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Lulumama's haunted house - Part 3

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lulumama · 24/04/2007 20:16

Thank you all for your contributions to my threads so far..

now, i have the chap from the spiritualist church coming over next Monday, to cleanse the house

anyone had this sort of thing done? can you tell me what to expect?

ta xxx

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lulumama · 01/05/2007 07:36

have emailed the people that SEA linked to earlier, will see what happens x

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Rosylily · 01/05/2007 08:24

My Dad cleansed a house for my foster sister. He just said a prayer. we were all there and it did do the trick. It wasn't a friendly ghost (it was frightening her children)and I always got a horrible feeling going into that house

When my ds1 was 2 he told me 'the white one' had brought him down the stairs and dd had an imaginary friend who she used to talk about as she learnt to talk and said she was 'already deaded'. It's nice to come across people who can make sense of these kind of things a bit.

All the best with it Lulumama, I'm glad it's a friendly boy anyway.

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lulumama · 01/05/2007 14:06

well, ghost man has gone! after arriving 24 hours late !

sweet old man, so couldn;t be cross !

said it was a young boy, who died in the mid twenties, falling down the steps into the cellar, he was called stanley and had 6 siblings! father was something to do with shipping.....has sent him home to his mum!

he also picked up on another name, whihc is the name of our DS, and one of our dogs is called stanley !

now to decide if we investigate the history or not!

i am happy with that and he said that he does not envisage him coming back, as he wanted his mum,and has gone to her

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lulumama · 01/05/2007 14:06

1920s, not twenties !

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Saturn74 · 01/05/2007 14:09

glad he was helpful.
hope all is quiet and peaceful now - and that Stanley has been reunited with his Mum.

expatinscotland · 01/05/2007 14:09

Relief, Lulu!

Do you 'feel' it's gone. You can, of course.

Often it doesn't take much at all to move something on.

I had a little boy in here, too, and he was just frightened.

I only had to cleanse the room on a lovely day with the window open and he was gone.

southeastastra · 01/05/2007 14:10

aw that's a sad story, hope it's peaceful for you now

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lulumama · 01/05/2007 14:11

it is a beautiful day here, as it happens!

i have to go out in a minute, so when i get back, i will try to 'feel' if things are different....

i know i didn't mention any names or anything to him, i was really careful not to, so too much of a coincidence that he picked out two names that are part of our family

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lulumama · 01/05/2007 14:12

thank you all very much for all your kind words and advice and for not making me feel like a bit of a loon!

x

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expatinscotland · 01/05/2007 14:13

Now this boy's mother came looking for him and she was pissed off, I can tell you.

At first I was frightened.

But what she needed was acknowledgement.

That was her first child, and she wasn't allowed to grieve for him, as she had many other demands on her life and time.

All she needed, once you got past the fierce protectiveness I mistook for anger, was someone to feel for what happened to her, losing a child.

aDad · 01/05/2007 14:14

you loon.

only kidding

here's to a peaceful future in the house...

expatinscotland · 01/05/2007 14:14

I do not know the name of the boy who was here, but just about everything else about him: that he died in 1876 of a respiratory illness characterised by a cough.

His mother, however, was 'Jenny'.

An old tenement stood here before this. It was torn down in 1992 and was derelict.

KerryMum · 01/05/2007 14:14

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aDad · 01/05/2007 14:15

(that was to lulu )

Taylormama · 01/05/2007 14:17

aw Lulu - is this a happy ending of sorts? It feels quite a sad story tbh (little stanley) and how strange that he picked up on the names etc - mwah mwah xxxx

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lulumama · 01/05/2007 16:02

thanks all , espcially aDad!

expat..i was worried that if the boy didn;t want to leave or someone came looking there would be trouble...!

house feels nice, but it always did, so when kids are in bed, will wander and see what it feels like!

i am glad that he has gone back to his mum! was just a bit too much that he was attracting DDs attention

alls well that ends well

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fransmom · 02/05/2007 16:48

hi lulu glad you all ok now x i had a little girl come to me looking for her mom (can't remember if i told you the story or not fmm thinks.......)

well anyway, the impression i got from her was that she cam eto me becasue i was a mom so maybe that was the case for you and little stanley? as an idea, maybe you could put a vase of flowers up on a day for him (maybe his birthday if you know it) and say thanks for the visit? i thinkthat perhaps he got your daughter's attention first because he may not have been able or even have known how to get thru to you because he knew you might be able to help him????

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lulumama · 02/05/2007 16:50

we sort of felt he was looking for his mum, and a family ! think he is gone, but am still on 'high alert' waiting for things to happen, so every creak and squeak makes me jump !

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fransmom · 02/05/2007 16:53

((((((((((hugs for lulu and family))))))))))

your senses may well be on high alert for a while but once you get used to the new atmosphere you will be fine x

Wotzsaname · 02/05/2007 16:53

hope there is a good outcome for all, in this life and beyond........

pirategirl · 07/05/2007 21:40

any sign of him lulumama? Have things been more peaceful?

pirategirl · 09/05/2007 10:53

bump

fransmom · 09/05/2007 22:22

not heard of lulu for a while

pirategirl · 10/05/2007 13:15

no, i was thinking the same thing

pirategirl · 12/05/2007 10:11

where is lulumama?