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Rush to diagnose ADHD and autism can damage children: As rates soar up to 40-fold, a major review warns of the toll on those wrongly given a label

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Rubydobydo · 09/10/2026 09:04

Britain risks harming a generation of children by over-diagnosing ADHD and autism, a major review warns today.
Parents are incentivised to have their children diagnosed by misguided schools and welfare systems that reward such 'labels', the report found.
Youngsters have also been influenced by social media posts that wrongly present common traits as evidence of the conditions.
https://www.dailymail.com/health/article-16194777/Rush-diagnose-ADHD-autism-damage-children.html

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OneHazelBird · 09/10/2026 13:45

I agree no one should rush into any sort of diagnosis.

But isn’t there like a 7 year waiting list to be diagnosed through the NHS?

So I’m not sure how many of these diagnosis’s can possibly be rushed.

OneHazelBird · 09/10/2026 13:48

Silverbirchleaf · 09/10/2026 12:37

I do know someone who was diagnosed with adhd at the age of two, and I wonder he was misdiagnosed. He was a perfect baby until his mum had a second baby, and then he started playing up. I was warned that it was normal for the eldest to play up, so expected it. This mum went and got him diagnosed.

I may be wrong, maybe he has got adhd, but maybe he was also a kid reacting to his world changing.

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Are you sure the mum was telling the truth?

Was this many years ago?

I didn’t think it was possible for a child to be diagnosed with ADHD so young. They’re not allowed to do that now.

Flipperidooda · 09/10/2026 13:53

StrumpetVoluntary · 09/10/2026 12:58

Plenty of us have seen drastic changes in the schooling system in the last 20+ years.

Far more children are now struggling. It would be interesting to roll back targets to a point where children weren’t under quite so much pressure, or at least to have a variety of schools offering more flexibility rather than the current march of academisation that rather narrows what’s on offer.

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It’s not just targets. It’s excessive micromanagement and rigidity. I can’t believe how militant my DC’s school is, including things well out of their control such as what time they were let out of a lesson, parent unable to go to the shop for a last minute school request that day, being punished for a rule particular to an individual teacher that no one has told them about. There are daily uniform checks, equipment checks, put your bag on the back of your chair in this lesson/get told off for doing the same in another lesson, too much equipment out/not enough equipment out, get a question wrong, say hi to a sibling. Then there are the truly bizarre ones which have been normalised - not allowed to regulate body temperature, queue all lunch and still might not get served, can’t ever deviate from set time to wee, pressured to never be ill. That’s for a DC without additional needs.

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OneAmberFinch · 09/10/2026 13:53

I'm sympathetic to wanting the best for one's children, but I think the path that parents are guided down is "get a diagnosis and then EHCP for your child who is different from the other children who are all fine".

When many of the issues are like, "my kid struggles with being in a mixed 30 person class for 6h a day plus after school care on a concrete playground with no discipline then going home to do iPad homework and infinite-scroll social media while mum and dad frantically take work calls from the dinner table".

I dislike any activism around the "widening acknowledgement of ND" movement which acts as though "NT" kids (and adults) are just happily wandering through life without being affected by many of the systematic forces which are causing a lot of the rise of these issues.

"It's just that we're more open minded and aware now!" covers up a lot of societal/systematic changes over the past years/decades.

roaringdragon · 09/10/2026 14:03

I'm sympathetic to wanting the best for one's children, but I think the path that parents are guided down is "get a diagnosis and then EHCP for your child who is different from the other children who are all fine".

A diagnosis isn’t required in order to get an EHCP, so ‘get a diagnosis and then get an EHCP’ misunderstands the SEN system. Talk of ‘the best’ also misunderstands the SEN system. Any parent who has been through the EHCP process knows the law does not entitle DC to the best possible education. Only an appropriate education and provision that is reasonably required to meet needs.

