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Any Witches Here? Part 16

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speakout · 25/12/2021 11:13

Or Wiccans. or Pagans? Or anyone who is interested in a magical path or feels some magical stirrings.

A place for support, learning, swapping ideas and magical inspiration.

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TotoAnnihiliation · 17/01/2022 22:23

@VioletCharlotte beautiful picture of the sea! I miss the sea and I am already counting down to my summer holidays when I get to go back to my favourite place.

I've got my crystals out on the windowsill and I've got the window and curtains open whilst I snuggle under my weighted blanket.

hilariousnamehere · 17/01/2022 23:42

Oh, your photos are all wonderful! I did spend a little time in the garden just looking at the moon, but it's my first day officially back at my desk since before Christmas and it's been bonkers - just came off a client call about twenty minutes ago. I am curled up in my heated throw, curtains open so I can see the moon but I'm not brave enough to have the window open, too cold and can't cope with cats escaping! Blush

They're still not eating very well but I'm hoping vet will ring tomorrow with blood results and that will give me some answers somewhere 🤞

Wishing us all enchanted sleeps under the wolf moon (and I'm keen to hear about your weighted blanket experience too speakout - I love mine but at 11kg it's too heavy to sleep under without giving me hip pain. I have several lighter ones on my wishlist!)

speakout · 18/01/2022 07:13

It's very annoying when that happens VioletCharlotte isnlt it. If i see my post is turning into a longer one I copy and continue in Word, saving as I go- also useful for typos- I use a laptop for posting.
I did have a good sleep under my weighted blanket- I usually sleep well on a full moon anyway. It as cosy, but I have woken with tender hips, . The blanket isn't a very heavy one, just 4.5KG,b ut I sleep on my side, and when I woke the hip I was lying on was a little sore.
Perhaps it is my mattress that needs attention, I had a water bed for several years which was amazing, but a bit of work to maintain.
So not sure yet. I will give it another night ad see how I get along.
I will do some yoga to ease off my hips this morning.

Looking for some support for a meeting this morning at 10am ultimately for a positive outcome hopefully, involves finance, but will be very triggering for me emotionally and I know there will be a lot of tears and upset as I go through the processs. It has to be done, but I need courage to be level headed despite painful feeling that will be brought up.. Hopefully some full moon energy still lingering will give me support. Mercury has a positive aspect with chiron this morning, which should bring ability to express painful feelings with some ease.
And some rose quartz in my bra of course!
hilariousnamehere I hope today brings good news from the vet.

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TotoAnnihiliation · 18/01/2022 09:00

@hilariousnamehere fingers crossed for good news about the cats.

hkwses · 18/01/2022 10:04

Thank you for the welcome. All of your pictures are stunning. The moon looked amazing, as I'm sure it always does but to actually stop and just look at it for a while with a calm mind was something else

moregarlic · 18/01/2022 19:26

@VioletCharlotte what a gorgeous photo and it sounds like the most brilliant, restorative time was had with your friends. Sometimes laughter with close friends is the ultimate medicine.

@Speakout I'm glad you had a cosy peaceful night under your weighted blanked. I'm the opposite, and always find sleep hard to come by on a full moon. I was up until midnight last night, which is most unlike me! I'm only just checking in now, but I really hope your financial meeting went well. Money can be such a triggering subject for so many of us. I've started a breathwork course and one of the teachers referenced how debilitating money worries can be.

@hilariousnamehere I hope you have good news about your lovely cats.

@HillsBesideTheSea I was so sorry to hear of all the distress you've suffered lately, I hope things have calmed down for you and your son.

Thank you so much for all your help and support the other day, I had my GP appointment today for my bloods and they're running loads of tests so I'm intrigued to see what they come back as. I definitely wouldn't have done this without your collective encouragement!

Wishing you all a peaceful evening.

VioletCharlotte · 18/01/2022 20:44

Speakout i hope your meeting went ok today. Anything to do with finances can be stressful, I really hope you got the outcome you were hoping for and that any painful emotional that came up will ease.

Moregarlic I'm so glad you went to the GP and really pleased they're running some tests.You hear so many stories of women being let down by GP's, it's always good to hear when someone has a positive experience. I hope the tests help to pinpoint what the issue is and that it's something that can easily.

I've had a busy day again so looking forward to an early night. I'd anyone still doing 30 days with Adrienne? After saying I wasn't going to do it, I started on day 3 and have been doing it most mornings. I'm enjoying it much more than last year as the practises are all 25 mins ish, so just the right month. I'm going to try and stick to morning practice once it finishes as I'm finding it gives me a real boost before work (I'm normally an evening yoga person).

