garlicbutter
I've got to say your evolutionary post tickled me, Flatpack.
Evolutionary biology is indeed a strong force, though clearly not strong enough to motivate your Natalie Nice to have as many kids as Waynetta. I wonder why? Perhaps because cartoon stereotypes aren't really all that illuminating
I admit that it was a simplistic stereotype, but I used it to explain my view that we are far more driven by evolutionary biology than most people realise. Further, I don't think that the systems created by government take advantage of (or even take in to account) many of those evolutionary drives which we don't even recognise we're doing.
Take parks, for example. Now, when you walk through a path, even though you don't realise you're doing it, your brain is constantly plotting the most efficient route between your current location and your destination. That's why you always see worn patches at the junction of paths in parks. My local hospital has just put in a zig-zagging path between their car park and the main building. So what's happened? People ignore the zigs and zags and walk straight across the grass.
It's just how we're built, like when you shop for fruit and automatically pick the reddest apples and tomatoes, and your eyes can spot tiny differences between them, or when it's pitch black and you hear a noise you don't recognise and your body kicks in to 'fight or flight' mode.
But don't think I'm talking about people as automata who merely respond on instinct. The case of so many couples who have put off a family until later are a case in point. Biology can be ignored, guided, tamed - up to a point. The problem is that we're seeing Natalie Nice tame her biology in order to give her small brood the best chance, while Waynetta Slob doesn't - and we're paying for Waynetta to make that choice.
At the other end of the scale I could give you Angelina Jolie with her six DC, Queen Elizabeth with her four, Heidi Klum (4), Sarah Palin (4), Marie Osmond (8), Nicola Horlick (5), and quote Forbes: "there's been a significant increase in three- and four-children families among the top-earning 2% of households".
As Forbes also says, the influencing factor is disposable income. Waynetta doesn't have much disposable income so her brood is clearly not the result of a measured financial decision. It's more likely that, like lots of Natalie Nice's middle-class friends with larger families, she's not very good with contraception and gets a sense of personal fulfilment from her family. On Mumsnet of all places, I shouldn't have thought that too hard to believe
Statistical outliers like the super rich are, IMO, not an awfully useful way of looking at the majority. They might as well be on another planet for all the difference their decisions make.
I think the point I'm trying to make here is that the system allows Waynetta to make the choice between four children and two children. I think that it makes it too easy for her to choose four children. Why should she automatically get a bigger house because she's got more kids? Why should she receive more money? Do you remember this [http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-16812185 from the BBC?]] Seven children. Neither parent work. They've got Sky+, they can afford beer and fags, they're spending £120 a month on phone bills.
Now I do agree that a nice fulfilling family is a great thing. But I also question why the taxpayer should pay for fulfillment. I think it's wrong.