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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

OP posts:
PlanetEarthIsBlue · 01/08/2014 18:32

Thanks for the welcome Dutchoma. Having said that I'll be dropping in, I too am off to North Wales tomorrow so will be out of mn range for a week. Looking forward to spending some time in Snowdonia.

Dutchoma · 01/08/2014 18:46

Oh yes, Snowdonia. Very nice indeed. We didn't get quite that far this time, but we spent time as a family between Harlech and Portmadoc, near a little railway halt called Tygwyn (White House). If you come past there, say hallo to it from me. 'See' you when you come back

Questionoffaith · 01/08/2014 19:38

HI everyone sorry for the absence. I have been lurking and praying but having a hard time and feel so drained. Things still not good between me and dh, still separated although still see each other daily and i am not finding it gets much easier. He is still depressed although does have some better days and is definitely not as rock bottom a few months ago. I am exhausted with the strain tbh, of trying to be upbeat with him, protecting ds from it all and keeping going with work etc. we are going on holiday together and am dreading it! Holidays have always been such a happy family time and this is just going to be a huge strain of pretending and not putting stress on dh. Today I have spent most of the days in tears and i am so frustrated with myself. I know things could be a lot worse, I only need to look at mn threads to remind myself of that but i am finding it so hard to deal with the change and rejection out of the blue. I am praying and i do believe God is with me and things ultimately will work out even if not in the way i want but he feels far away.
Sorry for this self indulgent rant, i really only came on to say hi and am praying for you all and all this came out.....

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 01/08/2014 20:02

It's not self indulgent my love. As a divorced Mum I can remember vividly how I felt and I am praying for you x

MrsPixieMoo · 01/08/2014 20:13

Thank you all for your prayers. My back is much better. I've had my booking appointment today and all set for the caesarian on Monday. Please pray that it will go ahead as planned and for a safe delivery of a healthy baby. Many thanks to you all. God bless you.

Dutchoma · 01/08/2014 20:30

Best of luck mrsPixieMoo, praying for a swift and successful delivery.

QuestionofFaith, no, it is not self-indulgent at all, you need an outlet for your frustration. Dealing with someone who is depressed is very draining, praying that there soon will be some more light at the end of the tunnel.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 01/08/2014 21:08

When do you go Question?

It's a huge strain for you right now Sad Trying to keep it all together for DS, trying to be a good wife and not put pressure on him but constantly worrying about it all, if it will improve and when and the future in general.

My ExH had depression, it was so hard and I found the initial stages of separation and hoping we could work things out hugely difficult (although he had an affair too which complicated matters.) You do have my sympathies though and prayers x

Questionoffaith · 01/08/2014 21:58

Thanks for the posts, understanding and prayers. We go next week. Mome how far are you through the otherside now? I haven't let myself think until recently that this could well be permanent, I was trying to keep hope but I can't feel that hope at the moment and it breaks my heart as up until a few months ago I always thought we were such a happy little family

Tuo · 02/08/2014 00:55

Hello all. Well, I've done my big work handover, have tied up as many loose ends as I possibly can, and now I'm going to disappear to a Wifi-free zone (as opposed to a free Wifi zone... my children would much prefer the latter and are accusing me of cruelty for taking them away from their computers for sooooo long!) so I may not see you all for a month or so. I will be thinking of you all so much and praying always.

Praying tonight for all on this thread, but in particular for QuestionOfFaith's relationship, and for Pixie's caesarean on Monday, and for PA awaiting the outcome of her exam.

Also thinking about Badvoc's DS and wondering how his recovery is going. And praying for Kay and Jan and Charlotte and BES and Mome and all facing the long summer holidays on their own and/or without a great deal of support.

Waving 'hello' to PlanetEarth and praying that you'll find this an inspiring and supportive place to visit.

And thanking God for a good holiday for Oma in great company.

Must sleep now, but will keep you all in prayer while I am away.

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ButchCassidy · 02/08/2014 08:15

Good Morning
Please can I join.
I'm Catholic and have DD and a DS

I struggle continuously with PND. It has been a viscous circle for the last 5 years. It is now sadly affecting my relationship with Dh.

Dutchoma · 02/08/2014 08:36

Welcome ButchCassidy. Of course you can join us. Depression is such a horrible thing and takes all joy out of life. I'm praying for a good weekend for you. Do you manage to get to church? With or without the children? Is your husband a Christian too?

