Dahlen
Do you have any idea how unbelievably sexist that sounds?
It's funny, but I was listening to a World Service programme about India and how a charity there is teaching women about contraception and how to limit their family size. For the women, it was empowering and set them free.
Why is it sexist in the UK but empowering for poor women in India?
We do not live in a world where it is the female of the species who has control over sex. Porn featuring violence against women is everywhere and 1 in 9 women will be raped.
I'm not sure this is the place to get in to a discussion of pornography and its influence on sex.
That doesn't even consider the women taken advantage of or coerced into having sex without using a condom. Research is showing that young men particularly are abandoning condoms and that young women are falling for the justifications they use.
It takes two people to make a baby Both are jointly responsible.
And sometimes the father disappears and the woman is left alone.
As you say, women face the consequences by suffering financially and giving up their freedom. Why should it be all down to women? Perhaps if more feckless fathers were forced into living up to their responsibilities, they'd be a bit more keen to use condoms. If they knew that they'd be hounded for maintenance for the next 18 years without exception perhaps the men could stand up and say 'no' too.
I'm not saying it should be down to women. I'm saying that, right or wrong, it is. I don't think feckless fathers should be able to get away with leaving a pregnant woman and avoiding any responsibility. I'm saying that they do, so women have to stand together and deal with it.
I'm sorry if you think that's sexist.
Partly that was to do with wider economic principles.
If you mean 'socialist ideology', then I agree.
It's not as simple as saying spending doubled. It certainly didn't double per head of the population.
No indeed. Spending on the poorest, when we take in to account extra money for schools in deprived areas, extra money for sink estates, new hospitals and schools built overwhelmingly in Labour areas, and so on, increased far more than double.
Much of the spending was on bureaucracy rather than at grass roots level, and certainly didn't benefit those most in need of it.
This is true, and a dreadful failure on the part of the government. It was also inevitable, thanks to the very particular ideology of the Labour Party, which is top-down "We can fix it".
Indeed, if you want to be cynical about it, much of it was aimed at the middle class rather than those in poverty, in a bid to convince them that New Labour weren't card-carrying communists.
I agree that some of it was aimed at some of the middle class. Rest assured that in this MN's middle-class Tory stronghold, the precise amount of spending was zip. I understand, though, that Holland Park Comprehensive, the '"Socialist Eton" in Islington, has had a £40m upgrade.
Secondly, we have an ageing population and this has massively increased welfare spending. It's not actually the feckless single mothers and the unemployed doing that.
I agree that there has been, and will continue to be, a hefty burden on the taxpayer to pay for care for the elderly.
Likewise, Labour made a huge mistake in eduction. IMO they are responsible for the start of the postcode lottery trend in education and their idiotic notion to get everyone at university rather than just the brightest from any socio-economic background has actually reduced social mobility IMO and laid the foundations for the latest massive fees hike.
I agree with most of this.
NicholasTeakozy
You're so right, oh wait. The Tottenham riots were caused by the Met's belief they should be allowed to shoot an unarmed man and have massive disregard for the truth.
Duggan was armed.
If you're going to deploy facts, at least get them right.
Hmm.