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Any Witches Here? Part 8.

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speakout · 24/04/2019 21:19

Or Wiccans. or Pagans? Or anyone who is interested in a magical path or feels some magical stirrings.

A place for support, learning, swapping ideas and magical inspiration.

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LongingToBeByTheSea · 17/05/2019 11:02

Lovely pictures @YashmisCrone I'm soaking up some of the calm energy they contain, it's needed here today!

That swim sounds amazing @rivierliedje!

Hope you enjoyed the yoga @speakout I'm still trying to pluck up the courage to go to a beginners session. I need to get on with it!

I've just had a really long phone call from a very emotional DS1 which has left me a bit upset. He's away at uni and was due to come home this week as he's finished his exams now. He's suffered with a skin condition this year which we put down to the stress of his first year at uni. He had it as a child but nothing for years until now. The dr's at uni haven't been much help and as a result he's become a bit of a hermit so it seems, as he's understandably embarrassed. His whole body is apparently now affected and it's so bad his skin is cracked and bleeding.
I hadn't known how bad it was as he's avoided coming home as much as possible.

Anyway, he now thinks it's actually something else which is highly contagious but can't get an appointment at the uni drs until next Thursday even as an emergency?! My instinct is to go and get him but he doesn't want me to incase he infects the little ones. I'm pretty sure he can be seen here sooner than Thursday but he's adamant he doesn't want to risk it, even though he's miserable there.
I'm so upset thinking of him there on his own in this state, and can't believe it's got so bad. I just want to scoop him up and have him back where he belongs.

Sorry for rambling on ladies, I don't really have anyone else to to tell and I thought you'd understand.

I hope you all have magical day 🧙🏻‍♀️

queenrollo · 17/05/2019 11:37

Longing that is really tough :( But I guess you have to give him autonomy over the situation. I know I would be the same as you and my heart would be desperate to go and get him.

VioletCharlotte · 17/05/2019 11:46

Longing ah that's really tough. My boys are similar ages, so I know exactly how you feel. Bless him, it sounds like he's really suffering. How lovely though, that he's concerned about passing it on to the younger children, what a sensitive and caring young man you've raised. Is there anyway you can go and see him, just for the day over the weekend?

Sending love to you and healing to him 💕 xx

LongingToBeByTheSea · 17/05/2019 12:09

Thanks for the replies @queenrollo and @VioletCharlotte I knew you'd understand here. This mothering lark is so hard sometimes!

This is incredibly outing, I do name change for this thread, but can't imagine there are many in my situation so anyone who knows me will recognise my situation.
I can't really go and see him as I also have a profoundly disabled young adult as well as my little ones. It's also another reason DS1 doesn't want to come back yet as he knows how ill his brother could get as he has a compromised immune system.

Sorry @queenrollo, I missed your other post somehow when I read through before. Glad you are feeling energised and I hope that the emotional times and changes work out well. Good to hear that you are prioritising time for yourself, it sounds like a lovely time will be had Smile

Loyaultemelie · 17/05/2019 12:33

Thanks for you and your poor DS longing

YashmisCrone · 17/05/2019 12:48

Longing empathy and love from me too. Getting a GP’s appointment seems nigh on impossible these days doesn’t it. I’d be tempted to ring out of hours after the surgery has closed and see if there’s any way of getting an appointment that way.

My DS has recurring impetigo for many years. It caused him a lot of distress and would be worse when his skin was dry/cracked beforehand. We did manage to prevent spreading though with allocated cups/towels etc.

Love to you and your boy x

RosaWaiting · 17/05/2019 15:36

longing if he is mixing with the public then he can go to a walk in clinic, hopefully there is one near him?

it could be the skin condition but infected. It doesn't necessarily mean he will be contagious to others.

I have anxiety and have had eczema in the past - I can totally imagine panicking myself into thinking I had something infectious when I didn't.

speakout · 17/05/2019 15:57

LongingToBeByTheSea

Sending my thoughts too- you have had some good advice.

Out of hours would be a good idea, I would be tempted to phone the medical practice at the University, I have a knack of being able to get appointments when surgeries are "full".
I think many of us do- a skill we develop as mothers, and the young ones have still to learn.
Would he mind if you attempted that? Even if that does not work he may be able to see a practice nurse, it's often easier to get an appointment, there and they can often prescribe.

