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A Christian prayer thread for Autumn/Winter

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Tuo · 30/10/2014 01:17

Welcome to our new prayer thread for autumn/winter. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes; also thanking God for her recent 'all-clear' at her annual cancer check-up;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for BES to find the RL support that she needs;

... BlessedAssurance, for life with her two LOs, and for her family who are far away;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for God to provide if her XH is successful in training for a new role, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she continues to miss Bob; thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; and praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her work situation; and for the relationship between her brother and sister to improve;

... howtoapproachthis for physical and emotional healing; and for a good bond between her and her DD;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find good ways of supporting her DS, and for him to find renewed happiness in the coming weeks;

... MadHairDay, for her health; for peace of mind about the choice of secondary school for her DS; and for her DD to find friendship and acceptance;

... MrsPixieMoo, thanking God for her baby DD; and praying for a new home where the family can be really happy;

... Pipbin, for her IVF treatment - for her to find support and a positive way forward, whatever the outcome;

... PositiveAttitude, for her new studies and her work as a Deacon in her church; for her mum, who has dementia; and for her DD1 to find one or more special friends;

... PurplePidjin, for a more peaceful life;

... QuestionofFaith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and for a poster we won't name but whose situation is known to God, praying that she is safe and supported.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: ALittleFaith, Badvoc, BlueTinkerbell, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, MaryBS, niminypiminy, PandaG, RoomForALittleOne, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, tunnocksteacake, weegiemum, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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OP posts:
PositiveAttitude · 04/01/2015 08:47

Hi ninetynine and a big welcome here.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 04/01/2015 09:15

As long as there's tea, coffee and cake after ceremony it'll be fine. They'd have had lunch before coming and then the cake will keep them going until buffet.

I got married on 18 December and had wedding at 11am! It's dark by 4pm so I wanted good light for pictures. But everyone's different. We ate at 2 from memory. Not great for kids but I was young and didn't realise. They had mulled wine whilst waiting.

PurplePidjingThroughTheSnow · 04/01/2015 12:33

We're going for 2pm so done by 3ish, into the hall (if I can get it organised!) for Brew and Cake then hot buffet for family/travellers only at a pub somewhere around 5. But I have lots of littlies plus dn with autism to accomodate. And in May we won't have the light issue :)

FaithLoveandGrace · 04/01/2015 12:37

I see what you mean bes. That's why we're planning on afternoon wedding, hopefully people will have lunch beforehand.

You sure mome? I'm a bit worried about food tbh. We're trying to keep things really simple so thought we'd just do an evening buffet but now I'm worried people will find it rubbish. Mulled wine whilst waiting sounds awesome! Tbh I think we're just expecting it to rain being December and all that and so will have photos inside. Church lights are pretty good so should be fine :)

FaithLoveandGrace · 04/01/2015 12:39

Cross posted with purplepidjing. You're plan sounds fab! We thought about doing it your way but decided to go with evening reception instead to try and make it last longer. Fingers crossed the kids don't get too bored. There are toys in church they can use in the hall and hopefully they'll just enjoy running around with each other with the music in the evening.

PurplePidjingThroughTheSnow · 04/01/2015 12:48

SIL wants to be able to do it in a day, and if dn is upset for whatever reason that means she and MIL will have a miserable time. Which kind of defeats the purpose really! And dn's needs coincide to a large extent with the 18mo and 2 2.5yos ie lots of space to run around and no sitting nicely at a table for hours Wink

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 04/01/2015 14:08

does not have to be a lot of food, just enough to keep going to the buffet. cake and biscuits etc. don't forget some people may have had to have an early lunch to travel.

I think we went for a 2pm wedding and food sometime around 5ish. only had one buffet type meal and finished early.

one meal not a problem. just a snack to keep going between lunch and buffet. you will be doing a lot of standing up and lots of nervous energy.

how about some mince pies?

amberlight · 04/01/2015 14:21

Still here, quietly. Reading and praying.
If there's a spare prayer going, one for my bouts of inner ear problems to go away. Getting fed up with them now.

cloutiedumpling · 04/01/2015 15:17

Mince pies or Christmas cake sound like a great idea.

In Scotland we tend to have a wedding around 2pm, wedding breakfast at about 5 (which is a 3 course meal or buffet despite the name) and then a buffet supper at around 9 - 10pm to keep everyone going until the end of the night. Bacon rolls or stovies (meat, gravy and lots of potatoes which tastes nicer than it sounds) are popular for the supper. The only thing I don't like about this set up is that you quite often miss lunch if you are travelling any distance so it can seem like quite a long time until you get the main meal at 5ish. Cake or mince pies are both quite filling though and should help to get round it. Wish I'd thought of it when we got married.

FaithLoveandGrace · 04/01/2015 15:31

Thanks all. Good point about travelling, I'd not thought about that. Excellent idea re mince pies, that'd be fab! If we get some normal cakes too that should be fine. Even though it seems ages away, talking about it is getting me excited now :)

Praying for your ear problems amber.

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 04/01/2015 20:15

operation flat tidy:
been spring cleaning the children's room. both beds have been hoovered under. and most of the books have been tidied up. I have also cleaned the mould off the windows.

innerstrength100 · 04/01/2015 21:42

Struggling here. Lots of crying. Seem to have done the two steps forward, one step back thing last week, but now just four steps back. Just want my partner back so so so so so bad.

