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Any Witches Here? Part 16

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speakout · 25/12/2021 11:13

Or Wiccans. or Pagans? Or anyone who is interested in a magical path or feels some magical stirrings.

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Hoolahoophop · 02/02/2022 13:25

Hello all, I stalk you often when I need to feel calm but rarely post. Today, reading about Imbolc and the beginnings of spring I wanted to share a couple of things that have given me joy today. A colleague, known to be a bit of a misery came to show me a picture at lunch. It was a robin sitting on his hand eating seeds from his palm. He has been bringing in seeds and feeding this robin for weeks, leaving food out in a fence post in the carpark. Today the bird rewarded his kindness by eating from his hand. I thought it was lovely. Then my husband phoned, a bluetit was caught on camera in a nest box our children made and put up three years ago. It feels like spring may be getting nearer and has really lifted my day. I'll definitely be tending the garden this weekend.

Cerridwen83 · 02/02/2022 18:16

@Hoolahoophop what a lovely story, I enjoyed reading that 😊
Blessed Imbolc sisters .

hilariousnamehere · 03/02/2022 00:34

@VioletCharlotte I hope today went ok - have been thinking of you but no time to post till now.

@Hoolahoophop I love those - spring is definitely approaching :)

I'm also fairly glad to see the back of January which is unlike me.

A cancellation has left me with an inconvenient financial gap, but also an unexpected space quite soon where the whole world thinks I'm already busy with a client, so am pondering how to spend that time in a way that will balance the irritation I'm feeling!

Magical handover wishes to you all as I suspect most of you will rise while I'm still trying to go to bed 😂

speakout · 04/02/2022 06:38

This week comes to the slowing of a juddering hair raising journey of the past few weeks. A ittle calm and stillness, but we are stopped at a station to let some peple off, some will join us and we will refuel before we take off again,, I have no idea where the next few weeks will take us, I hope it will be an easier ride. At least we have Mercury travellling with us this time which should give us a little more clarity at least. An annual Sun Saturn conjunction happens today and lasts over the weekend, some see this is a difficult aspect, a conflict, but I seee the positive elements.
Saturn is the planet of discipline, order, constriction ( hence those rings) and when fired up by the sun could have the effect of limiting or causing restrictions.
I feel it is a great energy for spring cleaning, sorting out cupboards, paying those bills, using that fire and discipline to reorganise. I have a couple of cupoards in mind this weekend which have descended into chaos. So I will direct some energy there!

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VioletCharlotte · 04/02/2022 07:24

The combination of Mercury and Venus both being in retrograde has been rather like being on a rollercoaster, one that I'll be relieved to get off. I feel like I've really been though the mill the last few weeks as events and relationships from the past have resurfaced and presented themselves to me, either consciously or subconsciously through my dreams and I've been forced to examine some painful memories. This all needed to happen though, and ultimately will help me and my family move forward. I know we're still in the Mercury shadow for the next couple of weeks, but things are feeling much clearer and I slept well last night for the first time in a while.

Thank you for your kind words about DS. The appointment went well, although it was emotional for us both. Now he's had time to process things he's feeling more positive as he knows the help he needs is in sight. There's something extremely powerful about someone taking the time to listen carefully to what you have to say and acknowledging how you're feeling.

Hilariousnamehere have you decided what to do with your unexpected free time? It sounds wonderful to me, but appreciate its not ideal if it affects your finances!

Speakout I'm getting that urge to start spring cleaning too and planning to dedicate a few hours this weekend to sorting out cupboards.

AnotherCrazyBirdLady · 04/02/2022 10:47

@VioletCharlotte and @speakout, I agree - the planets really have been putting us through the wringer of late. Venus retro made me feel really ugly and inadequate but I have shook myself off and organised a haircut later today, with all planets direct, it shouldn't end in tears!
I've been working quite a lot with Saturn lately and have become very used to the restrictions and limitations. I am just quietly digging my own little furrow, I know Saturn rewards diligence and care, if only with wisdom.

Very cold today, a bit of a shock after the mildness of the past few days - but I have a plentiful supply of tea and snacks and little jobs to keep me warm. Blessings, indeedStar

Hoolahoophop · 04/02/2022 12:55

I hope you don't mind me hopping in a bit more often.