ButchCassidy · 02/08/2014 10:07

Thank youSmile
Yes myself and DH are both Catholic. I used to attend mass every Sunday. Stopped being as regular when DS was born as I was ill with pnd. Am now in cycle of wanting to go but worrying that the Priest will judge me for missing mass etc.

ButchCassidy · 02/08/2014 10:08

When I do go to mass (I normally sneak out after communion to avoid seeing Priest at the end of mass) I take my DC with me. DD is at the school connected and next door to the Church so goes once a week with school Smile

Dutchoma · 02/08/2014 10:29

Would it not be more likely that he would be pleased to see you rather than judge you for not being there? I'm sure God would, since He never judges us for our weaknesses. I hope you will soon be able to take your full place among God's people.

ButchCassidy · 02/08/2014 13:49

Thank you. You are right. Its my ridiculous over thinking and paranoia that is affecting both my relationship with God and DH.

Dutchoma · 02/08/2014 14:01

Don't be so hard on yourself. Try and relax in the knowledge of God's love. An exercise I found (find) very helpful is to sit quietly and imagine yourself in God's garden. Sit in the sunlight, smell the roses. God loves you. He doesn't think you suffer from anything ridiculous. Five minutes is all it takes.

ButchCassidy · 02/08/2014 17:40

ThankyouThanks

PositiveAttitude · 03/08/2014 09:33

Welcome Butch Smile

I received an email this morning letting me know that I have been accepted on the course for September. Whoooooo!!!! Grin Thanks for the prayers!

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 03/08/2014 09:54

That's amazing PA!!!! So pleased for you Smile

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 03/08/2014 11:33

Question I'm sorry I missed your post. It was October 2009 I separated. All you can do is keep praying and we're praying for you too. I didn't petition for divorce until 5 months after separation and only because I was very sure, my pastor felt my marriage wasn't salvageable either and in prayer I felt God also saying it was time to stop praying for my marriage. He was right. The affair had never ended (he'd been lying) and he couldn't choose between us. I chose for him. Your situation is different and very hard. You're in limbo right now.

ButchCassidy · 03/08/2014 17:32

That's amazing news PA.

I ventured to mass today with both DC. Still scarpered after Communion to avoid my Priest but am going to take DH next week and stop until the end.

My sister gave birth recently and had a horrific time with extremely bad tearing. I have prayed every day for her as she is bewildered and In a lot of pain and today the midwife has told her she is healing well. I'm beyond relieved for her.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 03/08/2014 18:13

That's great butch. Praying you'll feel peace and acceptance and not judgement next week when you stay longer x

Dutchoma · 03/08/2014 19:28

Very good news about your sister and about going to Mass with the dc.
I'm sure the Priest will love to see you as a family, but whatever he thinks God will be beyond delighted. Don't lose sight of that: whatever any human being says to you, God's love for you is beyond measure and will never stop.
I pray with you that your sister will go on healing well and she will find great delight in the baby.

SESthebrave · 03/08/2014 19:47

Hello all and apologies for a long absence, as ever the constant juggling of life with 2 LOs and a (now!) ft job and everything that life throws at me just kind of takes over!

I think of you all often and "see" some of you on FB so never feel completely lost from you all.

ButchCassidy - hello and welcome. I am Catholic too, although started out CofE and discovered about 15 years ago in my 20s, that I felt closest to God as a Catholic.
PND is tough so please go easy on yourself. I think we can all feel a bit self conscious in church for various reasons but the others are right, the priest will just be pleased to see you. Do you know anyone else who attends that mass from seeing them at school? Your DD might? I know my DS often likes to point out his classmates and that can sometimes be a way in to a conversation with someone else. They won't necessarily know or mind how often you attend. If your parish is anything like mine, there's a few different services and people often vary which one they go to.
Prayers for you, your family and your relationship with God. I ask that God will help reassure you with his peace and love.

Dutchoma · 03/08/2014 20:58

Not many people could come to the meet-up in Northampton on the 16th August, so I am wondering whether it would be better to move it to the 23rd. Will more people be back from holiday? It would be easy to move as I have not booked the church but am just asking people to come to me.
I have also putthis in meet-ups