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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

OP posts:
howtoapproachthis · 19/09/2014 14:32

i have no problem with her sleepingin my bed as long as i slept, but she isn't letting me get any sleep. her sleeping in a separate bed in my room would work, but i would have to get rid of my kingsize bed to make room for her bed...i can't see how i can do that. ive tried moving her over to the other side when shes sleeping but she always wriggles back multiple times and wakes me.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 19/09/2014 14:49

DS does come in my bed less than he used to. Maybe only once a night or twice. Sometimes I'll have a few days respite. Keep being consistent on returning her to hers. Reward her for staying in it and it will eventually get better.

My DD who is NT stays in her bed all night now and has for years. DS has ASD so I think his poorer sleeping is linked to that tbh.

Go to bed as early as you can. Learn to accept help. Even when it feels uncomfortable asking. I used to give people homemade brownies when they had DD for play dates etc as I knew I couldn't return the favour. And pay for more nursery hours if you can afford it. Don't worry about what others think or not working. It's about survival and being the best mum you can be. Try and let go of negative thoughts. Ask God to take captive every thought that's not in obedience to Christ every time your mind wonders. We've been given power, love and a sound mind. God knows what you need and we're all praying and standing with you. Peace to you lovely. Do what you need to do to survive and try and stop worrying x

howtoapproachthis · 19/09/2014 15:36

thank you, i do have an appointment with my own marriage counsellor by myself but i have to wait till the end of october as shes off. i just have so many issues going round and round in my head and can't get motivation up.

PurplePidjin · 19/09/2014 15:58

howto roll up a towel or get one of those pool noodle things and put it under the sheet to make "my dance sleep space" and "your dance sleep space"?

I do people favours if I know they'll pay it back to the universe, not necessarily to me personally. Your church might be a good place to start asking, I know I could ask our vicar's wife (who runs Sunday School and the youth groups) if any member of the congregation would be willing to take him out so I could get a break. Also, go to your local surestart centre and ask for a HomeStart referral - a whole charity devoted to people who want to take small children to the park while their parents get a rest!

CharlotteCollins · 19/09/2014 19:20

howto, I was in a similar position for a long time, with no support and desperately tired. I sympathise. And it's so hard when they just want to be near you and you want to comfort them, but have your own needs, too! Can you fit anything in your room for her to sleep on? A cot mattress on the floor or something? An old travel cot?

Madcaplady · 19/09/2014 21:41

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PurplePidjin · 19/09/2014 21:55

Are they discriminating against you due to a medical condition? Sounds like a quick call to ACAS or the CAB might be wise alongside some praying Wink

Dutchoma · 19/09/2014 22:02

Very difficult situation as they have offered you a job which you could do but would not enjoy. As Pidjin says, they may be liable because they have messed the computer system up so you can no longer use it.

Will pray about the situation and also that d will find a job so he can support the family as well.

Madcaplady · 20/09/2014 09:06

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BlessedAssurance · 20/09/2014 11:52

Hello all. I am sorry to not have been on the thread as I needed some time off Mn. I will try to read through some posts but not all as I have missed so much of the thread. All is well in the blessed home. Mil and I have talked (long story). The good thing is she is communicating with her grandkids and that's all that matters. My son is a bad sleeper during the day, so a sling has been my best friend. DD has been my little Rock. As I type this they are both giggling and entertaining each other.

My parents are coming :-) :-) oh praise God. I am so so looking forward to having them. Please pray that all goes well for their visa applications and the trip itself. They have never been outside of our country.

Praying through as I read.

Kay kat thank you for showing so much care. I popped in mainly because of you:-)

Dutchoma · 20/09/2014 12:04

So good to hear from you BlessedAssurance. How lovely that your parents are coming over. Prayig that all will go well indeed.

howtoapproachthis · 20/09/2014 13:57

madcap sorry to hear about your work worries, i pray for a good outcome for you, it sounds really difficult, i know how hard it is to worry at night about things.

blessed, lovely to see you, your dc sound adorable. im so glad you are getting to see your parents soon :)

howtoapproachthis · 21/09/2014 06:53

good morning. dd slept the full night through for the first time! i didn't have a spare mattress or cot, so i was ready with rolled up blankets to put between us on my bed. when she came back from her dads last night she saw my nails were painted and really wanted hers done, so i took that opportunity and spent a good time telling her that if she didn't get up all night long she could get her nails painted tomorrow. i haven't heard a peep from her all night. this proves she can actually do it, unless there is something wrong with her! God has heard our prayers :)

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 21/09/2014 07:53

Ahhh bribery! Works like a charm. Bet you feel so much better for it x

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 21/09/2014 07:53

Don't forget to praise her lots and tell her how much better you feel for a good nights sleep and what a big girl she is etc.

Kaykat · 21/09/2014 08:18

Great news howto I will pray it continues.

Same old same old with me. Ex playing nasty games which may backfire on him eventually because he thinks he is above the law. He is still turning DS against me and getting him involved in secret plots. Sometime DS says horrible things to me such as when he told me that he has hated me his whole life. Other times he is happy and fine.

Dutchoma · 21/09/2014 09:17

Great news Jan I hope you can find enough bribes to get many more nights of sleep. Very well done, I'm really pleased for you.

BlackeyedSusan · 21/09/2014 22:44

it is amazing what ds will do for a jelly baby or chocolate or five minutes extra computer time.

ermm. I am exceptionally nervous about moving anything. there was an eight legged beastie climbing out of the washing I had just carried down stairs on friday and on saturday I walked into a spiders web and got a spider on my face.

oh and my "aunt" ie mums longest know friend died last week and we found out at the weekend.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 21/09/2014 22:56

Sorry to hear about your 'aunt' bes.

I've only seen two teeny tiny ones this Autumn so far. Although the flat is tidier than normal. Not sure if that makes any difference though, they still find somewhere to hide live

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 21/09/2014 23:30

Kay I feel for your boy being caught in this so much. You sound like such a caring mum. I wish he'd just stop seeing his dad and no longer be poisoned by him. Praying for him tonight and peace for him.

Dutchoma · 22/09/2014 10:20

The thing is BES: however horrible your encounter with the wee beasties was, you survived. They don't scare me and the children pointed them out to me in great number (outside mind you, not in the house) but i know what would scare me and that is a much less reasonable phobia than yours.

BlackeyedSusan · 22/09/2014 21:58

dd has finished her homework. this is miraculous as we had to do an experiment in one evening due to being away at the weekend.. etc.

Dutchoma · 22/09/2014 22:05

I hope it did not involve wee beasties?

BlackeyedSusan · 22/09/2014 22:35

no. dd has developed an aversion to daddy long legs after one flew into her face. given they look like flying spiders, I am not bothered by them. obviously a deficit of two legs makes a difference... Confused

BlackeyedSusan · 22/09/2014 22:37

involved shining a torch through several materials to see how much is needed to block out the light. a lot.