OneHazelBird · 09/10/2026 14:04

Aydel · 09/10/2026 13:27

Going back to the issue of NEETs and ADHD/anxiety and screen time, I’m in a FB group for women over 50 in UK, and somebody asked if people still had their adult children living at home and why. There was a small cohort of those saving up for their own place while working, but there was an overwhelming majority of men, aged from late 20s to 40s, who had never had a job, or had had one and couldn’t cope due to “anxiety”, who were still living with their parents, spending all day gaming, never going out, only online friends, who were being enabled by their mothers, who liked having them at home, who did all of their cleaning, laundry and provided them with meals. This, surely, must be a big part of the problem - I’m sure a lot of these men would previously have been thought of as quirky, or a bit odd, but they would have had a job of some kind, and belonged to clubs where they met others with niche interests.

I think a big part of this is also because years ago there was literally nothing to do at home, so people went out and got jobs and hobbies etc for something to do.

But now there are so many different things you can do at home, so many people are in no rush to leave.

These ‘men’ get their meals cooked, clothes washed and access to porn or online girlfriends and so there’s no need for them to ever leave their homes (I’m sure there are lots of women like this too).

PocketSand · 09/10/2026 14:15

I like to think that DS2 will continue to be a success story. I learnt from my experience with DS1 that battling to get appropriate support in primary/secondary school can leave the unsupported child traumatised with severe anxiety even if they have an NHS diagnosis. But an EHCP is essential.

DS2 had NHS diagnoses of autism and ADHD received at primary school and an EHCP. He is on the 99th percentile but you wouldn’t believe it to meet him as his difficulties are more obvious than his strengths! After one term at secondary his teachers wanted to put him in lower sets as other classes didn’t have TAs. He was constantly told off and becoming very anxious. Because he had an EHCP the LA funded internet school with additional home tutors for non maths/science subjects. He did 11 GCSEs (grades 7-9), then went to a ‘brick’ specialist STEM 6th form for A levels in maths, further maths and physics (2 A stars plus A) and is now in his third year of a MEng degree. His EHCP is ended but he has DSA plus PIP.

The next transition after education into work is likely to prove the hardest. He couldn’t have achieved this if he had stayed in secondary school but support allowed alternative education that hugely increases his chances of achieving work and independence. obviously it was also essential that DS2 received unpaid and unacknowledged support from me as non of it would have been possible if I were not willing and able to ‘sacrifice’ my own career/independence to be his carer/LSA and mentor.

There is something fundamentally wrong with the current system that staying in school increases the risk of failure to meet potential and long term mental health issues that reduce the likelihood of a successful transition to adult independent life and relies on parental sacrifice to try and meet the gap.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 09/10/2026 14:20

OneAmberFinch · 09/10/2026 13:53

I'm sympathetic to wanting the best for one's children, but I think the path that parents are guided down is "get a diagnosis and then EHCP for your child who is different from the other children who are all fine".

When many of the issues are like, "my kid struggles with being in a mixed 30 person class for 6h a day plus after school care on a concrete playground with no discipline then going home to do iPad homework and infinite-scroll social media while mum and dad frantically take work calls from the dinner table".

I dislike any activism around the "widening acknowledgement of ND" movement which acts as though "NT" kids (and adults) are just happily wandering through life without being affected by many of the systematic forces which are causing a lot of the rise of these issues.

"It's just that we're more open minded and aware now!" covers up a lot of societal/systematic changes over the past years/decades.

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ExtraHotDoubleShot · 09/10/2026 14:21

Aydel · 09/10/2026 13:27

Going back to the issue of NEETs and ADHD/anxiety and screen time, I’m in a FB group for women over 50 in UK, and somebody asked if people still had their adult children living at home and why. There was a small cohort of those saving up for their own place while working, but there was an overwhelming majority of men, aged from late 20s to 40s, who had never had a job, or had had one and couldn’t cope due to “anxiety”, who were still living with their parents, spending all day gaming, never going out, only online friends, who were being enabled by their mothers, who liked having them at home, who did all of their cleaning, laundry and provided them with meals. This, surely, must be a big part of the problem - I’m sure a lot of these men would previously have been thought of as quirky, or a bit odd, but they would have had a job of some kind, and belonged to clubs where they met others with niche interests.

