I ask this as I’ve always wanted two children. I have a 6 month old baby and love him dearly but my god he’s difficult! Will I ever get to a point where I want to have a second? Age isn’t on my side either so we need to start trying again in no longer than a year or so! Is it worth waiting until I feel I’m winning at parenting or is this something that never happens? Am I going to just have to decide whether to throw another child into the mix?
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Cleanqueennot · 25/01/2023 22:59
My 6 month old still wakes every 1-2 hours at night, fights naps during the day and I do have to pretty much entertain him all day otherwise he gets bored and shouts at me! I also have to go bed with him at night and if I try yo leave he wakes up and screams. think he might be high needs too haha.
If it gets easier at 18 months I will hang in there as that’s not too bad. Just another year to go!!!
Got2besoon · 25/01/2023 22:51
I only felt ready when DS was 18 months and started sleeping better and playing a bit more independently. He was very high needs tho!
Blufelt · 29/01/2023 04:19
I wanted more but my first was so hard that I decided against it. Never regretted it. Kids are like rolling the dice to see what you get, it turned out ok the first time but I might not be so lucky again. When I was pregnant I was worried sick that DD would come out looking like DH’s sister but thankfully she doesn’t.
wednesdayjones · 29/01/2023 04:47
What does your DH's sister look like? 🤣 and does DH and her look nothing alike?
Blufelt · 29/01/2023 04:19
I wanted more but my first was so hard that I decided against it. Never regretted it. Kids are like rolling the dice to see what you get, it turned out ok the first time but I might not be so lucky again. When I was pregnant I was worried sick that DD would come out looking like DH’s sister but thankfully she doesn’t.
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