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A new Christian prayer thread, just in time for Easter!

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Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:44

Welcome to our new prayer thread... just in time for Holy Week and Easter.

This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt - this has been a very tough time for the family... may spring bring them happier times;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for breast-feeding to settle down for her following the birth of her baby son, for her relationship with her extended family (and in particular her MIL and her bonkers baby-naming ideas ), and for her parents who are far away;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for support for her to do all the things she'd like to be able to do, for her DC, for difficult relationships at work, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, for her relationship with her DH, for the final 'tweaks' to her thesis, and for friendship for her DS;

... ALittleFaith, for baby Faithlet as she approaches her first birthday, for Faith's work to bring her joy and not exhaustion, and for her to find happiness and fulfilment in her church;

... jan2014 for her to understand what the right thing to do is vis-a-vis her relationship with her DH, and for her to have the courage to do what needs to be done, and to find support in doing it; also for her new church to be a place where she finds love and support and welcome;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and continuing to pray for her situation, that she receive the moral and practical support she needs for herself and her DS

... MadHairDay, for her health to improve this spring and for her to stay out of hospital, and for health, friendship, and freedom from bullying for MHD's DD;

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum; and for

... PositiveAttitude, praying for the right outcome for PA's DH as he decides between a career opportunity at home and a return to Cambodia; also praying for PA's parents health, for her DD3 and DGS as they move into their own home, and for her other three DDs and one DS in their various situations; and finally praying for peace for PA herself and - whatever happens work-wise in the UK and/or abroad - for God to provide for her and her family.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream Bluetinkerbell, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, RoomForALittleOne, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, weegiemum, youretoastmildred, ZingSweetApple, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord, in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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BlackeyedSusan · 05/06/2014 13:46

oops I may have just accidently emailed church asking if they have come up with a way to support single parents in church... I think my finger might have slipped. Hmm

BlessedAssurance · 05/06/2014 13:46

PA thank you and what lovely newsThanks A deacon? That is serious stuff. So pleased for you and praying that you will maintain your cool regardless of the outcome. Dh back in 20 days. Better include new hot underwear in your to do listGrin then. Dh will be very appreciative. Forgive my cheekiness. I am having a great day:)

BlessedAssurance · 05/06/2014 13:48

BESGrin that was devine intervention. God wanted that email exactly where you sent it.

jan2014 · 05/06/2014 14:44

please pray for me. my moods have been so low. and today i had appt with marriage counsellor alone, and i have decided with her guidance to get divorced. decision finally made. she also advised against any more joint counselling to sort out any other arrangements as dh was manipulating me in the sessions, and told me to go to the solicitor. the ball is rolling, wish i felt happy.

BlessedAssurance · 05/06/2014 14:50

JanSad. Sad it has come to this but if it will give you peace then you have made the right decision. Praying that your Dh is not going to give you a hard time during the divorce proceedings and praying for strength during this difficult time. You can not be happy. It is an end to a dream. You expected to spend the rest of your life with him and that dream has ended. It is heartbreaking. Hand holding and praying..

madhairday · 05/06/2014 16:25

Echoing Blessed's prayer and words for you Jan - I'm so sad for you but you were so unhappy with him darling. Praying for extra peace and grace tonight for you as you grieve. :(

PA that sounds an exciting opportunity! And so lovely that dh is home soon :)

Blessed, so pleased you're having a good day. Cake

jan2014 · 05/06/2014 18:09

thank you don't really know what to say just so down. have to go to a fun thing at church i signed up for tomorrow, not in mood at all.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 05/06/2014 18:30

If it's right to move on from your relationship jan and I'm sure it is from what you've told us, then it's right
Give yourself permission to do so, and know that you don't have to feel bad about it. Perhaps allow yourself to look forwards to the new opportunities in life that this might open up for you in time?

Quakers say some good things about relationship breakdown (in their main book Quaker Faith and Practice) that not to accept it is to say that it's the one un-forgivable thing, whereas actually relationships are often difficult so that surely problems within relationships should be something very understandable and forgivable by us all.

CharlotteCollins · 05/06/2014 22:22

Oh, Jan. :( Your feelings are what they are. Sit with your feelings - they are a part of you, but they don't control you.

That sounds unutterably cheesy, but I can't think of a better way to say it. (You remember how you used to get so upset and wonder how I managed to be calm in my own marriage? Well, I think I was numb: I paid no attention to how I felt. So owning my feelings again has been a bit of a learning curve for me the past few months!)

