ok then, goig on the other thread with AIBU re perfect parents.......WHAT DOES make a perfect parent???

[Psychomum5]

emkana askes why there seem to be so many thread professing perfect parenting, but we all have failing in some way or other (or at least, I do), so instead I wonder what it is that would shout to the world that 'this is a perfect mother'..???

for me, it would be a mum who managed to feed her children 100% organic decent food, cooked from scratch, and the kiddies wolfed it down without complaint and sneering....

oh, and one that wouldn;t be pushed to open the wine before the kiddies were in bed, instead of me that starts a glass while cooking many meals for my increasingly allergic and fussy children as I just cannot cope with the stress of knowing that they will all eventually just leave it anyhow!!!!

I am tho still standing up to my own claim that I am perfect, I just got given slighlty warped children.....

and knowing me would stop you??

btw - your chicken is recovering. well, hopefully. her foot seems a lot better, but the leg is still swollen and hot. still doing antibiotics every day (bloody chickens. still havnt even had any eggs lol)

flame sat here muttering about "well, it would be your chicken that needs having bloody antibiotics syringed in it wouldn't it"

oh, and I save my poisoned darts for really off people.......

now muttering *to flame as to how I should take your comment.....

are you too worthy of darts, or should I think you deserve them more as I know you????

rofl at hypochondriac/chronically sick chicken being yours!! (poor you )

and, er, no, i'll manage without the darts ta v much, since youre asking.
[low pain threshold emoticon]

awww....was getting all excited at the thought.....!