Yes and this is only going to get a million times worse.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 09/10/2026 14:28

Tillow4ever · 09/10/2026 11:09

Why is it rude? They were simply saying they agree with the poster they quoted. It happens all the time on this site.

Why do you get to dictate to them what they should or shouldn’t put on their post. That is for them to decide. You can choose to scroll past if you don’t like it. At least they contributed to the discussion put forward by the OP - you didn’t even address the question being asked!

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PocketSand · 09/10/2026 14:33

Also I am confused about the argument that a diagnosis is required to get ‘support’. A diagnosis is needed in some circumstances eg to receive ADHD meds but even referral to autism outreach does not require an official diagnosis (unlawful LA policy that can be challenged) and referral to EP, SALT, OT and application for EHCP are based on need not diagnosis. Obviously if an unlawful policy of schools/LAs is resulting in increased pressure to seek diagnosis this should be stopped.

BetweenTheThoughts · 09/10/2026 14:33

Accurate diagnosis is essential, but ADHD and autism assessments must be evidence-based, thorough and centred on each child's individual needs. The focus should be on early identification, appropriate support and avoiding both overdiagnosis and missed diagnoses.

LathkillDale · 09/10/2026 14:34

JuliaAgrippina · 09/10/2026 12:17

Yes, these are late teenagers, my point was that the two who are diagnosed and are receiving support and remaining in education are much more likely to go on to succeed as young adults.

Tracks with what I've seen.

Most of kids privatly diagonsed after years of waiting on NHS lists tends to start when they are in danger of not managing in school - when things are really unreavling usually after years of asking for support or accomodation.

Often the diagnosis it's the difference between managing to stay in school and get exams - often very good ones - and not.

I have read that private schools tend to have higher diagnosis rates - but I do not know we are the failing state end in my area so perhaps there is so gaming of system going on - or perhaps in my area it's too hard if you can't go private to get anywhere.

More likely that parents send their children with ADHD, ASD, etc to private schools for the small classes and better behaviour, which is the best they can do for their children within the normal intelligence range, but who struggle with the sensory overwhelm in a mainstream classroom of 30 children.

CostcoFanofThree · 09/10/2026 14:39

@PocketSand i really found the detailed psych reports helpful as a parent. The explanations were excellent (spiky ADHD profile).
The recommendations initially are for the family so supportive on that level.

CostcoFanofThree · 09/10/2026 14:49

@JuliaAgrippina both adhd grandchildren attend private for the increased PE provision. The approach is also more forgiving, you are told in advance of special occasions when full uniform is needed, but day by day untucked shirts, wearing PE track clothing, missing tie or jumper is no call for alarm. A very different atmosphere.

Monty36 · 09/10/2026 14:56

The problem is not the number of people being diagnosed but, I suspect the cost of the subsequent claims for PIP etc.
The Government may well decide to go down the path of if a person has extra costs associated with their disability and start paying the specialist providing them. Not paying parents directly.
If there are no specialist costs incurred then nobody needs to be paid.
Funding private schools would not be viable.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 09/10/2026 15:07

Monty36 · 09/10/2026 14:56

The problem is not the number of people being diagnosed but, I suspect the cost of the subsequent claims for PIP etc.
The Government may well decide to go down the path of if a person has extra costs associated with their disability and start paying the specialist providing them. Not paying parents directly.
If there are no specialist costs incurred then nobody needs to be paid.
Funding private schools would not be viable.

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This. The cost of these school places is astronomical, and along with the school often comes ‘transport’ aka taxis.

Also it’s now way more common for people not only to have 1 child ‘disabled’ by autism and ADHD, but all of their kids. I know of one family with 9 (yes, 9) kids, all with EHCPs, all with EOTAS or expensive school places and taxis (bar the youngest who isn’t at school yet, and 2 who are now of an age they’ve left school).

