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A Christian prayer thread for Autumn/Winter

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Tuo · 30/10/2014 01:17

Welcome to our new prayer thread for autumn/winter. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes; also thanking God for her recent 'all-clear' at her annual cancer check-up;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for BES to find the RL support that she needs;

... BlessedAssurance, for life with her two LOs, and for her family who are far away;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for God to provide if her XH is successful in training for a new role, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she continues to miss Bob; thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; and praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her work situation; and for the relationship between her brother and sister to improve;

... howtoapproachthis for physical and emotional healing; and for a good bond between her and her DD;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find good ways of supporting her DS, and for him to find renewed happiness in the coming weeks;

... MadHairDay, for her health; for peace of mind about the choice of secondary school for her DS; and for her DD to find friendship and acceptance;

... MrsPixieMoo, thanking God for her baby DD; and praying for a new home where the family can be really happy;

... Pipbin, for her IVF treatment - for her to find support and a positive way forward, whatever the outcome;

... PositiveAttitude, for her new studies and her work as a Deacon in her church; for her mum, who has dementia; and for her DD1 to find one or more special friends;

... PurplePidjin, for a more peaceful life;

... QuestionofFaith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and for a poster we won't name but whose situation is known to God, praying that she is safe and supported.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: ALittleFaith, Badvoc, BlueTinkerbell, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, MaryBS, niminypiminy, PandaG, RoomForALittleOne, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, tunnocksteacake, weegiemum, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 30/12/2014 10:03

off on an expedition along the motorway to another city to see Oma. pray for a safe journey and not getting lost... again. at least I am very familiar with the roundabout we need to exit. been to it three times on the way last time! oops!

ALittleFaith · 30/12/2014 10:22

Praying for a safe and enjoyable trip bes! :)

FaithLoveandGrace · 30/12/2014 12:03

Have a safe and lovely trip tuo. Hope the train isn't too awkward! I've done it before when we couldn't all fit in the car and it took me an extra 2 hours - hope your journey isn't that much longer! Praying for the family and friends of the young woman you know. Thank you for your kind words as always. Is it normal to find it all so tough? DP seems so great with DSS and takes it all in his stride so I feel like I'm doing something wrong but finding it all tough at times. It seems to be like an emotional rollercoaster where one minute I'm loving it and finding it easy and the next I just want some peace and quiet and find it really tough.

Praying for a safe trip for you too bes. Have a lovely time with Oma.

For those who won't be on before the new year - Happy New Year! See you in 2015!

amberlight · 30/12/2014 16:23

Very lovely to see Oma yesterday.

Praying through the thread...

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 30/12/2014 19:27

home safe and well. And refreshed.

Oma is probably very grateful that ds behaved.... hoping there is no writing on the wall or as yet undiscovered misdemeanors!

The outward journey was beautiful and ds slept on the return. a quick trip to the park in the near dark, and it was surprisingly busy still. and ffffrrreeezing.

Dutchoma · 30/12/2014 19:48

Yes, indeed I am grateful that ds behaved, for his sake as much as for mine. Oma's wrath...well, you don't want to know Grin.

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 30/12/2014 20:05
Grin
BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 30/12/2014 21:46

actually it might have been nice to have someone else go whoop ass on him... I get fed up of being the bad guy.

ex: walks into kitchen: is ds allowed to watch (fighty programme)
me: I am not in there what do you think?
ex: I think it is too fighty
me: well you go and deal with it
ex: walks back into living room: mummy says it is too fighty....

me: you take some responsibility for deciding.... several muttered swearwords under breath which might no have been complementary

howtoapproachthis · 31/12/2014 06:56

Tuo have a lovely relaxing time away over the new year...sounds bliss! so glad Amber and BES got to see Oma :) :) and that the kids were good...that makes everything so much better doesn't it.

i took a risk and went out last night... it was amazing to be OUT enjoying myself. i am suffering for it today, but at least dd is away for another few hours for me to rest. i think i forgot what it was like just to go out and have fun.

thanks for all the support re the diagnosis. there isn't really any help available, but at least i can learn to manage it and people will hopefully understand which is really what i needed.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 31/12/2014 08:07

There's specialist hospitals and doctors in England, my friend who's bed bound with ME goes to Burrswood a lot, she finds them immensely helpful.

I can ask her more if it would help you. Although I realise as you're not in England things maybe different. Is there an organisation you can call for advice?

Kaykat · 31/12/2014 08:12

howto so glad you went out and had a lovely time.

BES that's hilarious.

