I suppose it could be considered rude, I’ll take that.
To explain my interest - my children are 32 and 31. Amongst their contemporaries I knew two brothers, both highly academically intelligent, that were diagnosed with dyspraxia. They were taken out of primary and put into a fee paying school (whether that made any difference I do not know) and are now successful adults with careers, albeit their dad jokes that they still can’t ride a bike.
And going back to my school years in the 60/70s we had kids that were less able but got on with it. I recall one family that were all what was called “a bit thick” but all went onto work as farm labourers and so on, had families of their own - succeeded at life in other words.
But I also knew that some children needed ‘special education’. I have no idea of what happened to those children, something I expect would have been common.
What intrigues me now is why so many are receiving a diagnosis, indeed why so many are displaying quite life limited traits such as being non-verbal, whatever.
I absolutely support the idea that everyone deserves an education, and that everyone deserves to be part of mainstream life. But is the current provision, and the growing number deemed in need proving a disadvantage to all?
I have no skin in the fight. I have two infant grandchildren, both of whom seem engaging and engaged. But talking about this with my DiL this morning, she says that despite 14 years as a nanny, she doesn’t understand why some children don’t respond to what she called ‘normal parental upbringing’, whether that be directly by a parent or their proxy, such as a nanny or childminder.
Thats why I’m interested.