BlankTimes · 18/01/2022 21:34

Good evening sisters, the photos of last night's Wolf Moon are all stunning, here's a couple more from Germany. I've used links only as all of the images on that site are copyright, so please do the same if you share anywhere.
www.megalithic.co.uk/modules.php?op=modload&name=a312&file=index&do=showpic&pid=236731
www.megalithic.co.uk/modules.php?op=modload&name=a312&file=index&do=showpic&pid=236730

Did anyone see the moon rise tonight? It was a deep peachy colour but very clear. Magical Halloween Wink

hilariousnamehere · 18/01/2022 22:40

You are all so lovely! Vet called today and delinquent kitties have clear bloods, and one of them has a tiny trace of giardia, which I suspect is due to the very decomposed ex-bird I found in the garden yesterday Envy (not envy, obviously). Going to dose them both to get rid of it on vets advice and in theory all is well. They're still picking at their food like a couple of divas but they are healthy and their weight is stable so I'm going to just feed them normally and check in in three months unless there's a disaster. DNinjaCat has just misjudged a jump to the sofa arm so I'm sure I'll have some heart stopping moments still, but hoping that getting back into a routine will help them and me. Thank you for being so supportive, they are my whole world!

My other magic today before vet called was chucking some colour at my hair - it is amazing how much that tiny action has brightened my outlook and motivation!

I missed the moon rise but have left my office blinds up the last few days so I can see it while I work :)

speakout · 19/01/2022 06:10

hilariousnamehere

So glad your cats are on the mend, that must be quite a relief for you. I find just a simple hair colour or a little papper can work wonders.
I think the night of the full moon was overcast for many, but there is no escaping her power. Even if we don't catch a glimpse, if we are indoors or heavy cloud cove,r the full moon energy is impossible to escpae.

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queenrollo · 19/01/2022 09:21

hilariousnamehere I don't know if this helps soothe your worries at all, but my cats have been off their food this winter. One does have gastric issues on and off (we think IBS) but it seems that in the winter my cats slow down and their appetite drops. It's really noticeable this time though.

I've put together a care package for my sibling who is quite under the weather. Really they need full rest but their employer is an so they are having to soldier on. Anyway yesterday I went and picked up some herbal remedies and tea and couple of treats and will send it back with parents who are dropping in to see me later.

I'm not feeling great myself, another episode of fatigue. I've given up going to the GP about it. It's a long term issue and they have never found a cause. I do suspect it is fibromyalgia as my DH has had that diagnosis and all my symptoms match his, though mine pre-date him by about 15 years!
So today I have cancelled plans, and am headed for the sofa with a hot water bottle and blanket and some soothing films.

HillsBesideTheSea · 19/01/2022 10:56

Issue is going to rumble for a while and it is going to take a lot of work to fix. But we are slowly starting to make a little progress. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. And sometimes getting them to see and accept that they need to make changes rather than be stuck in the same destructive loop of behaviour is HARD. Especially when it is a teenager who is technically a grown up with out being a grown up. And you are legally responsible, but not the one who needs to take the action.

I did bring out the big guns, and got other family members involved. Which did lighten the load some. But ultimately it will be me who has to support the action plan and to do list; and him accomplishing it. However, the metaphoric dead cat he has been flogging should be gone by the weekend. And hopefully that will reduce the load some.
Going to be bumpy around here for a while.

But tomo, I have a hill with my name on it, a stack of text books, and a picnic lunch. And i am removing myself to focus on my priorities.

HillsBesideTheSea · 19/01/2022 10:57

I will stop by and catch up properly. I just have about 50 billion that is just what it feels like emails to send based on the events over the weekend and this week so far.

AnotherCrazyBirdLady · 19/01/2022 11:25

Oh, @HillsBesideTheSea, I am glad you have made some progress, I am sending some steely strength to help get you through the next phases, and I am glad to hear you are carving out some time for yourself.
@hilariousnamehere, I am happy to hear your familiars are in the clear, they can be such a worry for us. I remember growing up, we had a beautiful little black cat, a stray that was handed over to us, as the girl didn't think she could continue hiding it in her desk at work! Anyway, this cat refused to eat about 60% of the time. we were quite worried as she was such a wee thing to begin with - turns out she was just extra-fussy, and if you were lucky enough to find a food she would eat, within a week, she wouldn't touch itHmm

The booster jab I had on Friday really threw me for a loop - I felt so unwell, headaches, fever, aches - this lasted until yesterday, and I was starting to suspect I had somehow caught Covid, but no, thankfully! However, when I was laying low, I meditated on a few subjects, and had a couple of 'epiphanies', so, not all bad!
DS is loving his new job, it is hard work, he comes home muddy and exhausted but happy, and has been making firm friends with the animals there!

