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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

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KayKat · 13/10/2014 18:49

Had a terrible weekend one of the worst I won't go into details but I am struggling myself now. I found myself relying on my ex and he did step up and be a good dad so thats positive. Finally got DS to GP.

Madcaplady · 13/10/2014 19:36

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BlackeyedSusan · 13/10/2014 20:03

oh love. prayers being sent up for safety and clarity of thought now.

darling. delete your internet history. if you are concerned ask mn hq to delete your post. (pms can be sent between us if you require)

if you can, you really should call the police. I know this will be difficult to do. someone you love and have just married should not do something that requires the calling of the police. your safety is paramount though.

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Tuo · 13/10/2014 20:51

name edited out - please please please listen to BES and call the police. I know it will be hard, but you really need to do it. Praying for safety for you and for strength to do what you need to do. Is there anyone who can be with you at this time?

Thanks to all who've asked about DD and sorry for being so absent... I just needed to withdraw a little. She seems OK; she has not cut herself since I discovered that she had been doing so and she says that she doesn't want to any more (though I will believe that when I see it, and will probably always worry about it now, even when she's the age I am now!). We are keeping busy and trying not to leave her alone too much. I've emailed the school today and have asked to be called back... hoping to hear tomorrow, as I've been out of the house all day today. I feel stressed and worried and a bit tearful still, but also hopeful. Above all I feel determined to do all I can to help and protect my DD. I am so grateful for your prayers.

Praying for you too, Kay, and for your DS - for support from the school and for him to be prepared to accept the help you so desperately want to offer him. Thinking of you so much.

Also praying for amber and for wonderful Oma who has been safely delivered to Scargill House.

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Questionoffaith · 13/10/2014 21:15

have you called the police? The others are right you have to find the courage to do this. I saw your other thread and one of the things I find worrying is how you seem to think you are to blame in a major way for this. There is NO way you are to blame. And don't start thinking that we don't know the details and so can't know that you are not to blame as there is absolutely nothing you could do ever that would justify him physically and verbally attacking you like that. I am praying for you that you will be able to take the actions you need to take.
Kay your post is so sad. I am glad that in the darkness there are some glimmers of light namely getting ds to the GPs and ex h stepping up to his responsibilities. Praying.

Questionoffaith · 13/10/2014 21:17

Tuo am glad that dd is communicating with you and praying that the self harming has stopped

CharlotteCollins · 13/10/2014 21:56

, you have not made a mess of anything, sweetie. What QoF said, definitely. But what a horrible situation to find yourself in. Praying for wisdom and clarity and protection.

BlackeyedSusan · 13/10/2014 22:31

you've tried. you have done your best. you have given it everything you have got. time to get the little ones out and start again.

still praying.

KayKat · 14/10/2014 00:36

you could call 101 and talk it through with them that's what I did when something similar happened to me. If you haven't had the courage to do it tonight you can still do it tomorrow. It must be the most awful shock but do make sure you are safe, leave the house and go to a friend or relative.

Tuo so much of what you say resonates, I don't want to leave him, supervising Internet, beside myself with worries, exhausted and I had the same thought that I will never stop worrying now or at least for the next 10 years which is the danger time for boys. DS has improved slightly today but I hardly even dare say it in case he plummets again. I will be terrified when he is at school now. So difficult. He said he doesn't think he can believe in god because if so why has his life been so sad. He imagines he will always be this sad and can't see the point in life.

Tuo · 14/10/2014 00:46

(((Kay))) No words, but holding you in prayer.

  • can't stop thinking about you and hoping you are OK.
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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 14/10/2014 07:53

Hello

I was out at the course I help on last night. Awful drive home with flooded roads, so I didn't see the thread last night. I'm praying for strength for you. A chat on 101 is a good idea. Womensaid may also be helpful. I grew up in a home where my Dad used to smack hit me a lot and my twin brother tried to strangle me in an argument. So when ExH first hurt me I normalised it and blamed myself. I didn't want to divorce or separate, I was consumed by what others would think, kids growing up in a broken home etc. Sadly I was more worried about that than the affect it would have on the kids growing up in that environment with me treading on egg shells trying to keep the family together. Praying for peace for you at this difficult time. You've been through so much already. But if he hurt you he may do it again Sad

So much to pray for. Tuo and Kay much love to you and prayers.

Oma my chrysalis is still there unhatched. It's alive though, it wiggles occasionally!

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 14/10/2014 09:05

It was only towards the end as his affair was in full swing and our marriage was collapsing that arguments led to violence btw.

Is it wrong to listen Disney CDs with no kids in the car :D

BlackeyedSusan · 14/10/2014 09:31

I also have one unhatched pupa in a box, one escaped caterpillar which has emerged and been released. one stilll missing in action.

madhairday · 14/10/2014 12:44

Oh name edited out Flowers - please take the advice of people here and talk to the police. He assaulted you, and it is in no way your fault, please, please do not take it on yourself. You have done your best, but it sounds like you need to get out. I am so, so sorry :( You are in my prayers - prayers for peace and wisdom especially.

Kaykat Flowers praying for you also....I am so sad for you.

love to you all. Oma have a wonderful week :)

Madcaplady · 14/10/2014 13:42

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 14/10/2014 13:57

BES do you really think the butterfly you saw was a hatched one and not another that had got in?

PositiveAttitude · 14/10/2014 16:19

name edited out so sorry to read your messages. Thanks many prayers for you and your DC. You have been through so much, you are a strong lady. Prayers for RL support and good friends for you right now.

KayKat and Tuo prayers for you and your DS/DD continuing.

Prayers that DO has an amazing time away. You are really getting about the country aren't you?? Smile

KayKat · 14/10/2014 17:44

There is a small improvement DS had a few laughs and jokes today but at other times very low. I hardly dare to believe it though.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 14/10/2014 19:54

Ooooo mn secret santa nominations are open: www.mumsnet.com/secret-santa/nominate

Questionoffaith · 15/10/2014 10:58

how is ds today Kay?
hope you are ok

PurplePidjin · 15/10/2014 11:42

Please could anyone add a teeny one in for me, I'm giving blood this afternoon. Not that that's a problem in itself, but I was slightly anaemic last time which would have been my 10th so positive vibes would be appreciated - ds has had a tummy bug (I rang and I'm clear to go) so I'm a bit under par at the moment generally looking after him :) I really want a successful one this time, it's so important! Plus perhaps a bigger one please for my friend who has had a tricky pregnancy and is in hospital with her waters gone

BlackeyedSusan · 15/10/2014 13:42

oh shit. need to blitz the place. pray for energy. had attendance officers round and it was less than tidy.

KayKat · 15/10/2014 17:48

In some ways DS is a bit better in other ways its still a huge struggle. Ex always used to follow a nice nasty cycle with me and is now being quite nasty to me. I knew he would do this when I called on him for help as I have a good understanding of abusive men these days but I don't care. He helped DS beyond measure so I really don't care any more. I will just try to deal with him the best I can.