I got thoroughly drenched on the way to work this morning but now the sinus out and I'm looking forward to finishing work, picking my children up from school and making pizza with the dough proving at home. I'm so loving the signs of spring. Om my walk to work I pass a garden with the most beautiful perfume. I've yet to work out what the flower is but the scent is lovely. Brightens every day.

speakout · 05/02/2022 07:13

Hoolahoophop good to see you again. Could you post a picture of the flower? Are you in the UK,? Not much is in bloom at the moment.
A day of wild wind and snow blizzards here yesterday, interspersed with bright sunshine, everytime the sun broke through dozens of birds descended on my bird feeding tree, The little ones love the hanging food and suet, starlings like the bird table, I only put oats and grain on the ground which seems too much effort for the seagulls, and magpies, so they leave us alone, wood pigeons have the patience to peck for the grain though.
I had a very disturbed night, DS was upset ,and my dreams were unpleasant.
I am quite tired as a result.
I had booked into Body Pump this morning, but I need something a little more nurturing to soothe myself, so I will get my mat out and do some yoga at home instead.
I may treat myself to a visit to my favourite charity shop later - the best kind of shopping!!

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Aerwyna · 05/02/2022 19:55

I hope everyone is able to find some peace evening, it does indeed seem to have been an intense and eventful few weeks. Interesting to hear of all the planetary influences, comforting in a way to have an explanation of the energies at play.

Such a pleasure to hear of the birds and signs of spring. The expansion of daylight hours feels notable now, although an overcast day of high winds here today. It was good to see my work clothes being blown around on the line- fresh energy for a fresh week ahead.

Wishing everyone a restful evening

Aerwyna · 05/02/2022 19:59

A big copy and paste but I thought others may enjoy this as I did:

“A February Goddess: Remembering The Little Things.

February the 8th, is the Festival of Broken Needles in Shinto and Buddhist traditions.
On this day, women will gather up all of the broken needles and small household objects which have contributed to the health and well-being of the family throughout the previous year.
They will place these objects in a shrine or upon an altar to acknowledge how even the smallest things in life have a purpose and should be acknowledged.

This idea comes from animism, which is arguably the oldest spiritual tradition or concept across the entire world.
So, in this way of thinking every single object has a soul, and although we might conceive of this more in terms of animals, streams and mountains, within animism, consciousness and life permeates everything.
The women will give thanks for the objects they have used throughout the year and will leave offerings such as milk, cakes and flowers as a way of expressing gratitude to these tiny souls of things.

Now, usually at this point I’d write, “And here in Ireland we have a similar festival…” but I won’t this time.
The tradition of Hari-Kuyo, as this custom is called, only began around 800 AD during the Heian Period. However, the animistic root of acknowledging the life-force and spirit of such totems goes back much, much further.

Shinto comes from the words ‘shen’ and ‘tao’ which means the way of gods.
The gods in Shinto tradition are more often animistic forces or higher ideals (putting it simply!) but sometimes take the form of deities.
At the end of the ritual, the broken needles and household items are gathered up and buried, while a Shinto or Buddhist priest will recite a prayer of thanks.

Needlework, sewing and spinning are strongly associated with goddesses and spirits in Europe as well, of course, and the spinning woman was believed to not only spin material, but time itself.
In this context, divination-poems and songs were sung in order to prophesise the future or look for advice from the ancestors.
The tradition of wise-women singing their songs while spinning also has a long history here in Ireland.
The women would often draw the ‘good people’ into the home while doing so, which is an interesting parallel to the Shinto idea in some ways.
Not only would the spinning woman send her consciousness outwards when falling into trance, but she would also attract the Otherworld to her as well.
That said, the fairies seem to have had much more independent agency in the Irish folklore stories than the animistic spirits in Shinto.
Here is an example of a spinning woman attracting fairies from Galway collected in 1938.
www.duchas.ie/en/cbes/4583343/4581422/4592481
And here is an account of a spinning song, also from the Duchas archives.
www.duchas.ie/en/cbes/5009335/5008127/5136097

If we were to look for any kind of comparable European Pagan festival at this time of the year a curious contender is that of The Fornacalia.
This was a festival dedicated to the Goddess of the oven, furnace and hearth celebrated from February the 7th to the 17th in ancient Rome.
The Goddess invoked was named Fornax but, again, the animistic principles behind this custom probably existed even before this deity was named.
At this time, families would collect and bring a small piece of grain to a temple where sacrificial bread would be baked in order to give thanks for the heat of the oven and home.
Prayers would then be recited to Fornax for protection and to ensure that the coming year would bring the same warmth to both heat the grain and provide enough bread for the household.

So, just like The Festival of Broken Needles, families are giving thanks to a household object that might usually be overlooked.
This is the shared concept here; to appreciate the small things that life brings us.
To acknowledge what we might too often overlook.
To remember that just because we get used to something being there we should never take it for granted.
Or, maybe that even applies to some 'one.'

(C.) David Halpin.”

www.facebook.com/505240543157960/posts/1639692513046085/

Image by Jean Baptiste Monge.