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YashmisCrone · 18/05/2019 09:56

Good morning sisters,

It’s a cooler day here today and we’ve had some rain the plants have received gratefully.

I have pottering to do! And am mulling over my new directions.

Interestingly my excitement morphed to anxious feelings as I slept which is natural I know through times of change.

I remembered what Fitz was saying about ‘less thinking, more awareness’ and about observing rather than being your feelings.

Through this I was able to step outside of my feelings and observe them with curiosity. Almost like a game. (‘Oh. That looks like fear of the unknown, concern about having the skills I need, worries about money..’ etc)

It was really powerful actually as a way to stop the momentum and my being consumed by it. Allowed me to re-connect with my essence and step outside of it all. I feel calmer now. I just wanted to share in case it’s a helpful re-frame for anyone else. We are not our thoughts/feelings. They have as much power as we give them.

Wishing everyone a mindfully calm day! X

VioletCharlotte · 18/05/2019 10:09

Yashmis I'm smiling as I read this as I've been doing something very similar this morning. Like you, I was kept awake mulling over something I did yesterday, being extremely critical, and thinking about what I could have done better.

This morning, with a clear head,I've detached myself and asked what would 'X' say to me if I asked her about this? This has helped me to explore the situation, without beating myself up, and to look at it as a learning experience, rather than a failure.

It is powerful isn't it? Love that we're so in synch with one another on this thread ❤️

Tonight my full moon ritual will be all about letting go of being critical and over analysing 🌕

Blessings to you all for a lovely day 🙏

YashmisCrone · 18/05/2019 10:40

Very powerful Violet!

I love how in synch we are too. Very empowering. I think all of our energy coming together as it does here adds up to a powerful force. I like it when some of us seem to be working with the same energy at the same time. Smile

Glad to hear you were able to step outside of it as well. I like your technique of embodying the energy of someone else to view yourself more kindly. Lovely stuff.

Sounds like a great idea for a full moon ritual. I have some releasing to do too! 🌕

LongingToBeByTheSea · 18/05/2019 11:03

Thank you so much everyone for taking the time to reply, I really appreciate it. I've persuaded DS to let me go and get him later today. I'll take him to the walk in centre once I get him back and hopefully get it all sorted out.

I like the idea of stepping back and looking at your worries from an outsiders view. I find I'm far more critical of myself than I would be if a friend came to me with the same problem. Being kind to ourselves doesn't always come naturally.

I'm grabbing 5 minutes now with a coffee and some incense lit while it's quiet. Then, the laundry awaits! Blessings to you all 💫

Any Witches Here? Part 8.
speakout · 18/05/2019 11:04

Good morning, lovely to hear about your full moon rituals.

I won't be having a ritual tonight, but I will be cleansing crystals and making full moon water.

Interesting points about anxiety/excitement.

That has been a subject of discussions I have had with my DD ongoing over the years. Through her dancing ( from the age of 4) she has had many performances, dance exams etc. there are times when she has felt both anxiety and excitement over events.

Adrenalin is produced when we feel anxious and when we feel excited, so many of the feelings are identical, the fluttering tummy, sweaty palms perhaps, monkey chatter mind, decrease appetite, elevated heart rate.

Sometimes it is difficult to differentiate anxiety from excitement, sometimes we have both feelings at the same time, sometimes we misinterpret.
An upcoming event, say getting married can illicit feelings of anxiety and excitement, but we have the option of making a concious decision of how much of each cause is contributing.

I see my DD now tell her own dance students before a show perhaps - "That's excitement, not nerves, enjoy the feelings!" We have an opportunity to reframe those feelings.

I even watched as my DD went into her A level exams control her feelings of nervousness, she said " Mum I am telling myself this is excitement, not anxiety". A wise young soul!

It is a glorious day here, a light smirr rain, interspersed with heavier bursts. quite misty and still, everythin is so gren, the air is cool and fresh, pungent with the fragrance of petrichor and botanicals. I planted seeds outside yesterday and my wild flower seedlings are all in need of a heavy soak. So the weather is perfect.

I have just come back from the supermarket where people are talking of it being a "miserable " day.
Glad I have my own frame on this!

Have a magical day sisters.

