When will I start enjoying having 2 dc's?

[shish]

I have ds1 2.11 years and ds2 9 weeks. I thought things might be more settled and enjoyable by now. I do have some reasonably good days, but I generally feel shattered - I feel like I am just runnning around demand feeding, toilet training, cooking, doing lots of laundry, etc. I feel like I'm not really getting chance, or don't even have the energy, to enjoy either of them at the moment.

Please tell me things will get better soon...

[shish]

That's a very long time to wait!!!!!

[psychomum5]

you will enjoy two when you have three......that is when you realise that two was lovely, and now you are in hell in a whole other parenting world.

seriousl tho, I started loving it when DD2 started to interact with the family and respond to her big sister.

I do know that by 6mths, I was completely in love with two, but at 3mths I was hating it.

[shish]

So about 3 and a half months to go then...