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A Christian prayer thread for Autumn/Winter

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Tuo · 30/10/2014 01:17

Welcome to our new prayer thread for autumn/winter. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes; also thanking God for her recent 'all-clear' at her annual cancer check-up;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for BES to find the RL support that she needs;

... BlessedAssurance, for life with her two LOs, and for her family who are far away;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for God to provide if her XH is successful in training for a new role, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she continues to miss Bob; thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; and praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her work situation; and for the relationship between her brother and sister to improve;

... howtoapproachthis for physical and emotional healing; and for a good bond between her and her DD;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find good ways of supporting her DS, and for him to find renewed happiness in the coming weeks;

... MadHairDay, for her health; for peace of mind about the choice of secondary school for her DS; and for her DD to find friendship and acceptance;

... MrsPixieMoo, thanking God for her baby DD; and praying for a new home where the family can be really happy;

... Pipbin, for her IVF treatment - for her to find support and a positive way forward, whatever the outcome;

... PositiveAttitude, for her new studies and her work as a Deacon in her church; for her mum, who has dementia; and for her DD1 to find one or more special friends;

... PurplePidjin, for a more peaceful life;

... QuestionofFaith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and for a poster we won't name but whose situation is known to God, praying that she is safe and supported.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: ALittleFaith, Badvoc, BlueTinkerbell, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, MaryBS, niminypiminy, PandaG, RoomForALittleOne, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, tunnocksteacake, weegiemum, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

[post edited by MNHQ]

OP posts:
Kaykat · 02/01/2015 08:28

That's lovely Faith your DSS is lucky to have you. Are you sure there's no way to afford the counselling? It may be more important than other essential things there may be something less vital you could drop for the time being?

My ex keeps making horrible threats against me and DS if I don't comply to his wishes in the divorce. I'm ignoring it he's a bully.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 02/01/2015 08:40

Is there a Christian counselling service near you faith? I had sessions for only £5 when I wasn't working.

Dutchoma · 02/01/2015 09:02

Oh Kay prayers that you will stand firm in the face of your bullying ex, Have you reported them to your solicitor?

PositiveAttitude · 02/01/2015 09:23

Happ New Year to you all.

Prayers continuing as I read through. Howto if you need any information on ME please contact me. As I am sure you remember DD3 suffered severe ME for all of her teenage years, but she is now living a good life and is recovering well. What worked well for her was knowing her limit and pacing her life accordingly. I know that is not so simple when you have a DC but hopefully now your DD is at nursery you will be able to manage that time for yourself.

2015 looks like it is going to be quite a full-on year for us here. DH and I had a long discussion yesterday about where our lives are going. We have some BIG decisions to make as well as some trying times ahead that we know are looming. It is not all bad as we have a very positive plan in the pipeline, too - I will be able to share more of that in the coming weeks, I hope.

DO prayers for you in the coming weeks.

Kaykat · 02/01/2015 16:05

I have been standing very firm that's why he's increasing his threats he's running out of time to persuade me to accept a fraction of what I am probably entitled to. I will update the solicitor next week but he has already given me some very straight talking about not being bullied.

innerstrength100 · 02/01/2015 19:03

Faith - yes, do look for either a christian counselling service, or one that is run as a charity. Sound like it would really help. Hope you are having a good day - and yes I agree your DSS is very lucky to have you.

Tough couple of days for me. Back to lots and lots of crying for some reason. I know it is going to be up and down for a long while yet. Miss my partner so so so desperately, on so many levels - emotional support/lovely tight hugs/sex/chatting/eating a meal together/helping each other in practical ways etc etc etc ad infinitum.

And even after all these weeks I am STILL in a state of UTTER SHOCK that I will never see him again and UTTER SHELL SHOCK at how he behaved in the last few months, and that our relationship is GONE. Still just utterly bewhildered by it all. Sad It is like my brain still cannot quite process what has happened yet.

