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How much maintenance should my child’s father pay each week?

30 replies

Gufuiogg · 24/08/2026 16:36

The father my child gets paid 750 a week after tax. How much should he pay towards my child who he only sees one day a week due to working five days a week? I get paid 300 to do me and my son as I can no longer work.

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QuothTheRavenista · 24/08/2026 16:40

What does the calculator say?

MissChanandlerBonng · 24/08/2026 16:41

Why the voting options with amounts?

CMS calculator is your best bet. Will depend on if he is PAYE, and lives with any other children or has any other children with maintenance claims.

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mrsm43s · 24/08/2026 16:44

Why can you no longer work? Most people go back to work after 9m/12m maternity leave.

In any case, £750/w earnings means approx £90/w (but this could vary due to pension contributions/other children etc).

Keymoment · 24/08/2026 16:47

How old is your son? Why can’t you work?

Mycatmax · 24/08/2026 16:48

I make it £112.50

BabblingBiddy · 24/08/2026 16:48

I get paid 300 to do me and my son
What do mean "to do me"? The money isn't for you, it's to cover a portion your sons living costs. If you can't work you should also be claiming UC. UC plus £300 per week should be plenty. Don't forget your ex also needs to live.

FWIW I got about £20 per week for 2 DC.

hahabahbag · 24/08/2026 16:51

Go back to work maybe?

wineosaurus4 · 24/08/2026 16:51

His fathers contribution is to cover 50% of your sons costs when he is with you. You should be covering the other 50% plus all of your own costs.

Coconutter24 · 24/08/2026 16:53

I get paid 300 to do me and my son as I can no longer work.

Do you mean you get £300 for you as some sort of benefit and then maintenance for your son… or do you mean your ex pays £300 for your son?

SonaliS · 24/08/2026 16:56

Does he have other kids to support?
does your dc stay overnight with dad only 52 nights per year - no holidays or weekends?

MissChanandlerBonng · 24/08/2026 16:57

Is the reason you can’t work that you’ve had another baby with someone else?

Shinyandnew1 · 24/08/2026 17:44

Why can you no longer work? Forever?

Have you completed the online calculator?

Gufuiogg · 24/08/2026 20:16

9 weeks old

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Gufuiogg · 24/08/2026 20:22

My weekly income is 300 I never asked for money off the father for myself I’m looking to see what he should pay towards his son as he hasn’t bought him anything either I pay rent electricity and everything else for my son out of the money I get

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TheBlueKoala · 24/08/2026 20:24

Gufuiogg · 24/08/2026 20:22

My weekly income is 300 I never asked for money off the father for myself I’m looking to see what he should pay towards his son as he hasn’t bought him anything either I pay rent electricity and everything else for my son out of the money I get

You need to make a cms claim.

Gufuiogg · 24/08/2026 20:27

My ex does not pay me 300 he’s being paying 50 a week I think he should give 100 a week he gets 750 after paying tax and also his bills if he took his son for half the time I would be able to go to work also but he doesn’t

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Caaarrrl · 24/08/2026 20:30

Gufuiogg · 24/08/2026 20:27

My ex does not pay me 300 he’s being paying 50 a week I think he should give 100 a week he gets 750 after paying tax and also his bills if he took his son for half the time I would be able to go to work also but he doesn’t

You want the baby's father to have him half of the time when he's only 9 weeks?

Lifejigsaw · 24/08/2026 20:30

Have you used the calculator l?

TheBlueKoala · 24/08/2026 20:45

Gufuiogg · 24/08/2026 20:27

My ex does not pay me 300 he’s being paying 50 a week I think he should give 100 a week he gets 750 after paying tax and also his bills if he took his son for half the time I would be able to go to work also but he doesn’t

So claim cms so you will get more.

AmberPeaches · 24/08/2026 21:23

Where do you get the £300 from? Benefits?

Gufuiogg · 24/08/2026 23:35

I do get it from benefits and also of course I don’t want my son to be with his father half the times I was just stating a point if he did I would be able to work to earn money myself

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Blondeshavemorefun · 24/08/2026 23:48

Cms would suggest £121 a week if stays one night (assume doesn’t if 9w) to £141 a week with no nights

Blondeshavemorefun · 24/08/2026 23:50

So you get £1200 ish a month off uc to pay rent /bills or £300 a week

Mycatmax · 25/08/2026 06:43

Why are posters asking OP how much she takes home? It’s irrelevant when she’s only asking about child maintenance.

The baby’s NRP will have to pay the same amount whether she’s on benefits or earning seven figures.

Or is this tipping into another benefit bashing scenario?

OP, go through child maintenance services and they should be able to help you.

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