I hope everyone has a calm day, I feel the full moon brought a lot to the surface for most, and it is nice to have a calmer energy around us.

speakout · 19/01/2022 12:02

queenrollo soorry to hear you are not feeling geat, but good to hear that you are focissing on self care. Sometimes when things are tough I use Tarot to guide me towards the self care that I need when I am unsure.I do a simple 3 card draw, and speak aloud " clarify my position", giving me a better understanding of my current situation. Then a second card " show me what I need", then the third " How can I achieve that". Usually the meanings are claer and sometimes the self care ideas are ones I hadn't considered, but usually turn out to be very helpful.

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speakout · 19/01/2022 12:10

HillsBesideTheSea I am glad you are finding some sovereignity in your situation- that often means delegation, and stepping back so others can carry some of the burden.
Personal sovereignity also means we are not always able to steer path or map out for others. Teenagers can be hard though, and still need some guidance sometimes a little dog whispering can work wonders, or setting up scenarios that make them feel they have come up with solutions or ideas themselves when we have really set up that situation by a little Machiavellian manoeuvering. We guide from the sidelines, and they still feel in control.
I am glad you too are finding time to nurture yourself!

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speakout · 19/01/2022 12:28

AnotherCrazyBirdLady I am delighted to hear your DS is enjoying his new job, it sounds an amazing and very rewarding place to work.
I have heard a lot of people become unwell after the booster- I hope you recover quickly.
The fullmoon has brought a chane of energies for me, I feel strengthened and have tackled some issues that have been causing me anxiety in the past few weeks. Not entirely there yet, may be some little hurdles yet to jump, but I feel energised to deal with them.
I had no pain this morning after a second night with my weighted blanket, so perhaps there was another reason for my hips complaining- some new yoga pose perhaps.
So I will persevere.
My sleep hypnosis works really well for me, I usually manage to shut off my device when I realise I am on the point of falling asleep that I am no longer actially listening to the words. Then just one press of a button switches off my device. Often I wake in the moning and it is switched off but I can't remember doing it.
I am having a week off work (or as close as that can ever look) as I wanted to clear some headspace to get all the documents/GP phone calls/meeting with CAB done more easily.
Being busy with work at the same time would have sent me into a tailspin.
Waiting for DD to come over today- hopefully for lunch, she has a few days off work and she is living in her flat alone this week as her flatmate has covid and moved out for a while.
So she may be in need of company.
A bumpy week, some good, some challenging, but I am taking it all in bite sized pieces!

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speakout · 20/01/2022 08:45

Down a deep wormhole of Kintsugi at the moment, a Japanese art form which restores broken items- usually ceramics, but rather than hiding the cracks and repairs; pieces and parts that have been put back together, joins are embellished with gold or silver. The repaired item is considered of more worth because it has survived damage and has been healed- not the same as it was, but different, and considered to be stronger and more . These pieces are considered beautiful and often displayed. It is an art form, but also a deep philosophy.
The philosophy of Kintsugi is thought to apply to people too- those of us who have been hurt, damaged, or less than "ideal" but survive with battle scars- Kintsugi shows us that these scars too are beautiful and sacred, and add to who we are, showing us how to be proud and brave not to shy away from the life that has shaped us. Kintsugi is a metaphor for human life, for all life, even our planet.
There are also ecological implications , that to repair and mend rather than discard is also a sacred act.
It was my DS who brought this to my attention, and suggested I buy this as some artwork for the house-
www.redbubble.com/i/poster/KINTSUGI-Recognise-Beauty-by-TorontoSol/22359459.G7H47

I think it is very beautiful with such deep meaning,

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Aerwyna · 20/01/2022 21:28

That is so beautiful speakout, thank you for sharing with us. I love the diverse aspects of the philosophy. Very inspiring.

Just winding down with a nighttime tea, I hope everyone is having a peaceful evening. Thank you for the wonderful photographs, the wolf moon energy has felt very powerful to me too.

Wishing everyone a restful night

moregarlic · 21/01/2022 10:27

@VioletCharlotte Yes I can't complain about my GP surgery really, they are very good and have continued to see people in person / give out appointments over the last two years. I know that has been so far from the case in many areas and I dread to think of the ramifications of it. I'm pleased to hear you're enjoying Adrienne - I agree 25 minutes is about the most I can tolerate at home.

@hilariousnamehere glad to hear the kitties are doing well! They can be finicky things with food can't they? Mine has just been howling at me because he wanted the tuna I was cooking with, not his boring bog-standard cat food, thank you very much.

@queenrollo You are very lovely to put together a care package for your sibling, just being thought of in that way can be a real boost. Sorry to hear you're struggling with fatigue and not making much head way with the doctor. Someone else mentioned seeing a traditional Chinese medicine practitioner - could that be something you consider? Another thing I'll be doing is reading 'The body keeps the score', I keep seeing it recommended everywhere.

