Puckered
I’m sorry to hear about your DDad.
You know your DDad very well and will take an accurate ‘model’ of him in your mind into the future. As you have new experiences you’ll have a good idea of what your DDad might think and say about them and how he would advise you. So he will always have an inner presence in your life whatever happens.
Earlier in this thread, there was some discussion of Einstein and his views on God and religion.
On hearing of the news of the death of his good friend Michael Besso, Einstein wrote a letter to Besso’s widow, which included the words:
Now he has departed from this strange world a little ahead of me. That means nothing. People like us, who believe in physics, know that the distinction between past, present and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion.
This was no mere platitude. The view of many physicists is that all of reality, all that was and will be, exists as a seamless whole.
Every part of the spacetime ‘loaf’ exists on the same footing as every other, suggesting, as Einstein believed, that reality embraces past, present and future equally and that the flow we envision bringing one section to light as another goes dark is illusory.
B Greene: The Fabric of the Cosmos
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