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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

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BlackeyedSusan · 18/10/2014 19:54

ds is creating havoc upstairs. ex is "dealing" with it. he is getting only the partial experience of afterschool meltdown as he has not been thumped or kicked yet.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 19/10/2014 08:19

Oh Kaykat I'm thinking of you.

CharlotteCollins · 19/10/2014 17:15

Was the home ed event informative, BES?

howtoapproachthis · 19/10/2014 19:34

praying

BlackeyedSusan · 19/10/2014 22:04

the home ed event was exhausting and I di dnot get to hear very much at all as I was chasing ds and trying to prevent a meltdown.

I have finally got a meeting with the head teacher tomorrow and need to plan.

Tuo · 20/10/2014 01:22

Hello all. We've had a positive and happy weekend, and I'm feeling hopeful, for which much thanks to God and to all who prayed.

Praying in particular tonight for Kay, for howto, and for BES and for all who read this thread, whether they post or not.

Leaving, as a prayer for peace in the world and for peace in the hearts of all who visit this thread, one of today's Bible verses from the Northumbria Community:

'Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid' (John 14:27).

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BlackeyedSusan · 20/10/2014 07:24

that is the second time I have had that one TUO. someone trying to tell me something. Hmm

Tuo · 20/10/2014 07:52

I hope so BES. Smile

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PositiveAttitude · 20/10/2014 11:04

Tuo so pleased to hear you have had a positive weekend.
Each Monday morning the team I work with meet for a time of prayer and we have one verse to meditate on. This morning was that one, too Tuo. Perhaps I am being told something, too!

I am now wondering if my mum is coming to the end of her life (or maybe I am just jumping to huge conclusions with this "peace" thing!!!) Mum was very unwell on Saturday, but seemed to rally yesterday. She is still at home with my dad but the whole situation is very very unsatisfactory. Dad is the most stubborn man you could ever possibly meet - and they bought up 5 incredibly stubborn children! Wink
I was talking with my sister yesterday and we were saying that it would be better for mum to pass away from a heart problem soon before she becomes incontinent with her Alzheimers. This is not my mum that we are caring for, it is the body of my mum, she hugs like my mum, she always kisses me goodbye like my mum, and she holds my hand like my mum, but she is not inside her shell-body any longer and has not been for about 3 years now (and for about 5 years before that is was diminishing. Do I sound awful to say that she would be better off dying sooner? I feel guilty for even thinking it, but my mum was the most lovely, caring, dignified lady you could meet with a lovely sense of humour and she was always smiling - I mean always. I never remember her not smiling! She still smiles, but her personality has gone.
Once my mum dies we know my dad will go soon after. They have been married for 66 years and have been totally devoted to each other all that time. We know he is just keeping going because he doesn't want to leave mum. Dh's grandmother said at her husband's funeral that she was just waiting to be reunited with him - and she died 4 weeks later. We all think my dad will be the same.

Sorry for dumping all that lot. Really I am very happy with life at the moment. I feel very blessed to love my jobs. My hours have been increased. DH has gone back to working at the level he left before we went off to Cambodia, so after payday this month we should be financially stable again. All the DCs are doing well at the moment - well they were yesterday, anyway!! Hmm

i have been reading and praying for everyone on here, even if I dont get the time to post so often.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/10/2014 11:28

hugs PA. it is really hard when you are losing a bit more of your mum every day.

I am trying to tackle the mess. washing is getting folded but needs to go in the wardrobe before ds scatters it to the four winds again.

yesterday I went up into the loft and put things back where they belonged after moving everything to insulate the loft a year or so ago. I also took some stuff up into the loft.. though not place d that properly yet as I was too tired to keep hunching over. there is now an incredible mess on the landing where the loft stuff was removed from.

Dutchoma · 20/10/2014 11:49

Hugs from me as well, PA. I know only too well what you are talking about and think that love dictates those thoughts. All I can say is: don't fight he natural process, nature knows what to do. God knows what is best. There will be resurrection and peace. Remarkable how many times that verse comes up.

Please can I ask that you all keep in your prayers the person that is no longer named . She is in very difficult circumstances which however are not beyond the control of the Almighty. Pray that she will find that peace that we are all drawn towards. PM me if I am speaking in riddles.

PurplePidjin · 20/10/2014 12:35

PA my nan went of pneumonia, quietly in her own bed, before numerous other non-fatal and manageable illnesses became worse. She retained her dignity and never had to live in any kind of "home" which she would have hated. My family and I have always been grateful for the manner of her passing, although obviously not that she passed iyswim. So no, I think you're entirely justified in praying for a dignified and peaceful exit for her Thanks

madhairday · 20/10/2014 13:00

PA Flowers no, not at all bad to say that, totally understandable. It must be heartbreaking for you at this time to see her 'diminishing'. we had the same with my grandad and I felt the same as you, that it would be happier for him to pass on, and felt a relief when he did, he couldn't recognise any of us at the end. i'm so sorry you are going through this but glad things are good for the rest of the family at the moment.

Praying for kaykat and howto

Hello BES hope your day is good.