ZingTheGreat · 02/01/2015 19:19

Dutchoma

I've been thinking of you today as i seem to remember your darling Bob passed away a year ago (today? tomorrow?)
I hope you are managing ok, first Christmas without him couldn't have been easySad

I'm sending you all my love and big hugs xxx

Dutchoma · 02/01/2015 19:35

Oh Zing, thank you. The anniversary is on the 6th, but the Monday before will be hard as well. I am going away tomorrow for a few days to a friend in the Wirral, can't bear the idea of being on my own in the house.
Christmas has been very strange, but good. Both children came with the grandchildren and we had a lovely time. I did everything like we used to do it, with real candles on the tree and a turkey prepared according to the recipe we have used since 1979.

Innerstrength I hope things will soon ease for you, this Christmas must have been hard for you as it was for me.

FaithLoveandGrace · 02/01/2015 19:36

Thanks all for saying my DSS is lucky to have me, it means a lot when I'm doubting myself and know his mum isn't too keen on me. We've had a good day playing with his new remote control digger truck and painting with his new art set.

Re counselling, DP and I are going to have to have a proper chat about things when DSS goes to bed. There is a Christian counselling place near us which asks for a donation, don't know how much of a donation is acceptable? but it's also where my old counsellor works and I think I'd feel really awkward if I saw her again. That's probably a stupid reason to avoid it though isn't it?

Dutchoma have been keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Sending lots of love and hugs.

kay I hope your solicitor can help next week. It sounds like you're dealing with things really well. I've never understood people who have children and then are quite happy to walk away with supporting them, or supporting them as minimally as they can get away with!

inner you're doing amazingly. I know it's so hard atm and will probably be a huge shock for a good while. Keeping you in my prayers and sending lots of warm hugs and love to you too.

Waves to all on the thread I haven't mentioned. Praying for all here, both who post and who lurk.

FaithLoveandGrace · 02/01/2015 19:38

Cross posted with oma. It sounds like you had a lovely Christmas :) I hope you have a good time with your friend. Definitely sounds like a good idea rather than staying in the house alone. Xx

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 02/01/2015 19:42

"I don't believe it!"

What is it with significant celebrations? On the positive side, I got to joke with two blokes.... though rather they were not in green jump suits, with big bags, and arriving in a car with blue lights on top. Oh yes. New years eve, and my mother passes out and can not be roused. she spent the night in hospital. I spent a significant part of the evening doing washing and cleaning up.

we have managed a death at christmas, a death at a birthday, and hospital stays at christmas and new year, all in the last three years..

PurplePidjingThroughTheSnow · 02/01/2015 19:50

So tired. Sending love and hugs and prayers to everyone.

Dutchoma · 02/01/2015 22:22

Oh BES I'm sure that is not what I prayed for when I waved you off on Tuesday. Is your mum back home again?

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 02/01/2015 23:44

yes. she is home and so are we... ermm .. as I only ever post from the desk top.

ds has had a wobbly and thrown the contents of the bin in dds bed. another couple of minute action to couse me a lot of work clearing up the fifty million toys and sheets. I may cheat and put them all in a wool wash tomorrow. they are all washable toys. we only buy washable and the hand wash ones have not died from wahing machine exposure yet.

Kaykat · 03/01/2015 09:34

Faith your DSSs mum may be a bit jealous of you especially if her DS comes back telling her you are great but if she were to think rationally about it that's so much nicer than a horrid step mum who is mean to him. I think you should be brave and contact those counsellors and ask for a different counsellor this time so you can have a fresh start with someone new. I'm sure they won't mind.

My solicitor won't be able to help we just have to wait for the judge to deal with him since he just ignores all court orders I'm sure the court won't put up with that indefinitely.

So sad for you Inner I hope you start to feel better soon.

Thinking of you Oma. I admire and am grateful for how supportive you continue to be for myself and others even though you're dealing with your own grief.

I can't help wondering whats involved in that turkey recipe from 1979.....?

madhairday · 03/01/2015 13:32

Just popping in to say a belated Happy New Year to everyone! Will read through. You've all been in my prayers over Christmas.

