like watching three lepers bickering over who is the prettiest....
We know that Labour are scumbags, we know that the lib dems are scumbags and we know the tories are scumbags. Frankly arguing that 'they' are scummier just makes you look like a scumbag.
You evidently don't know what regional grants are... We give lots of money to the EU, who then give some of it back to us as grants.
Those roadsigns that proudly proclaim that this and that was funded by the EU regional development fund should say ,"We nicked £1 through your VAT and gave you back 30p". Or didn't you know that VAT was a EU tax?
It is our money, the EU generates no income for itself. None. Zilch. Nada.
You also clearly don't understand trade if you think we get anything out of the EU.
The Brussels Berlin wall is just a car boot sale run by your postman. Trading at the car boot sale is free ( except the entry fee) but if you try to trade by post, with someone other than your neighbours, the postman nicks 10% of it. We have to buy from our neighbours or pay high tarifs from anywhere else in the world. We set up some exceptions in 1972, Lamb from New Zealand and bananas from the Caribbean etc but these are the exceptions that proof the rule.
Technically it is a customs union, and one designed to protect European industries from the rigors of international competition. It treats all EU states as though they were the same country, hence EU internal trade is 'free'* but international trade ( about 11%+ of our trade ) carries customs charges. This makes sense for South Africa and Swaziland ( as Swaziland is almost landlocked by South Africa) but none for a nation whose traditional role is seafaring trade across the globe.
Whilst car boot sales are fun, and the organisers think they are brilliant, I prefer Ebay myself. Especially when I can trade with my cousins around the world who speak the same language and uphold the same values. I'd also rather like to help out developing nations by buying their products, though due to the tarifs most don't bother even advertising.
The EU controls our borders, our trade agreements and our customs tarifs. We cannot strike independent trade deals, we cannot circumvent the tarifs and we cannot stop 500 million people coming here should they wish to.
When we first joined the main price paid was giving up our fishing grounds, along with a, at the time, relatively modest monetary contribution. These are now entirely controlled by the EU so whilst Norway and Iceland have booming and highly profitable fishing industries our fleet are told where they can go and what they can catch whilst the European fleets just ignore the rules.
Whilst EU ports and villages freely plunder our fish stocks, our ports and villages become benefit traps or shabby tourist locations.
Whilst Cameron can bluster about vetoing the EU budget, the unelected commissioners just push through an increase and the net beneficiary countries ( most of them) vote it through.
He can bluster about bringing net immigration down too ( which is a favourable figure for him given the number of Brits who emigrate every year ) but cannot do anything about it.
He can also pretend that the ONS immigration figures are definitive, however they are merely based on chaps with clipboards asking people at ports and airports to fill a questionnaire in. They are in fact designed for the tourism industry. If someone asked him what the net migration figures are the only honest answer would be that no-one knows. We don't count them.
He can bluster about his famous renegotiation - Except that the EU president hasn't heard a whisper from him.
He can witter about a referendum, except that he voted against one in 2011, lied about his cast iron pledge before the 2010 election and told Spanish TV that he would simply ignore a vote to leave.
He can even claim to be making tough decisions, but Ms Reding, the vice President of the EU tells us that 70% of ours laws already come from Brussels to be rubber stamped. No tough decisions there then.
So what is he doing?
- Except it isn't free. Try selling your lamb in France. Most importantly in order to do any form of business you have to comply with EU laws. Hence the 80% of our trade which represents our domestic market ( your shopping in Tesco etc) is thwarted with near infinite regulations which apply to the 9% of trade which we export to the EU.