Hi seeker and everyone else - it's good to see a serious, balanced discussion here, with people who actually want to try and understand others points of view - very refreshing (well, most of you are anyway!).
Seeker - I wrote this post (below the dotted line) the other day on another thread. I don't have time to write another right now, but thought this might halp address some of your questions about the OT laws regarding sacrifices, cooking and eating etc.
Regarding food see Romans 14:20.
Can I also reiterate a point made earlier in the thread (can't remember who by, sorry).
It is certainly wrong for Christians, or a particular church, to 'make a big deal' out of homosexuality. The Bible makes it clear that it is our rejection of God that is sin, and that all sins, however 'small' or 'large' are therefore equal in God's eyes. So whether you are gay or not, if you reject Jesus as saviour, you are not at peace with God. Homosexuality is not the issue - rejection of God (manifest in a thousand different ways) is.
In the same way that it would be wrong for a Christian to refuse someone who cheats on their tax return entry into their church, it is wrong for Christians to refuse homosexuals into their churches - or to attack or harass homosexual people.
Generally speaking, however, this is not what is happening (and I make no excuses for anyone who claims to be a Christians and does harass homosexuals). The church's hand has been forced because some people wish the church to openly condone homosexual sex (by consecrating gay bishops for example), which the Bible says is wrong.
I have no personal vendetta or issue with gays whatsoever, and am not homophobic. I do belive the Bible, which says homosexual sex is wrong in God's eyes. The Bible also says that it is wrong to lie, steal, misrepresent others, gossip...I could go on. I lie, steal, gossip and misrepresent others. I do not stand in judgement over other sinners, as I am one myself! I do not, however wish for The Church to condone my sins as right.
I hope that makes sense and helps you understand where Bible believing Christians are coming from.
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It is simply not true that an accurate following of the Bible would nessesitate killing of homosexuals (as in the oft quoted Leviticus passage).
The Bible, as with any ancient text, needs to be read alongside other texts of the time, in the context of the culture of the time. You need to read the whole text. You need to know who it was writen by, who it was writen to, and for what purpose. What else was going on at the time it was writen? Who was the King? What wars were in progress? What were the laws and traditions of the time etc etc.
Historians, Christian and otherwise, always read texts in this way and interpret them acordingly. To quote a random verse is not even remotely helpful if you genuinely want to understand and interpret the Bible.
Old Testament Law (Including Leviticus) did legislate death as a punishment for some sins. Braodly speaking, these were laws which gave the Israelites an understanding of God's standards and His nature, and set Israel apart from the other nations in the region. Israel was to follow God's laws to the letter in order to demonstrate their alliegence to their God and show their faith in Him. This was how they would be saved.
The New Testament is to be read 'differently'. This is a right, historical reading of the text, not a clever way for Christians to find loopholes. Jesus said "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them." (Matt 15: 17). So God's standards for holiness in Old T law were fulfiled by Jesus' perfection in the NewT.
God's standards haven't changed (Jesus goes on to say "I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished.), but the Old T system of sacrifices and punishments has changed in the light of Jesus' punishment on the cross being the Ultimate, Once For All Sacrifice.
So whilst the spirit of Old T law remains (and hence, the things clearly prohibited by the law - homosexuality being one of those things - remain contrary to God's law), New Testament Christians are not required by the Bible to exact punishment on homosexuals, or anyone else for that matter. Rather, Jesus clearly advocates by his teaching and actions that all people can turn to him and be reconciled with God, and that likewise His followers should show love and compassion to all people.
This does not mean Christians must approve of or condone all behaviour, but Christians are certainly wrong to be cruel, violent or hateful to any person of any creed, race, sexual orientation, colour, ability etc.
It is possible to disagree that the Bible is true, but still understand what causes Christians to state that homosexuality is wrong without having to also kill homosexuals as the logical conclusion of their faith. This is not hypocrisy and incnsistency within the Christian Faith, but rather a logical and legitimate reading of the Bible.
I'm not sure if its worth posting this really. So often its allowable to 'Christian Bash', and it all seems a bit pointless to try and help people understand the viewpoint of Christians when they so clearly do not wish to. Hopefully this might allow you to get on with your debate without the need to keep trotting out the "If Christians were anything but hyprcrits they would need to kill all gay people".
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