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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

OP posts:
amberlight · 26/10/2014 09:43

Praying for each of you and each situation

Dutchoma · 26/10/2014 10:06

So sorry Kay. Praying for all of you.

BlackeyedSusan · 26/10/2014 10:29

ds has just had a strop about going to church. I have gone off the idea. ds had a model stamped on last week at church and I am concerned it will happen again. (it was dealt with but it is still niggling)

it is supposed to be a lunch there, but I had a nightmare about it just before I woke up.

PurplePidjin · 26/10/2014 12:19

Wow, I'm not surprised he's anxious if his stuff is going to get wrecked bes Angry

Dutchoma · 26/10/2014 12:40

But sorry that you will miss the lunch even though you knew about it this time.

BlackeyedSusan · 26/10/2014 17:21

made it to the lunch and the offending child was not there this time so that helped. ds though moaned about a boring lunch and did not eat properly, more autistic behaviours and needing an emergency shop at tescos were not a good combination.

we had spinning, and doing laps and a bit of a display during the service today. it was mostly quiet though, intervening more could have been very noisy.

Dutchoma · 26/10/2014 17:28

You did well to get them safely home again.

PurplePidjin · 26/10/2014 18:23

bes I'm probably not telling you anything you haven't already tried, but have a look www.autism.org.uk/socialstories here. I've used Social Stories to great effect at work (with teens on the spectrum) but often find parents haven't heard of them so thought I'd post you a link - hope you don't mind Brew sounds like you dealt brilliantly with a very difficult situation though, especially Tesco (lights and noise in particular) unexpectedly!

amberlight · 26/10/2014 19:19

Agree with PurplePidjn.

Supermarkets are a nightmare for many of us on the autism spectrum. The pic shows what one looks like to me, but without the extra eek of deafening noise and overwhelming smells. Going to a small local one with lots of natural light, or at a really quiet time of day, can help, where possible. And our stuff being broken is hugely traumatic, so if children are doing that, it will certainly result in massive panic. Supervising staff need to be very sure to keep a child and their things safe.

A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...
PurplePidjin · 26/10/2014 20:03

amber I used to work with someone who liked going to a certain supermarket for fun - got a kick out of how the fluorescent lights flicker, which is at a frequency that most of us can't detect! Dp post-stroke (and ds when he was tiny) can't handle our local Morrisons because of the lights, and I'm pretty sure they're the reason otherwise-apparently-NT ds age 2 won't tolerate Home Bargains even in the sling despite being fine in every other shop unless hungry or tired but then he doesn't handly anything under those circumstances :)

BlackeyedSusan · 26/10/2014 20:30

ds is not too bad now in supermarkets. we tend not to go often and do a quick whizz round.

have heard of social stories but not ever found the link or looked it up because cba I tend to be very busy with other stuff like reading through the guidance on the equalities act and the new sen code of practice whatever it is called now-

PurplePidjin · 26/10/2014 20:36

Fair enough :o

Tuo · 26/10/2014 23:29

Praying for all, but especially for...

PurplePidjin - for a 'boring' (would 'peaceful' be a better word?) life;

Kay - thinking of you and of your DS so much, and praying for better - more positive and hopeful - times ahead, hopefully just around the corner;

BES - for a more relaxed half-term and for DS to feel safe and secure at church and elsewhere;

Momey - for a positive way forward with XH, contact, his job, etc., and, if his plans come to fruition, for God to provide for the family.

This thread now has over 900 posts and I am going to be away for about 10 days (may have limited internet access, but it'll be sporadic) after the middle of this week. I will try to get a new thread up and running before I go away, so if you have anything you'd specifically like mentioning in our new OP, now is your chance to shout... otherwise it'll be recent requests and issues and random stuff that I think of as usual.

From tonight's Northumbria compline:

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
BlackeyedSusan · 26/10/2014 23:51

ds wouldbe high on my list.

ds to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school, and to find something about church he likes. other than biscuits

dd is struggling because ds is struggling

I need to get stuff done... which is harder when ds is struggling.

for support for me.

howtoapproachthis · 27/10/2014 07:07

hi all. finally got some breathing space today. how are things with you Kay? thinking about you.

have a lovely time away Tuo - not sure if its work or holiday, hope its holiday!

don'tstep, i my exh demanded to take my dd away last year for holiday and was a bit upset that i said no, exactly for the reasons you say. at that time he hadn't ever had her one overnight, never mind taking her away. i said he needed to build it up by taking her one night a week, and thats what he has done since early this year. a few weeks ago he took her away (not far) for 2 nights and she had a great time. at that time i talked to the solicitor about it because he made me feel i was unreasonable, and she also agreed that it was in dds best interests not to go at the time. stand your ground!

BES it sounds like very hard work with ds and you are doing such a fantastic job with him. i am also really sensitive to bright lights and noise, and sometimes in certain peoples houses i find it all a bit much and it takes me a long time to recover.

im meeting a friend for dinner later. first time ive been out in ...probably 2 years to be honest! im looking forward to it.

howtoapproachthis · 27/10/2014 07:10

my prayer request for the new thread would be physical and emotional healing, and for a good bond between dd and me. thank you so much Tuo

BlackeyedSusan · 27/10/2014 12:06

someone forgot to change the clocks... (am working to gmt but clocks still bst) dd got up at 5.30 (gmt) and thought it was ok because the clock said 6.30

BlackeyedSusan · 27/10/2014 12:31

oh and did I say better?

Dutchoma · 27/10/2014 13:09

Oh dear, more meltdowns?

BlackeyedSusan · 27/10/2014 13:33

oh yes. ranting about school mainly.

howtoapproachthis · 27/10/2014 15:43

haven't been off the sofa since yesterday, and im meant to be going out soon! pray for energy for tonight! i have decided to come off the antidepressants. i have only been on them a week or so but the side effects are too much to bear. yes i feel less down at night time, but i have zero zero motivation, total apathy, and even more exhausted. i would prefer the odd crying spells and even anxiety to that. i feel like a beached whale on these pills....lol

PurplePidjin · 27/10/2014 18:26

howto that's pretty normal for the first 3-4 weeks - from experience, push through it and you'll find they take the worst of the lows off (although they will also take the highest part of the high off too, but I found that was an ok sacrifice for the stability they gave me) Brew

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 27/10/2014 18:54

I had 3 weeks of pure exhaustion before I finally got used to them. I would urge you to see GP and not suddenly stop howto. They may not be right for you but there are alternatives. Stopping ADs suddenly can make you feel worse though. Always seek advice.

I had crushing exhaustion and 6pm bedtimes when I went on mine until I got used to them. It was most odd. But last time I went on them I had no issue at all. But now they're working I feel great. Like a different person.

howtoapproachthis · 27/10/2014 20:51

i seem to be very sensitive to meds. i don't know what to do now. its ok having fatigue as a side effect if you aren't fatigued to begin with, but i am wiped out to begin with. my doc will just ask me what i want to do so i don't think i need to see him. i guess maybe i could give it one more week or so since its almost been 2 weeks now. maybe like you say if i just push through this and see if it changes. sorry im not making much sense i was out tonight it was a lovely time though.

PurplePidjin · 27/10/2014 20:54

I would always give new anti-d's at least a month. They need time to build up in your system, which is also the reason you have to cut down gradually :) I'll pray it gets easier for you soon, but I think you're at the worst stage right now Brew Glad you had a lovely night out :)

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