Kaykat · 05/06/2014 23:19

Happy Birthday BlessedAssurance.

Jan you certainly put a lot of time and thought into the decision and did as much as you could to resolve things. In the end he gave you no other option. I hope that once it sinks in you will feel more peaceful about it.

BlackeyedSusan · 05/06/2014 23:28

you did all you could. probably more than you should have done if you were like me and stayed far too long. the counsellor has validated what was happening in the sessions and given you guidance so no need to feel you are doing the wrong thing.

I am struggling. too much to do in too little time.

not received the cheque from the insurance. must check if they have paid on the card though as that is possible.

grr annoying.

Dutchoma · 06/06/2014 07:40

For all of us, me included, I am praying that, whatever our feelings, our emotions, we will stand on the truth that God is God (I am Who I am) and that He loves us.
I so want to be loved, appreciated and cared for by people around me that I forget that God says: "My grace is sufficient."

NoRoomForALittleOne · 06/06/2014 09:53

Popping on to pray for Jan and to thank BES for unknowingly helping me prepare for my discussion group at Reader Panel. I forgot that I wanted people to consider what it is like turning up as a lone parent (whether you have a DH or not).

BlackeyedSusan · 06/06/2014 10:48

yay. I am off to take the children's lunches to school. and dd's sports kit. it was abit autism/dyspraxia central this morning.

Dutchoma · 06/06/2014 11:46

Ah well, at least you noticed before the school rang you.

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jan2014 · 06/06/2014 13:43

so touched by the support, means ever so much xx

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 06/06/2014 15:16

Jan my love just caught up as I was at a meeting last night. Prayers for you. I remember how I felt submitting my divorce petition. So I can imagine how you maybe feeling.

Admitting it's over is one of the hardest parts sometimes but I hope the counsellor has helped you feel some peace about it all and that you're doing the right thing x

jan2014 · 06/06/2014 16:27

mome yeah i think i am already over a lot of it, but finally admitting it is actually over really hit me. haven't told him yet... waiting to see solicitor next week. then put in the petition as soon as i can.

BlackeyedSusan · 06/06/2014 18:27

hugs jan.

do i abandoned it all in the effort to actually get to school on time. we would have been hideously late otherwise. it was all have done on the worktop.

hot bothered and tired. ds has gone to sleep. he snuck off. dd is about to shower and I am deforsting some stuff from the freezer to eat it up as they are coming to see to the fridge on tuesday.

Dutchoma · 06/06/2014 19:11

"coming to see to the fridge on Tuesday" Not before time. You know you can tell them that they should stop messing about and give you a new one? Have a word with trading standards (or whatever they are called these days) when in doubt. You have been messed about for months.

BlackeyedSusan · 07/06/2014 09:20

we are up and getting ready to take the car back.

madhairday · 07/06/2014 11:14

BES hope today gets better!

Praying for you Jan Thanks

We are doing this huge town wide event today in the park in the centre of town - and it's blimmin thunderstorms!!! Starting at 12 so prayers for 4 hours of sudden blazing sunshine would be appreciated Grin

seriously though gutted. dh has worked so hard on this and so have loads of others :(

Dutchoma · 07/06/2014 11:22

Well, we can certainly pray that it stops raining. Although blazing sunshine would not be out of God's power. Didn't he stop the sun for Joshua?

PositiveAttitude · 07/06/2014 19:07

MHD I hope you had a lovely day. Once the thunderstorms had cleared here we have had unbroken hot hot hot sunshine all day, so I hope this happened up your way, too.

DO (((hugs))) Your post yesterday really struck me. I pray that you will feel loved, appreciated and cared for by people around you. Yes God IS all you need, but human contact, appreciation and love is very important too and my prayers are with you that you have a flooding of that in your life. You give out to others so much and are so loved on here. I can understand it must be difficult after so many years of caring for Bob and feeling cut off from "life". Is there any news on DD? Much love, hugs and prayers.

Jan prayers for you at this time. I pray that this is a stepping stone to a better place for you, spiritually, financially, as a good mum and in every aspect of your life.

After weeks and weeks of prayer and deliberations we have decided that DH is staying back in this country for good when he comes back in 18 days time. Please pray he sells all his stuff there so that we have some money to help us until he finds a job here - and please pray for a job for him. I feel as if we are in the middle of just giving it all to God because it is all too much for me to even start to think about........so many things need to be sorted, but we believe that it is best left to God to sort out!