The cost is eye watering yet the parents are urged to ‘fight for more’. I don’t even want to think about the cost of that family when you take into account the DLA, UC, carers allowance, taxis, schools, therapies… over a million a year I reckon. She’ll be absolutely raking it in.

ElanaohElana · 09/10/2026 15:08

My child is very, very obviously autistic. I also believe that we have developed an education system and workplaces that are very intolerant of eccentricity. We have never tried to have so much conformity and had such poor quality of life around us - not just financially but in relationships. It’s probably no surprise that fewer children & adults are coping. Just look at what proportion of adults take anti depressants. Most, are probably situationally stressed and sad for a whole range of reasons.

So I think the diagnosis question is ultimately just not the right one. We shouldn’t be asking are these conditions over diagnosed or not.
we should be asking - why are so many children and adults struggling? What in our society has made it more difficult? How do we build families, schools, workplaces and communities where the most people can flourish.

My first thoughts are - reducing housing costs so that less families are both having to work full time to put a roof over their heads, having smaller class sizes, children spending much more time outside at home and at school. Workplaces having ‘right to switch off’ and better working hours.

But I could be wrong. We should be researching this. We should be working on this as a societal issue. Not arguing about labels.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 09/10/2026 15:08

ElanaohElana · 09/10/2026 15:08

My child is very, very obviously autistic. I also believe that we have developed an education system and workplaces that are very intolerant of eccentricity. We have never tried to have so much conformity and had such poor quality of life around us - not just financially but in relationships. It’s probably no surprise that fewer children & adults are coping. Just look at what proportion of adults take anti depressants. Most, are probably situationally stressed and sad for a whole range of reasons.

So I think the diagnosis question is ultimately just not the right one. We shouldn’t be asking are these conditions over diagnosed or not.
we should be asking - why are so many children and adults struggling? What in our society has made it more difficult? How do we build families, schools, workplaces and communities where the most people can flourish.

My first thoughts are - reducing housing costs so that less families are both having to work full time to put a roof over their heads, having smaller class sizes, children spending much more time outside at home and at school. Workplaces having ‘right to switch off’ and better working hours.

But I could be wrong. We should be researching this. We should be working on this as a societal issue. Not arguing about labels.

Well, we urgently need fewer people. But nobody is really ready for that conversation.

roaringdragon · 09/10/2026 15:13

PocketSand · 09/10/2026 14:15

I like to think that DS2 will continue to be a success story. I learnt from my experience with DS1 that battling to get appropriate support in primary/secondary school can leave the unsupported child traumatised with severe anxiety even if they have an NHS diagnosis. But an EHCP is essential.

DS2 had NHS diagnoses of autism and ADHD received at primary school and an EHCP. He is on the 99th percentile but you wouldn’t believe it to meet him as his difficulties are more obvious than his strengths! After one term at secondary his teachers wanted to put him in lower sets as other classes didn’t have TAs. He was constantly told off and becoming very anxious. Because he had an EHCP the LA funded internet school with additional home tutors for non maths/science subjects. He did 11 GCSEs (grades 7-9), then went to a ‘brick’ specialist STEM 6th form for A levels in maths, further maths and physics (2 A stars plus A) and is now in his third year of a MEng degree. His EHCP is ended but he has DSA plus PIP.

The next transition after education into work is likely to prove the hardest. He couldn’t have achieved this if he had stayed in secondary school but support allowed alternative education that hugely increases his chances of achieving work and independence. obviously it was also essential that DS2 received unpaid and unacknowledged support from me as non of it would have been possible if I were not willing and able to ‘sacrifice’ my own career/independence to be his carer/LSA and mentor.

There is something fundamentally wrong with the current system that staying in school increases the risk of failure to meet potential and long term mental health issues that reduce the likelihood of a successful transition to adult independent life and relies on parental sacrifice to try and meet the gap.

