In need of some advice!!
little backstory:
Was with the kids dad for 7 years. Kids age are 3 and 1.
We split in December 25 and have been living together ever since but he’s mentally draining me. Constantly making nasty little comments about when I go out and see my friends especially males! He doesn’t want to become a weekend parent so Ive been thinking about becoming the weekend parent. He’s a brilliant dad just not a very good partner. I always have been the stay at home mum until recently before we split I had to go to work as he didn’t want to change his job and didn’t see the pit we was in. I was doing part time but have recently taken on full time, I absolutely love work! Right now it’s the only thing that getting me up in the morning. I have something called emotional unstable personality disorder. Which I’m having a lot of bad days where I can’t deal with the kids and I know I’d struggle and crumble like hell.
So I’m stuck on whether I should move out and leave the kids with him, see them every other week and weekend? Or, Do I quit work and become the stay at home mum again and kick him out for good?
Any advice would be appreciated!!