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HV saying DD is overweight AGAIN.

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Dipsydoodlenoodle · 25/07/2022 21:51

Been to get my 8 month old DD weighed at the Health Visitor clinic...and feeling like a complete and utter failure.

This is the 3rd or 4th time they've told me that she's overweight.

She still will not entertain BLW -
she doesn't even put any toy in her mouth (soft ones occasionally, but that's it) - she's more than happy to be fed (anything) but HV said feed an ice cube amount per meal (3 x per day) then moaned she was still having milk. A friend (same HVs) was told to keep feeding her baby food until he turned away!

It's just so frustrating that they say one thing and then another...and keep telling me DD is fat. We go to baby class with babies that have rolls on their rolls...yet we are the fat ones :(

She is 98th centile for weight and 99.5th centile for height.

I'm just having a moan as yes she's heavy...but she's also tall but they solely focus on weight and take no notice of anything else. DD was born on the 9th centile which adds to their argument - DD was measuring small so I was induced early as she wasn't growing, but again they don't take any of this into consideration, just that shes shot from the 9th centile to the 98th :( . I just feel that they don't look at the bigger picture.

Sorry, just feeling low about it and needed a rant.

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RandomMess · 27/07/2022 06:57

Blimey she looks slim for her age/stage - she's clearly in proportion.

TolkiensFallow · 27/07/2022 07:10

Your baby is not overweight! That’s a completely normal looking baby!

PupInAPram · 27/07/2022 07:25

My HV told me to start bottle feeding my baby as she was losing lots of weight at about 10 weeks. I was in bits for days. Turns out she was using the same scales for toddlers and babies and they were completely knackered. I got shuttled into the GP who scornfully said "you only have to look at her to see she's thriving" in a way that made me feel I was causing an issue! The whole thing made me completely ignore the HV and avoid her where possible (she'd already caused a few non-issues with my son, like referring to a speech therapist who said 'yeah, a lisp is a normal part of speech development for many kids this age! ").

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awwbiscuits · 27/07/2022 08:03

Jeez my dd was enormous at that age! She's absolutely fine looking at that photo.

FoodFreedom · 22/02/2023 20:52

To say an 8 month old is overweight and should have less milk (or whatever) is utterly ridiculous. May I ask why you are going to get her weighed still?

With my first, I went to get her weighed regularly (out of some weird sense of duty). Number 2 and number 3? Stopped after 8 weeks. Never went back. They're both thriving.

What is your worry?

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