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 03/01/2015 15:32

were you home for christmas MHD?

operation flat tidy is underway. I have cleaned the bits of the kitchen window that are not obscured by jungle tomato plants. I have sorted out a bag of baby books for charity, some are going to be going in the loft.

LollipopViolet · 03/01/2015 15:58

Offering prayers of thanks today, as I've just received the news my friend L's second baby, a DD, arrived safely a couple of hours ago :) Praying that these early days are as easy as possible. She also has a DS who is 3 :) I am so, so pleased for her and her DP Grin

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 03/01/2015 21:24

operation flat tidy:
four loads of washing to wash the stuff ds got the contents of the bin on.
one carrier bag of books sorted for the charity shop.
one carrier bag of books sorted for the loft. (if the poo leaving creature permits.)
some picking up and tidying other stuff but not much.
cleaned the top part of the window in the kitchen. the bottom half is still mouldy and hidden behind the plants.

ds and dd have been playing all day but things are not much worse than they were ar the start of the day.

FaithLoveandGrace · 03/01/2015 22:05

bes I'm sorry to hear about your mum. Glad she's home now though. Sounds fab with the tidying :)

kay perhaps you're right. It's rather difficult knowing there's someone out there who hates me for no reason I'm aware of other than the fact I love her son dearly :S thanks for advice about counsellors. Tbh I think I'm just finding every excuse to avoid it.

oma I agree with everything Kay has said about you. You're always amazingly supportive to everyone even at the most difficult times. Thank you for being as fab as you are. It is okay though to look after yourself and allow us to be your light for a while. Praying for you over the next few days.

lollipop congratulations to your friend that's awesome news! Praying the early days are as easy as can be for her.

We've had a fab day today celebrating DSS's birthday. He got a bit over excited and had a few meltdowns but otherwise it's been wonderful celebrating with him, a few of his friends and our family. We spent a few hours at the local play centre, enjoyed his birthday cake and playing with his new toys and then finally snuggling up to watch the film his Nanny bought him in his new pajamas. He's now tucked up in bed fast asleep and I'm going to read my book whilst DP is in bath. Forgot just how much I enjoy reading!

But before my book, may I ask your advice please? DP and I need to decide on a time for our wedding. We're having the ceremony at the church we regularly attend followed by a simple tea / cake / coffee reception in the church hall whilst we have photos / mingle. Then at 7pm we can use the hall we've booked for the evening buffet / disco. DP thinks about 4pm for the ceremony but I don't know if that'd be a bit late or if it's about right?

ninetynineonehundred · 03/01/2015 22:14

Hi all, only just discovered this thread because it's in active.
I may lurk for a while but wanted to say hello and happy new year

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 03/01/2015 22:16

Photos after the ceremony take ages. You'll also want good light for them. Can you move wedding a little earlier? 3 maybe?

Just my opinion Smile

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 03/01/2015 22:47

yep photos tke ages...

you will want mingling time too. and the main people in the photos will want to be able to eat before the buffet... bridesmaids parents etc.

work out how long the service will be then time to go out and greet people then time for people to make their way into the hall... tiem to gather people for photos... talk to the photographer and as k how long the package you have booked will take.

FaithLoveandGrace · 03/01/2015 23:03

Hi ninetynine waves :) happy new year to you too.

bes eat before the buffet? I thought that was the point of the buffet. Are we supposed to invite bridesmaids parents too?

Tbh I don't think we'll have light for photos anyway - we're getting married in December. Miles away yet (or at least feels like it) but vicar wants to know a time for the ceremony. If we do it at 3pm that gives 4hrs for ceremony, photos, tea / coffee / cake in the church hall then drive and park up at the evening venue which is about a 10 min drive away. Does that sound better than just 3 hrs? Tbf there's a bar in the reception venue which people can use before 7 if we finish at church early, we're just not allowed the hall until 7 - if that makes sense.

Good point about asking photographer about timing. My sister used same photographer and her photos seemed to take ages!

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 04/01/2015 00:39

people will need to eat sometime between lunch and the buffet at some point after seven, otherwise you will get cranky guests/children/any diabetics will need something...