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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

OP posts:
cloutiedumpling · 18/09/2014 09:10

Howtoapproach - sorry, didn't mean to miss you there, I'd opened the thread and had it sitting on the laptop while playing with the DCs (school closed as it is a polling station). Praying for peace.

Questionoffaith · 18/09/2014 09:16

Howtoapproach praying for you now. And that you will start to feel there is hope in whichever direction you choose to go

howtoapproachthis · 18/09/2014 09:29

thank you for prayers, i actually talked to Oma for awhile there and feel a bit better. im going to try just to get on with things till im less tired.

Dutchoma · 18/09/2014 10:13

Well done, darling.

BlackeyedSusan · 18/09/2014 10:45

((hugs))

PurplePidjin · 18/09/2014 12:15

he lost it and swore at me

That's verbal abuse. Sorry, sweetheart. I honestly don't think God would want you to exhaust yourself trying so so hard with someone who clearly isn't making the slightest bit of effort to meet you in the middle Brew

RahRahRasputin · 18/09/2014 14:13

I'm sorry howtoapproachthis, but glad that you are feeling better. You must be exhausted. I don't know your history but it sounds like he was trying to make you out to be unreasonable to excuse his much worse behaviour, well done for walking away from the situation Flowers

howtoapproachthis · 18/09/2014 15:25

it was me who raised my voice first though. thats what made him swear at me. i guess i raised my voice because i didn't think he was listening or heeding me - i wouldn't have said it was shouting though, but he says its his perception that i was. i am emotionally exhausted. thank you so much for the support it means a lot. i just wish i could make the decision so that i could get on with my life.

PurplePidjin · 18/09/2014 16:57

There's still no excuse for swearing at you. Nor would there be for hitting you or damagind your possessions. No matter how much you nagged, or raised your voice through frustration. I'll keep you at the forefront of my prayers and hope God leads you to a decision you're happy with Thanks

He's already done Job once, so I think you're spared that many trials Wink

howtoapproachthis · 18/09/2014 17:22

thank you purple

MrsPixieMoo · 18/09/2014 19:26

Please pray for me tomorrow. I have to have a difficult conversation with my dad and am feeling sick at the thought of it.

RahRahRasputin · 18/09/2014 19:32

Good luck Pixie

howto it's hardly surprising you raised your voice after what he said, and then it seems like he fixated on that rather than the real issue of him not helping with childcare. I hope that you are feeling better this evening Flowers

Dutchoma · 18/09/2014 19:44

Hope it all goes well, Mrs Pixie. How is the baby? Nearly 2 months old, if I can count right. Grin

MrsPixieMoo · 18/09/2014 20:47

Thank you DutchOma. She's 6 weeks old. My older DD(3) has really taken to her and I'm feeling much better. Thank you for your prayers.

howtoapproachthis · 19/09/2014 12:48

im having a horrible time at the minute. i just keep crying and feel so very low. i couldn't sleep last night, so took a sleeping pill and now feel awful today, need a break through with dd waking up so many times at night as well. just feel like im at rock bottom - how did things come to this so quickly? going to town with mum tomorrow hopefully that will help, but at this rate if i continue like this ill have to go on ad's. hope everyone is ok. please tell me those of you who have been through this that it does actually get better.

PurplePidjin · 19/09/2014 13:01

howto have a Brew and some Cake alongside the prayers. How old is dd, could you face trying some gentle sleep training if young enough? Or let her bunk in with you for a bit for the reassurance if older?

howtoapproachthis · 19/09/2014 13:04

thanks purple, she is 3 years old, ive been sleep training her all this week. the problem is she wants in my bed. when she is in my bed she keeps reaching her hand out during the night to check if im there, and also cuddling right up beside me. while i love this, i just don't get any sleep, so ive been walking her back to her room every time most of this week. but last night i gave up and after the 2nd time i just let her stay in my bed. im wrecked. i don't have the energy to continue with the sleep training, and i don't have the energy to have her in my bed and be woke up constantly either. i just feel like giving up on everything.

PurplePidjin · 19/09/2014 13:15

Ds is over a year younger so I doubt anything I know will be much use, but here goes! just because hopefully you'll feel better if we keep chatting

Have you tried (you probablly have)
*Rewarding her with a sticker for staying in her own bed, or even a chocolate button
*A big soft toy she can snuggle up to
*Shoving a muslin in your bra for a few hours then giving it to her to sleep with at bedtime
*Settling her in her own bed with you then sneaking off to your own once she's deeply asleep

Also, sorry if I've missed it further up, but do you have anyone you can ask to take her for a few hours one day so you can rest then? Is she at nursery yet, maybe another parent could take her home for lunch or tea and a play afterwards? It's the kind of thing I'd happily do (and have done) for local mums, to be repaid at some random future date when things are more settled for you

Actually, could you talk to her nursery workers and see if someone fancies a spot of (paid) babysitting one afternoon, some places do do that - my SIL pays the TA's from her dd's school (on the autistic spectrum) to provide respite

howtoapproachthis · 19/09/2014 13:33

thank you for ideas. i can barely focus right now. will try sticker idea.... i do settle her in bed but then she needs it during night again. she throws soft toys out of the bed...lol im not too comfortable asking people for help especially as dd has separation anxiety but will keep it in mind cos things arent getting any easier

PurplePidjin · 19/09/2014 13:47

Recognising you need it and asking for help are the hardest things, but she may well enjoy a play date, even if it's only for an hour. Don't think of it as dumping her on someone, think of it as reinforcing her relationship with that person Brew

Dutchoma · 19/09/2014 13:51

Whether you like it or not, Jan, you will need some help. You know where it is NOT going to come from (your h), where it can't come from (your parents as they are not well), so Pidjin's ideas about finding some outside babysitting is a good one. I do understand that you do not like asking for help, but do try and think if there is anybody at all who has offered in the past. Or maybe not offered but you could ask anyway. You have got into quite a vicious circle and somehow you need to get out of that.

Dutchoma · 19/09/2014 13:53

And Pidjin is right: Recognising you need the help and asking for it is very, very difficult, as I know only too well.

But you need to for dd's sake, separation anxiety or not.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 19/09/2014 13:53

Jan my DS still tries to get in my bed most nights. I always return him to his but sometimes he sneaks in and I don't wake up!

Have you thought of a stair gate for her bedroom door? Sounds harsh but I used one for awhile. It was a collapsible one.

I'm on ADs yet again at the moment after an incident a few weeks ago. I never have any nights off or lie ins as ExH doesn't have them over night. All this week I've been in bed mega early as I'm shattered. So I'm standing with you in solidarity jan. I hear you.

What did the GP say about your exhaustion in the end?

Praying for sleep for you and do put a topic in sleep. You may get some great advice x

howtoapproachthis · 19/09/2014 14:24

i feel if i ask for help then i am indebted to give help, and i am not in a position to do this at all. paying for more time in the nursery would be the only option for me, and i would feel i need to be working to justify that to people(even though i shouldn't have to) because they don't understand where im at in my life.

mome i really am sorry to hear you are on ADs again and had an incident a few weeks ago. i really hope you are ok, it must be so hard never getting a night off. i hope you have some real life support. the doc thinks i have a type of ME but i have been waiting for a hosp appt for months now.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/09/2014 14:26

ds slept in my bed at that age... will she slep in her own bed in your room?

ds sleeps in his own bed for a jelly baby. he slept on the sofa last night as hewas scared of the ticking noise in his room and could not keep his fingers in his ears all night. he did check that he could still have his jelly baby first. I agreed as I did not fancy trying to catch the ladybird whilst not waking dd.