Is it ok to arrange a collective for cash donations for my 7 yo birthday present? I dont want to sound ungrateful but we had a lot of duplicate gifts last year, we are looking to move house and need to keep the place as tidy as possible and my son is after a few high value items. Initial feedback from a mum has been yes happy to club up together. Thinking of using the Collective platform so parents dont get informed how much they each put in. Is this socially acceptable or am I about to commit parenting protocol suicide?! PS we are putting on an expensive party for the 15-20 attending - costing £15/head.