I think we possibly need to make the distinction between "belief" and "belief systems". I have lots of beliefs (like my genuine feeling that Tesco is trying to take over the world
) but they don't influence my behaviour or the way I view the world.
A belief system is core to the way somebody conducts themselves, views their world, and treats others. Clearly, from the OP, what this woman was saying stemmed from a belief system.
You're right, I do judge people who mutilate women in the name of religion, much as I judge evangelists who exploit the vulnerable for money, or suicide bombers who kill themselves and take others with them so they can have their virgins in heaven.
However, I don't feel that I'm judging them based on religion, but rather based on behaviour that jarrs with my own moral compass. I certainly know enough about Islam to know that it is a peaceful religion with extremist interpretation by a handful of those who practice it. So why would I judge Islam based on the actions of a few?
I personally think that Creationists are taking a moral story and interpreting it in a literal way, and I find that very blinkered and closed-minded, not to mention naive. But again, that's not judging Christianity but rather the interpretation of it.
I know I shouldn't judge at all, but when something is SO wrong, don't we all have to judge a little so that hopefully it'll be seen for what it is, and talked about?
Christianity by definition is based in Christ. The best piece of advice I was given about the Bible is that the Old Testament is a really good Prologue, giving the history of the people and their relationship with God. However, Christianity is all about the New Testament, which doesn't tell anybody to kill someone wearing more than one type of material in their clothes! It is founded on love and helping the poor and building the church. It's just a pity (IMHO) that we've done such a piss poor job of the latter. For me personally, man-made religion is just sub-standard, and has missed the point in so many ways.
victorian talking about "skyfairies" is hardly the worst thing I've heard about Christianity - it doesn't make me question my faith at all. It's just unnecessary, that's all. It's easy for non-believers to take pot shots, as there's something to attack, and much name-calling to be had. Not so the other way round, which is probably a good thing anyway.