I had an altogether more sinister conversation with my ex yesterday. I wonder why I waste my breath talking to him when by the end of the conversation I am to blame to everything, accused of all sorts of things, been called names and thoroughly confused. And in between being so nasty he tells me he loves me!! Then I think about the things he said and try to make sense of it and it makes no sense at all. Wish he would hurry up and go back home. No idea when he will leave because he just lies about everything.

howtoapproachthis · 31/12/2014 10:09

kaykat that sounds awful....im so glad you can see through all that behaviour.

mome there isn't anything like that here we do have a support group but i can't get to it. if you ask her what helped her that would be very helpful to me. im gaining lots of ideas at the minute.

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 31/12/2014 10:16

exasperating kay, exasperating.

they seem to have a short circuit somewhere... what on earth makes them think they can be awful and abusive and still say they love you and expect you to respond?

someone I know (ahem) told their h that they were not happy in the marriage... his idea of fixing it? punching her.

Dutchoma · 31/12/2014 11:21

Ahem indeed BES, I just wonder who that might be.

Kaykat He is not staying with you is he? That would be totally horrendous. How is ds coping?

Well the tumble dryer engineer has been. He said it was too cold for the tumble dryer to be out in the shed. He managed to close the door and said: "There you are, that will do it, use your knee" and when I said that was not the main problem, the main problem was that I could not turn it on. So he took the back off, said it was the main board that had broken and that he would have to order it. Now, they had spoken to the engineer and he said the part that they thought was broken was in stock, so am I being cynical when I think this engineer did not like the cold and working in it, so said he hadn't got it?
Do tumble dryers not work in the cold? The engineer most certainly didn't.

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 31/12/2014 11:22

off to see my mother and t ex hhope can keep my temper this time!. they are both v trying.

have a happy new year everyone.

FaithLoveandGrace · 31/12/2014 18:50

Falling asleep here, don't think I'll be much later than DSS tonight so just popping in to say Happy New Year all. You've all really helped me get through some tough times the last month / couple of months and I'm really grateful. Praying you all have a wonderful evening and 2015 brings lots of joy.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 31/12/2014 20:28

And to you faith and all lurking and reading on thread x

GingerCurl · 01/01/2015 00:23

Happy New Gear to all, lurkers and posters alike! My prayer is that we will grow stronger in faith and deeper in love for Lord and Saviour and each other. Good night

ZingTheGreat · 01/01/2015 00:31

Happy & Blessed New Year to you all!Wine

cloutiedumpling · 01/01/2015 00:55

Happy New Year!

Dutchoma · 01/01/2015 07:35

Every blessing for you all in this New Year.

QofF · 01/01/2015 08:19

Happy New Year to you and love to you all.

Kaykat · 01/01/2015 10:04

No no he is not staying with me goodness I would have hit the gin to such an extent as to be incapable of posting here if that was the case. I am trying to stay friendly and have a chat when he collects or I drop off DS because it seems to stop him being so damaging to DS. If I feel it doesn't improve things for DS I will go no contact again but at the moment I think it's helping. DS mostly goes along with what his dad wants but sometimes tries to assert his own wishes. When he wants to come home for a night in his own bed with his own things his dad acts hurt and annoyed about it but DS still insists he is coming home so he's getting better at being assertive.

Happy New Year to you all your support means a lot of me. Some of us could do with a better year in 2015. I pray for a good year ahead for all of you. For me for the past few years each year has been a little better than the one before so I'm grateful for that. I had tough times and huge worries in the autumn but that seems to have settled down now.

FaithLoveandGrace · 01/01/2015 22:05

Hi all. That's a really lovely prayer gingercurl.

kay I know what you mean about needing a better 2015 and things gradually better each year. Even though I feel like I'm not in a great place this year, I am in a much better place than I was at the start of the last few years. I am glad things have settled down since autumn for you. Your DS does sound like he's getting more assertive which is great news :)

I feel quite down today. DP, DSS and I went for a meal with the family, both his side and mine. It's been quite stressful as DP's mum was kicking off about a baby crying a few tables down and about the fact DSS was acting like a usual 4 year old who's tired. I often wonder how on earth she got through the early years with her own two kids! Can't get home now until tomorrow so even though I love my parents, I just want to be home now. Also have realised we really can't afford for me to see a counsellor at the moment :(

FaithLoveandGrace · 01/01/2015 22:11

Sorry that sounds like a proper downer post. I've literally just checked on DSS and he's finally fast asleep cuddled up to a teddy looking very peaceful - always cheers me up and makes me look forward to spending time with him again in the morning :) tbh I never thought it was possible to love a child so much, especially one who's not biologically mine!