@Feelingathomenow ah, my apologies you are skeptical of mediumship - but you do not think it incompatible with Christianity. You seem to be focusing on all the negatives with regards to the Christian church, tv envangelists that you see spouting homophobia, the crimes and atrocities committed by members of the established church, various schisms. The sad fact is that people who are involved with the church are still human and still can make the wrong choices and sin, that is act against God's wishes. Quite appallingly so sometimes. People's own faults, weaknesses and addictions, sometimes inherited, sometimes as a result of trauma, can affect their perceptions and get in the way of them understanding God. But I believe if focus is kept on Christ, then understanding of God will grow. I worship God not because of members of the church but because I am drawn to God through Christ.
As you know I believe there are many paths - it would be truest bizarre if there was only one “right path” the access to which was basically an accident of birth, unless of course, you’re suggesting some humans are more worthy than others.
I believe this,
"6 Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. 7 If you really know me, you will know[a] my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him.” (John 14:6-7 NIV)
How that looks might vary from person to person, country to country. Jesus' name does not sound the same in every language. However, Jesus does point to one God accessed through Him. We could mull over what the essence of this is, essentially what Jesus in His entirety encompasses. However, I believe if we come across Him, as we do in the Bible and believe in Him, let Him be the focus of our lives, that is 'the way'.