God's will be done. Praise God.

ALittleFaith · 04/01/2015 21:50

bes the windows is on my list for tomorrow!

Praying for God's will innerstrength.

Can I ask for prayer, I've been ill with a viral infection and lost my voice for over 4 weeks now. I am quite stressed - another prayer point is my Dad is unwell. He's got an appointment on Tuesday, what we'd like is for it to be something treatable/manageable. He's gone downhill quickly.

Praise God though, after 2 months away, we made it to church this morning. :)

Prayers and blessings over you all.

FaithLoveandGrace · 04/01/2015 22:07

Prayers for innerstrength and alittlefaith. Sending lots of hugs to you inner. It'll be a slow process but you will get back to your smiley, happy self. Baby steps inner, just take baby steps and each day at a time.

Alittlefaith that's really good you made it to church today.

Ooh bes that reminds me I need to clean our windows, thanks for the reminder.

We didn't make it to church today. DSS was shattered but had a late night yesterday so we let him sleep in this morning. Had a fun day though with him. He's now with his DM and I've managed to write 5 pages of the 15 page report I have due in on Friday. I love DSS to bits and miss him when he's not here but he's an excellent source of procrastination so at least when he's with his DM I've less excuses to avoid my work.

I've another few reports to read and then it's off to bed. Back to work tomorrow . Prayers for all for a peaceful night and especially for Oma over the coming days.

Tuo · 04/01/2015 23:58

Hello all, I'm back. Lots to catch up with here, but we've had an exciting day, having added a second dog to our madhouse family. It's going to be fine, but the first few days will be hard work: he was a stray, so no idea about house training etc. I am thanking God for a great New Year with friends and for the fourth anniversary today of belonging to my current church, where I'm very happy.

Anyway, I wanted to post a prayer first and foremost for Oma at this time. I know that this will be a tough time, full of difficult memories, and I pray that she will find love and comfort with her friend, as well as good company. I pray that she knows how much we, on this thread, care about her and appreciate all that she does to help and support us, and that she knows our prayers are with her this week.

Praying also for innerstrength. I think it's inevitable that you'll find things difficult now... Whether we feel 'in the mood' or not, the excitement of Christmas with kids can carry us through, and you had good support over Christmas from your family too, but now that's all over, and it's dark and cold and anticlimactic... it's no wonder you're missing your DP more than ever. But you've done brilliantly thus far and you will continue to do so. Acknowledge that it's normal and proper that you should feel sad in the circumstances, but also tell yourself that every day that passes is a day closer to spring, a day closer to the next good thing that you have planned for yourself (whether it's a holiday, a day out with the family, seeing friends, etc.). And remember that we're praying for you.

Prayers for those planning weddings (FaithLove and PurplePidjin, IIRC): for arrangements to go smoothly and for happiness in the run-up to the wedding and after it. In terms of food/timing etc., it seems to me that the main thing is to be clear with people about what will be happening. So if there will be food at 7.00, then ensure that people know that, and if they have a child who will need something to eat before that, then they can bring a snack/picnic for them to keep them going in the meantime. As long as people know, they can plan accordingly...

Praying for amber's ear infection to get lost, and for ALittleFaith's lost voice to return. Also sending lots of prayers for Faith's dad.

Wishing a Happy New Year to all on the thread, and a big welcome to ninetynine - feel free to lurk or post... it's great to see you here. Apologies to anyone I haven't mentioned specifically tonight. I'll re-read the thread tomorrow and will catch up with anything I've missed.

OP posts:
Dutchoma · 05/01/2015 07:47

Thank you.

QofF · 05/01/2015 08:35

Praying for you Oma. Are you with friends now?

Dutchoma · 05/01/2015 09:58

Yes, I am with a friend in the Wirral. I met her last April when I went to Scargill House in Yorkshire. We are going to see the Narnia exhibition in Chester this morning.

innerstrength100 · 05/01/2015 11:04

Welcome back Tuo, and thank you for your thoughts.

Lots of prayers for Oma; may God be with you.

Prayers for Alittlefaith and her Dad; I do hope the appointment tomorrow brings positive news.

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 05/01/2015 11:05

inset day here.

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 05/01/2015 11:15

sorry suddenly doubted myself and had to rush off to check.

ALittleFaith · 05/01/2015 12:26

bes I called work last night to check I wasn't working! I've got a random day off so I've swing Faithlet to the childminder and have got lots done around the house.

Narnia exhibit sounds great!

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 05/01/2015 12:43

we are off out and I do not want to go... i promised dd though. I am sure it will be ok once we are out... but hey. these things are really annoying.

FaithLoveandGrace · 05/01/2015 13:31

Oma Narnia exhibition sounds fab, I hope you have a good time.

welcome back tuo - glad you had a good New Years celebration and definitely exciting times with a new dog. Thanks for your prayers for wedding planning.

bes I hope your day turns out okay.

I had a case of monday morning, back to work blues today. Despite wanting to get back into the swing of things, I did not want to get out of bed this morning. Just about made it to my first meeting on time but someone else was late. Going to be a busy two weeks but I'm actually glad to be back into the routine of things tbh.

Hope everyone has a good afternoon x

howtoapproachthis · 05/01/2015 14:14

would really appreciate prayer... i don't have enough energy to complete the day. mum and dad can't come up every single day, and i get irritable with dd when i can't cope and its not fair on her

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