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Am I missing something - childcare.

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Halie · 03/12/2025 14:00

I'm currently on mat leave and thinking about what will happen once mat leave ends.

Initially, I planned to return to my job, but currently I'm struggling with how that would work financially. As well as that, I feel very negatively about putting baby into childcare / nursery aged 1. I know it works for some and that's great but for me it's going completely against my instincts especially with the things I read on the news about nurseries.

If I put my child in nursery it's approx £200 per week locally, so £800 per month. We're a 2 income home, but to simplify it, that leaves me with about £1000 left of my wage. However, if I quit my job I can look after my child myself and according to online calculators I would get approx £900 in universal credit and £100 child benefit.

Am I missing something? Why would I go back to work to pay for a stranger to take care of my child when I can leave, do it myself and have a similar income?

What are other people without a village doing and what led to your decisions?

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
kittywittyandpretty · 07/12/2025 19:32

dontmalbeconme · 07/12/2025 19:23

Statistics (aka facts) would disagree with you.

Oh, and never confused statistics with facts 87% of them are made upon the spot.

dontmalbeconme · 08/12/2025 09:45

kittywittyandpretty · 07/12/2025 19:32

Oh, and never confused statistics with facts 87% of them are made upon the spot.

Sure they are.

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