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VioletCharlotte · 05/02/2022 20:58

Thank you for sharing that Aerwyna I always find it comforting somehow, to read about these ancient traditions and rituals. I think it's something about the reminder that human beings have walked the earth for a very long time, each generation facing their own trials and tribulations and joys and sorrows, yet the world keeps spinning and the wheel of the year continues to turn. Everything feels such a mess at the moment, but this thought is grounding, thank you.

I went for a long walk in the forest this afternoon with my dog. As always the trees worked their magic and helped soothe my soul. I was over the moon to come across a carpet of snowdrops, the first ones I've seen this year.

Everything seems a little bleak right now so I'm doing my best to hold on to these little moments of magic; watching starlings come into roost at dusk, seeing a goose in flight, the crescent new moon, some incredible winter sunrises this week... nature at its best

speakout · 06/02/2022 06:36

Thank you for that Aerwyna, you are right of course animisim was/is global, I encountered many similar beliefs and ideas while travelling the "backwaters " of Indonesia, animism is still the predominant relihgion despite being nominally Islamic. Outside the main cities rural communities still pratcice folk magic and worship earth energy.
It is often thought that Ireland has some special fae econnection or has more magical energy than many other places.
I don't believe that it does.
It was subject to fewer waves of marauding empires which wiped out folk and earth magic, so their practices and beliefs are less diluted by Romans, Anglo Saxons, Normans, Vikings,
The so called "Celtic Fringes" of Europe were the least accesssible geographically, and where nowadays we see the remnant of Celtic culture, religion and customs. At one point the Celts and their animistic religion would have covered most of Europe, but the Celtic fringe exists in Ireland Scotland, Cornwall and Britanny.
The Catholic church had a bit of a struggle in Ireland as old earh beliefs and goddess worship were held so strongly, but they managed through back door methods.
Mary mother of Jesus still remans the go to deity fo mamt Irish people, and many of her manifestations like Brigit were neatly dealt with by turning them into saints,
I visited Gozo in Malta- the site of the oldest goddess temple in the world, and although again a Catholic nation the whole summer is a festival of parades and veneration parties and dancing, with Mary being the focus of the worship.
Gozitans call themselves Catholic and are very religious, but it is a strange type of Catholicism, where the highest throne is given to a woman- much like the Gozitans of 7000 years ago.
A roller coaster of upsetting emotions ths weekend, so again I am choosing to do home yoga rather than the gym, and will have a long relaxing soak in the bath to start my day.

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AnotherCrazyBirdLady · 07/02/2022 13:13

Afternoon, Sisters!
@Aerwyna, thanks for that piece on animism, it gave me pause to stop and think about all the objects and 'things' we surround ourselves with and the energies they lend us.

The past 24 hours have been fiery chez Bird. My DS has been spectacularly pissing me off, but I have somehow managed to keep my cool and avoid the inevitable arguments. I was still stewing internally all night, and even more this morning when I woke up to a mess in the previously clean kitchen. I sent him off to work with a cheery wave, but felt very hard done to. My seething culminated in a hard knock to my head, and I had to laugh, and decided to open the windows wide to rebalance the energies. And I am now sat with a Yogi Rose tea to soothe my frazzled mood, and feel a hundred times better. I am so glad the universe gives me these nudges now and again to bring me right down back to earthGrin

I hope everyone's day is simmering nicely and productively!

queenrollo · 07/02/2022 16:26

I have succumbed to the cold that I nurtured my youngest through last week.
Have upset my eldest child, and I don't think I am unreasonable at all. He was talking about getting a job and how many hours he will be working, and I pointed out that at that point I would stop giving him his monthly allowance. He hit the roof that it was 'unfair'. I pointed out that I also pay his phone contract, and I am willing to still pay for that (because the phone is a necessity these days) but if he's bringing in a full time wage then I am not subbing him pocket money too!
I'm finding this stage of parenting really quite challenging in some respects.

I'm resting, drinking lots of herbal tea and hoping to fight off this cold quickly!

HillsBesideTheSea · 07/02/2022 16:36

Hope you feel better soon QueenRollo for what it is worth I have had a similar conversation with ds.

AnotherCrazyBirdLady i hope your head is no worse for the bump.

Hope you have had a gentle start to the week Speakout

Functioning on a couple hours of sleep, but being more productive then should for how tired i am. Seriously considering heading out into the garden to take pictures of the snow drops. Especially as there is no climbing out the windows involved this year Grin

moregarlic · 07/02/2022 16:45

Sorry to hear many are still feeling frazzled and off kilter after a promising energetic shift at the start of the month. Life does feel especially hard work at the moment, though I’m striving to be grateful wherever I can. Like @VioletCharlotte it’s often nature, and small everyday things that are easy to take for granted. (Food, shelter, love).

