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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

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Tuo · 15/09/2014 22:53

Just adding that I am about to leave the country again tomorrow morning for the rest of the week, so be good while I'm gone Wink. I'll be praying for all on this thread while I'm away.

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BlackeyedSusan · 16/09/2014 07:34

aggh, that parent again. why do schools send out a letter the day before for something.

thankfully the OT took on the role of reminding school about a pencil grip. saves me a hassle and being ignored.

PositiveAttitude · 16/09/2014 07:56

Morning all, DO has been visiting here for the weekend. Today she travels home. Please pray for a smooth journey for her. I have had a lovely weekend, I hope she has too.

Praying as I read through.

BlackeyedSusan · 16/09/2014 10:58

was praying reOma recently as not postedmuch... now I know she was kidnapped by PA

BlackeyedSusan · 16/09/2014 15:03

oh heck... I have just caught up on ome sleep after ds's night wakings... three and a half hours... got nothing done.

Dutchoma · 16/09/2014 16:28

I'm home now. Had a lovely weekend with PA and almost all her family.

PurplePidjin · 16/09/2014 17:05

Yes you did bes you rested ready for the next challenge Brew

BlackeyedSusan · 16/09/2014 17:43

... which I can hear brewing upstairs over a pen..

howtoapproachthis · 17/09/2014 08:26

im glad you two had such a great time and you are home safe Oma :) take care on your trip Tuo may the Lord protect and keep you.

im going out with dh tomorrow for a talk. he thinks i am sending him mixed signals and don't want to work on the relationship. this is probably true, i am sending mixed signals because one minute im lettin him in a bit, the next i get scared and shut him out again, and im still very hurt. there are very hurtful issues that haven't been dealt with, and i know for me i need to talk through these before i can move on, and they are sore points for both of us - one of them is his mum, and i need to tell him that although i forgive her and will be friendly with her when i see her, i won't be pursuing a relationship with her if we get back together, and it will be him taking my dd up to see them without me. this sounds harsh, but she has hurt me so very much and i don't trust her. i know all hell is going to break loose tomorrow, and to be honest i just don't have the energy for all the arguing and thats why ive been putting it off. i would really be grateful for prayer for our meeting and for him to understand and respect my views even if he doesn't agree with me.

Dutchoma · 17/09/2014 09:36

Praying for you today Jan.

Tuo · 17/09/2014 11:31

Praying, Jan.

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BlackeyedSusan · 17/09/2014 11:44

oh that is tough.

we have finished the ot/pt for ds and dd... I am on my own for a bit now. I feel like crying.. the weight of the responsibility of it all and not getting a diagnosis for dd that I was expecting.. confusion about whether she really is or not. fortunately dd will be going back to review.

PurplePidjin · 17/09/2014 12:08

Or for the strength to just walk away from him if he does make a fuss, howto? Are you meeting on neutral ground and in public?

howtoapproachthis · 17/09/2014 12:40

oh Bes. its hard having to have full responsibility for everything. i hope you get something apart from worrying, in your time alone.

purple, yes strength to walk away as well is a good one, i am still praying for wisdom about the right decision to make. i am very worried and confused about it all, and aware that confusion doesn't come from God, yet i am waiting for him to give me answers, or direction. yes im meeting in a public place, i have set a time limit too so i don't end up there all morning and totally wiped out after.

BlackeyedSusan · 17/09/2014 14:36

how many things do you have to try before you decide? how many chances does he get? what does he really need to show you about his behaviour and for how long for you to make a decision? what if he does not understand your views?

BlackeyedSusan · 17/09/2014 14:54

ps don't feel you have to answer here, more for you to think about really...

howtoapproachthis · 17/09/2014 17:04

yeah i do understand bes. i have been asking myself similar questions, and its so hard because its all going round and round in my head. i am thinking some of it is my fault too that we aren't going forward properly, because i hold a lot of hurt and resentment that i find hard to let go, i find it hard to give him a proper chance because im scared of getting hurt again. if he does not understand my views but respects them, we can go forward. if he doesn't understands and argues the bit out about it i think i have to seriously think about what ill do. im sure everyone wants to just give me a kick up the backside here don't they!

BlackeyedSusan · 17/09/2014 21:57

saw your thread mome. ((hugs))

PurplePidjin · 17/09/2014 22:55

howto walking away from an argument - not necessarily your marriage - is a very powerful tool. if he starts shouty arguing (which could also ne termed verbal abuse btw) turn your back and leave. resume the conversation when he can speak to you

it takes two to have a loving, respectful relationship. iirc even the Catholic church sanctions divorce under certain circumstances eg violence??

PurplePidjin · 17/09/2014 22:55

*speak to you courteously

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 18/09/2014 02:44

Thanks bes. Awake worrying about it all. Prayers the ht can see how bonkers this lady is would be good and that she doesn't try and verbally attack me in the playground tomorrow.

Jan I've given you lots of advice over the years. It's very difficult. Only you can choose what to do and it is a huge deal ending a marriage. I hope you make peace with it all in the end and I'm praying about your meeting.

BlackeyedSusan · 18/09/2014 08:09

good luck with the school run mome.

if she does shout at you in the playground... it will be to your advantaqge as she will out herself as a complete fruitloop.

howtoapproachthis · 18/09/2014 08:49

im sitting here in tears. we met early there, we didn't last ten minutes, didn't even get round to the issues of his mum. i have no idea if i am to blame. i haven't had sleep for ages, last night was particularly bad as dd was up about 5 times. so i already had all the resentment about being so knackered for the last 3 years (he never had her overnight or helped at all at night until this year, now he takes her 2 nights a week)
anyway, i said i thought you were going to help me more in the holidays. you only took her 4 extra nights the whole summer. and he said because he doesn't get much holidays with his job (he's on mininum wage and relief contract) he can't take her extra. but he had told me he did have holidays but he was waiting till his mum was free to go away - i hadn't heard anything since july about this. no mention of helping any extra at halloween holidays or anything. i told him single parents have jobs and have to fit their kids in, there is no reason why he can't take her a few extra nights in the holidays to help me out, since im so knackered. we had a huge huge argument. he said nothing he does is ever enough for me. i raised my voice as he kept going on and on at me, and said that if a solicitor was sorting contact out, it would include extra time in the holidays. he lost it and swore at me saying i was shouting for the whole world to hear(not true, i just raised my voice and needed a gentle reminder to keep it down) and he started ranting about how many times does he have to tell me to keep it down and started swearing at me. i said i'd had enough and got in the car and drove home. im so upset. i have no clue what just happened. i wish i had someone to talk to about all this.

Dutchoma · 18/09/2014 09:01

Have emailed you. Praying for you.

cloutiedumpling · 18/09/2014 09:06

TUO - hope the school run was OK.

Please pray for the referendum today - that the arrangements will all run smoothly.