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YashmisCrone · 18/05/2019 11:19

Totally agree speakout you explain this so well. Thank you 🙏

Your DD is indeed a wise young soul- she’s had an excellent teacher Smile

YashmisCrone · 18/05/2019 11:21

Longing so glad you’ve managed to arrange that with your DS. Great news. Hope all goes well x

Your picture is wonderfully calming. And I’m wondering how many of us witches here are in possession of those mini moon gazing hares!!

speakout · 18/05/2019 11:27

YashmisCrone

You are so kind.

LongingToBeByTheSea I am so glad to hear this- your son is open to you helping- that is half way to a recovery. I can sense your relief. I am sure he will be relieved too knowing that you are helping.

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YashmisCrone · 18/05/2019 11:56

My full moon practice will look a bit like this. I seem much more inclined to do things aimed at aligning with and tapping into the energy present these days. Kind of like opening up and flowing with on a day to day basis. Although I do have some big manifestation work in progress! I’ll use this to add to that energy 💫

The other picture is for those with DD’s. I thought it was beautiful ✨

Any Witches Here? Part 8.
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VioletCharlotte · 18/05/2019 12:17

Longing so pleased you're going to pick up your DS and hopefully get things sorted. I totally agree with what you said about how critical we are of ourselves. A while ago, I began to listen to my inner voice and realised how harsh I was being. I decided then and there to start talking to myself more kindly and offer advice in the same way I would to a friend. It really does help.

Speakout your post about nerves and excitement really resonates with me and some of the stuff I've been doing recently. Your DD sounds lovely, just like her Mum 😊

It's cloudy, but warm here today. I'm hoping the cloud will lift so I can see the moon later. I know it's still there behind the cloud, but I do love to see it!

speakout · 18/05/2019 12:17

YashmisCrone

I love the idea of having a whole day dedicated to the full moon, lots of little things, a really practical approach.
Rather than having a focussed short time- which is great too- but lots of different small parts of practice over the day.
Your manifestation energy is high- you are on a roll!!
I will join you and light a candle.

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YashmisCrone · 19/05/2019 09:56

I hope everyone was able to receive some of the full moon’s energy. I had a refreshing sleep and am feeling calm.

Laundry magic underway before the rain that’s forecast for later.

I listened to this podcast yesterday. I thought it might appeal to some of my sisters here- the focus is on women rising to heal the planet

soundcloud.com/treesisters/magic-regeneration-and-togetherness-with-starhawk-calling-all-women

RosaWaiting · 19/05/2019 09:58

this is the second time I've not seen the full moon because I opted for a sleeping pill and early night

there's obviously something about full moon that wears me out but tells me to care for myself.

I did have a busy day socially which I find hard. Going out with my sister today - normally I can't socialise two days in a row but it was the only day that worked.

life can be overwhelming but I am relieved to be feeling calm instead of anxious!

VioletCharlotte · 19/05/2019 10:59

Morning, another one here who slept deeply. Sometimes the full moon over-energises me and keeps me awake, but not this time. I have been doing a lot of yoga and spirit work though, so that could be why.

Rosa, you might find this link about the effects of the full moon interesting. This seems to resonate with quite a few people around me at the moment.
www.facebook.com/291656500883103/posts/2258504087531658?s=662273551&sfns=mo

Yashmis thanks you for sharing that podcast. I'm going to a women's circle later. The woman who is leading it talks a lot about , how in order to heal the world, we women need to come together and rise up to balance out all the toxic masculine energy in the world, with feminine energy. Powerful stuff!

speakout · 19/05/2019 11:27

Good morning, I too slept soundly. For 10 hours, rarely do I sleep that long. And some great links- thank you.
I was feeling a little fragmented yesterday, all too much, too many ideas and concerns and disjointed thinking, so today I am trying to have a day of focus and centre.
Started with a Body Pump class, quite hypnotic and meditative in a way too, repetition and rythmn, met a lovely local woman trying o save some badger setts that are in danger of being bulldozed for development.

So a good start.

I hope you all find some good energy today.

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Elphame · 19/05/2019 13:04

Good morning - I also slept like the dead but walking from Avebury to Devizes on Friday and Deviizes to Bradford on Avon on Saturday would have had a lot to do with that!

Currently incinerating herbs for my spygaric tinctures - much harder than I anticipated and I can't get them as white as they should be, The person who set up the group has done a moonlight flit and I'm not a happy bunny at all.