In case it is relevant for anyone else reading, expecting you to be an unpaid LSA is unlawful. The LA is responsible for funding someone to be the LSA/TA/HLTA/mentor if one is required. Parents cannot be compelled to facilitate and deliver provison in that way.

ElanaohElana · 09/10/2026 15:15

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 09/10/2026 15:08

Well, we urgently need fewer people. But nobody is really ready for that conversation.

Do we? I think we need young adults who are happy and able to work to pay for the huge crop of pensioners we have coming up. Currently our birth rate is nowhere near enough, so we will need to have higher immigration. We also have too many depressed teens. It’s in everyone’s interests to make school and work enjoyable and productive. There really is no need for it all to be such a slog.

roaringdragon · 09/10/2026 15:15

If there were cheaper placements who could meet needs, the expensive placements wouldn’t be named.

In terms of transport, many parents would love for there to be a placement locally which could meet needs.

If it isn’t wasn’t inappropriate for provision to be made in a school EOTAS/EOTIS/C wouldn’t be provided.

People complain about the cost of providing provision outside of mainstream but then don’t want some DC with SEN in MS either. Parents of DC with SEN can’t win.

Silverbirchleaf · 09/10/2026 15:21

@ElanaohElana

”… I also believe that we have developed an education system and workplaces that are very intolerant of eccentricity. We have never tried to have so much conformity ”

Interesting, as schools cater to children’s individual needs far more than back in the seventies and eighties’ . In those days, you had whole class teaching so everyone was taught the same. Today there is much more awareness of different needs, adhd, autism, dyslexia etc .

Rubydobydo · 09/10/2026 15:22

CostcoFanofThree · 09/10/2026 12:59

@Rubydobydo what is your view of the topic?
DF link and DISCUSS is considered rude.
Me. Lots of hyper ADHD in the family the psychiatric assessment was very welcomed. Showed a bright young fellow who absolutely needs exercise. Can’t sit still to take any tests yet. we expect with time that will improve.
Obtaining meds and med reviews have been a nightmare, downright disgraceful.

I suppose it could be considered rude, I’ll take that.
To explain my interest - my children are 32 and 31. Amongst their contemporaries I knew two brothers, both highly academically intelligent, that were diagnosed with dyspraxia. They were taken out of primary and put into a fee paying school (whether that made any difference I do not know) and are now successful adults with careers, albeit their dad jokes that they still can’t ride a bike.
And going back to my school years in the 60/70s we had kids that were less able but got on with it. I recall one family that were all what was called “a bit thick” but all went onto work as farm labourers and so on, had families of their own - succeeded at life in other words.
But I also knew that some children needed ‘special education’. I have no idea of what happened to those children, something I expect would have been common.

What intrigues me now is why so many are receiving a diagnosis, indeed why so many are displaying quite life limited traits such as being non-verbal, whatever.

I absolutely support the idea that everyone deserves an education, and that everyone deserves to be part of mainstream life. But is the current provision, and the growing number deemed in need proving a disadvantage to all?

I have no skin in the fight. I have two infant grandchildren, both of whom seem engaging and engaged. But talking about this with my DiL this morning, she says that despite 14 years as a nanny, she doesn’t understand why some children don’t respond to what she called ‘normal parental upbringing’, whether that be directly by a parent or their proxy, such as a nanny or childminder.
Thats why I’m interested.

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ElanaohElana · 09/10/2026 15:27

Silverbirchleaf · 09/10/2026 15:21

@ElanaohElana

”… I also believe that we have developed an education system and workplaces that are very intolerant of eccentricity. We have never tried to have so much conformity ”

Interesting, as schools cater to children’s individual needs far more than back in the seventies and eighties’ . In those days, you had whole class teaching so everyone was taught the same. Today there is much more awareness of different needs, adhd, autism, dyslexia etc .

There is more awareness of SEND. But I went to primary school in the 80s/90s when there were no tests whatsoever and I spent the majority of time painting, projects, drawing, playing etc. It was before literacy and numeracy hour. We did do Maths and English but we did much less of it and much less sitting still full stop.

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