I’m rereading Feel The Fear, which I’d once discounted as cheesy and American. Maybe it is a little, but it’s an excellent tonic for the times.

Take care of yourselves, and try and carve out whatever time and space you can for yourselves.

Hoolahoophop · 07/02/2022 17:44

Speakout I am in the UK and snapped this on the way home. It's in the general area of the lovely scent. No idea if it's the right flower or not.

Aerwyna that's fascinating thank you. Giving thanks for the small and overlooked things is something I like a lot of people need to think about more

I hope everyone has had a peaceful start to the week. I'm off star hunting with my dd.

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BlankTimes · 07/02/2022 18:03

Flying visit literally,
Commiserations to all who are having a turbulent time, thanks Aerwyna for that lovely article.

Hoolahoophop
Drag and drop plant photos here
identify.plantnet.org/

It says it's probably Daphne odora Thunb. [family THYMELAEACEAE]

My Latin's rusty but I reckon odora means smell/fragrance.

Back on the broomstick for more fun rides Halloween Grin

BlankTimes · 07/02/2022 18:11

p.s. yep, fragrance
www.rhs.org.uk/plants/31151/daphne-odora/details

hilariousnamehere · 07/02/2022 18:30

Still frantically trying to get Mum's house ready for Gran, so just flying past so I don't fall off thread. Hugs, magic and gentleness to whoever needs it, I'm trying for a bedtime reading catch up so will check in and reply properly when I can :)

Elasticatedwaist · 08/02/2022 06:02

Good morning sisters.
Things have been turbulent here too. Dh injured himself at work last week. He’s torn his bicep tendon and is now waiting for an operation to repair it which means he will be out of work for at least three months! The operation is on the 23rd. We are moving house on the 18th and it’s a rundown doer upper which dh intended to fix up with gusto as soon as we were in but it looks like we will have to live with it as is for a while. I will do what I can but diy is more dh domain .
It’s terrible timing but I’m choosing to believe that there is a greater plan at work that isn’t obvious right now !
Suddenly having dh at home all the time has set off my anxiety big time . I am not good with change. The last time this happened was when he was furloughed due to the pandemic. I think the root cause of my anxiety though is that I am perimenopausal, I’m 47 this year so the right age for it. I asked the gp about hrt even though I am not sure that that is the right way to tackle it at all but she was reluctant to give it to me yet as I have a uterine polyp which needs investigation. I’m off to the gynaecologist this morning about that one.

I am trying to meditate regularly and using positive affirmations as well as lots of walking. I’m meditating quietly aswell as sometimes using www.meditainment.com/login?nosession which is quite soothing if anyone else is interested. There are quite a few 20 minute ones that are free to listen to when you’ve logged in and they really do take you away for a while.
Have a peaceful day everyone.

TotoAnnihiliation · 09/02/2022 11:24

Hello ladies, as always, I've been enjoying reading the thread and learning from your wisdom.

I've had a lot going here, work wise and home life. As a result I've been very unwell. I've made the choice to leave my job, but it will be a drawn out process involving the union.

In happier news, I finally felt well enough to walk down the garden to look at the early flowers, I've been able to see them out the window for a while. I'm not sure what the purple/ pink ones are. Can anyone identify them?

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queenrollo · 09/02/2022 12:58

Toto the pink ones are cyclamen. One of my personal favourites, but then anything that shows willing at this time of year is a blessing!

I'm sorry that things are tough for you and hope extricating yourself from work is not too stressful.

I'm still fighting this cold, feel so tired but can't sleep. Well...I can sleep, but obviously my body wants to shut down about 20 mins before the alarm goes for the school run.
Am decorating and cursing this old building and shoddy bodges the previous owners left for us to uncover. I am not remedying them properly as I have neither the money, time or (most importantly) inclination for the extra disruption.
Am spending the time catching up wwith witchy videos/podcasts.

Hoolahoophop · 09/02/2022 13:49

Thank you Blank Times for identifying my mystery plant and for the link to the plant identifier. That's a really useful tool.

My phone has been beeping constantly today with alerts that someone has visited our birdbox. But so far all false alarms. I'd love it I'd we did get a nest. Just had to rush home as youngest DC was sick at school. So an afternoon working from home and soothing DC for me.

Toto I hope work gets resolved with less difficulty than it seems now.

Queenrollo get well soon. Here we have sunshine today. I hope you have the same and the sun's warmth chases away your cold.

TotoAnnihiliation · 09/02/2022 14:56

Thank you @queenrollo for the plant identification. With regards to work, I feel more at peace then I have been for a long time. I'm now focusing my energies elsewhere and taking time for all that all important healing.

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