@HillsBesideTheSea I'm glad you're making some progress and have the support of other family members. We can't do it all alone, it's too much. How was your reading and picnic lunch yesterday?

@AnotherCrazyBirdLady I'm sorry to hear you felt unwell after the booster jab, though I'm glad you were able to rest and relax.

@BlankTimes gorgeous pictures! I actually missed the full moon, but I've been looking out for it over the last few days and it was still beautiful clear in the bright blue sky around 9am today. It made me smile.

@speakout a gorgeous post about Kintsugi. It sounds very closely connected with wabi-sabi, which is a broader Japanese philosophy centered on the acceptance of transience and imperfection. I learned about it a few years back and it had quite a profound impact on me. I love the way you extrapolate it out to humans, I quite agree with you. The last two years have been incredibly challenging for me (I don't know if I've told you guys?! Grin), but in a way they have also been the making of me. I have found strength I didn't know I had and that is quite fortifying.

@Aerwyna It sounds like a few people have been impacted by the wolf moon energy! How have you found it?

I've had an interesting experience with breathwork I thought some of you might be interested in. The main practice we've been doing is setting an intention and then doing 15 minutes of very deep, full belly breathing and staying with anything that comes up. I gather the idea is you witness past issues/trauma from a calm place, which helps to heal any longstanding issues.

I set the intention to feel more secure and at peace within myself and what came up was: I need to forgive my ancestors. There has been multiple cases of infant abandonment/separation in my family tree, and while I have been aware of it, and actually quite cross about it, I have never thought of it from the women's perspective. No matter the circumstances, they must have felt some degree of heartbreak and regret. Last night I had a dream that I abandoned DD and woke up this morning with a terrible headache, feeling dreadful.

Anyway! I won't witter on anymore, I just thought it might be a good modality to explore.

moregarlic · 21/01/2022 11:34

P.S. Ok so I have had my results back and everything looks normal ish - my vitamin d level is 64 nmol/L and it says a normal range is 25 - 99,999 (is that a typo?!)...the internet seems to say everything from that's very low to that's totally normal. Just wondered what those of you who started on vit d had?

speakout · 21/01/2022 12:22

moregarlic 50 to 125 nmol/l is considered normal range.

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TotoAnnihiliation · 21/01/2022 12:44

@moregarlic above 50 is considered normal, my doctor still keeps me on a maintenance dose when mine is around 64.

Did they check your b12 and folate?

HillsBesideTheSea · 21/01/2022 13:35

Actually below 50 is the threshold for intervention treatment. If you look at the WHO guidelines it is considered low and taking a supplement recommended. The NHS won't treat you for deficiency below 50.

Ds tends to extreme deficiency at the in the teens levels, he is often on several got to monitor liver and kidney function levels of vit D intervention. But for me i need to run at a much higher level in order just to get out of bed (I have fibro and CFS which are 2 conditions noted for having issues with vit d, there is some very interesting research on the benefit of vit d in reducing symptoms in several conditions including those two). You have to be careful as too much vit D is can be harmful, but depending on your medical conditions it is often recommended in general that all individuals in the UK would benefit from vit D during the winter.

Vit D and its usage in the body is a fascinating worm hole. Considering it is involved in the immune system, healing process, aging process, sleep cycle and many many many more systems directly and indirectly. don't ask me how i know, also vit d processing disorders is another fascinating worm hole of new research

speakout · 22/01/2022 07:10

Quiet in here at the moment, it's been a busy week for me too, work, lots of personal admin, lookng after other people, my mother has been unwell for a couple of days- not badly so but she is elderly to has taken to bed, and I have been running up and down stairs with drinks and food on a tray.
This coming week will be busy too, something has to give. I have a course on Monday morning- women's empowerment ( sounds amazzing) , but then seem to have booked myself a yoga class every morning, with a massage on Tuesday, and the first of a block of counselling sessions on Wednesday, same day I have to take my mother to the nurse for blood tests. Throw in the fact I work full time and a carer to two family members, and want to spend time with my DD on her days off, next week needs to be severely re-arranged, otherwise I will be left a frrazzled crisp.
I am loathes to cut the self care, but one or two bookins need to be cancelled, and although a yoga class and a massage both on the same day sounds fantastic, it is a working day for me also, so probably one of those should go!
My women's empowerment course is only 4 sessions - 4 hours, one day a week, over 4 weeks, so I could postpone my counselling until after that finishes.
How I long to live in that little cottage alone in the woods!
Have a magical weekend sisters, I hope the world is being kind to you.

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