Could I ask for prayers for dd. She's doing really well this year so far but has been getting a bit unhappy about her bus journey to school. One of her best friends at school is an autistic lad and they get the bus together, they are very very firm friends (poss more than) - and they are getting teased but not in a nice way, but called really vile names and being 'the special pair' etc etc. dd has been trying to protect her friend who gets really upset and angry at this and lashes out, and of course that makes the kids worse and makes them tease her more too. She is so cross with them and I am so proud of her for standing up for him and herself. she is going to talk to the SN unit support staff today so i'll see how that goes and if nothing happens will be ringing in myself. Why are kids so cruel and vile to those who happen to be a bit different? Hmm :(

BlackeyedSusan · 20/10/2014 13:08

poor lad. ds is starting to suffer in the same way. an older child at church stamped on his toy yesterday, twice.

he got pushed around in gym last week. nearly got in a fight the week before. children are pushing in fromt of him and edging him out and telling him off.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/10/2014 14:30

oh no. here we go. off to meet the head teacher.

GingerCurl · 20/10/2014 15:52

Praying as I read through.

PA I felt the same away about my mother who had early onset dementia. She hadn't gone so far as to not recognising us but became more and more confused, sad, desperate and isolated. It was heart breaking. She lived alone (a disaster in these circs) but didn't want to move to a home and so she became increasingly vulnerable without anybody legally being able to intervene. In the end it, she died of cancer and, although very sad, it was also a relief. The dementia made it impossible for her to keep track of her meds so eventually when the cancer started to spread again it did so with a vengeance.

Am a bit down. I had been promised some project work which would have suited be perfectly, but then we discovered that they actually didn't have the money for it and, in the process of them finding the money, it's become all political, the project manager has lost focus on the objectives and is involving more and more people into the mix. And to cap it all of it looks like my hours have been halved. It's hardly worth me doing it now.

On top of that I feel blanked by people I thought of as friends who pretty much ignore me and carry on talking amongst themselves when I approach and say "hi". DH said he pretty much had the same thing with them this morning when he did the school run.

I must be hormonal.

PositiveAttitude · 20/10/2014 16:40

Thank you all very much for your lovely comments. My mum doesn't have a clue who any of us are anymore, but we very often have a lovely dialogue if I do something for her:

Mum: Oh thank you, you are a very kind lady
Me: That's ok and thank you, my mum did a very good job of making me like I am.
Mum: She did a very good job
Me: yes she did and I love her lots

If I tell her that I love her she looks confused as if a stranger is saying it to her, but this is my way of hopefully letting her know how I feel.

Gingercurl Sorry that the job is not turning out as you had hoped. And prayers for the friendship situation.

MHD good on your DD for being such a caring strong person to stand up for herself and her friend. I pray that it will be resolved and that she can not have these issues on the bus.

DO praying for the situation that you posted about. Please let her know that we are praying and that we really do care for her.

BES praying for the HT meeting now.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/10/2014 18:36

so sorry GC. it is disappointing when things don't turn out as expected.

oh and well that was odd. this head (just appointed) is very different.

Dutchoma · 20/10/2014 18:38

Different for the better or the worse? Did you get what was needed?

cloutiedumpling · 20/10/2014 22:38

PA Flowers we have also had similar in our family. I love your description of the dialogue, it is very familiar.

MHD - why do people have to be so cruel? Good for your DD in standing up to the bullies.

DO - I've been away and missed the posts last week, but enough remains for me to get the gist. Praying for peace.

Praying also for Wombat. There is a threat in chat. She is going through a particularly dark time at the moment.

Tuo · 20/10/2014 23:51

Praying for all in need of prayer tonight.

Thinking especially of PA and her mum. It is absolutely right and proper that you should want her passing to be peaceful and as untraumatic as possible, sweetheart. I think the verse that I posted last night is spot on: 'Do not let your heart be troubled, and do not be afraid'.

Praying also for GingerCurl, for work and social disappointments and frustrations. May you know satisfaction in your work and joy in true friendships... Remember that people do behave oddly at times - for no rhyme or reason. It's not you, it's them. Or, as they say round these parts, 'there's nowt so queer as folk'.

Praying for Miss HairDay and her friend; may they also know God's peace, and may those who make life difficult for them have their eyes opened and be able to see the situation with more sensitive eyes.

And holding the person Oma mentioned in prayer - may she be kept safe and may she have people around her to love and support her. If you're in touch, Oma, please tell her that we are praying.

From tonight's Northumbria Compline:

Circle us, Lord,
keep protection near
and danger afar.

Circle us, Lord,
keep light near
and darkness afar.

Circle us, Lord,
keep peace within;
keep evil out.

The peace of all peace
be ours this night
in the name of the Father,
and of the Son,
and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen

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madhairday · 21/10/2014 09:26

Amen, Tuo. Beautiful prayer.

Praying for you, Gingercurl and sorry things are hard at the moment. Praying that the school playground thing resolves, people can act like 12 year olds in those places! :(

Have to make the decision about ds' secondary this week. still undecided...sigh...

dd had the same problem on the bus last night so we have emailed the school. They were flicking bits of screwed up paper at her and her friend. she came home and one ear was bright red Angry :(

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 21/10/2014 13:47

ExH has proposed taking DCs abroad with PIL next year. Bearing in mind he never has them overnight nor do PIL and they're always with me I think this idea is very bad. They'd miss me horribly. I think he should focus on trying to have them overnight sometimes and get them used to being away from me before he took them abroad miles away from everything. I suspect this will make me unpopular. Please pray.

Dutchoma · 21/10/2014 13:56

Did you see Mary's update on FB yesterday when she quoted Rosa Parks who said: "You must never be fearful about what you are doing when it is right". You may very well be unpopular, but I think you are absolutely right. And I have met your children.

BlackeyedSusan · 21/10/2014 14:39

of course you are right. just quote in the best interests of the children that they get used to overnights gradually. does he have a court order?