It's taken me ages to read through this thread!
When I took my 2 for their jabs I was never asked about family medical history and even if I had been I wouldn't have had anything to tell them. Dh is adopted so no info there and the only thing I could mention about my side of the family is my sister's childhood epilepsy. There would have been no indication that my children could be more at risk than others.
Now I am convinced that my ds's autism was 'triggered' by vaccines. He had a terrible reaction to his first jabs at 8 weeks but I believed the advice from the doctor that it was quite common - I had no reason not to. I had no idea that the vaccines contained so many toxins. I only knew what we were told at school about them being a weakened version of the illness which the body could fight and produce antibodies. I find my ignorance shocking now but I only had advice from the hv etc to go by - I'd never even been on the internet!
Ds had seperate MMR because at the time we were starting to be aware that he had problems (but not the extent of them)and thought that we were minimising the risks as much as possible whilst still believing in vaccination. Now I have more knowledge I wish he had gone completely without.
Quick question for Jimjams. Earlier you mentioned breastfeeding Ds2 longer to give him more protection. This was partly the reason I fed my Ds for 3 years. I felt that if I couldn't do anything else to help him I could at least do that. However I'm now torturing myself because I had a load of fillings just before his first birthday (I had no idea the dentist was going to do so many and was so appalled I haven't been back there since)and have been thinking that the mercury got into him through my breastmilk. It was after this that he began to regress and I wonder if it was just the final straw on top of the vaccines.
Sorry I'm rambling - to the question. If I were to have another baby would I pose a risk in this way by breastfeeding? I still have the fillings. Would the risk outweigh the benefits of protection from diseases?
This may be a daft question and I have just got the wrong end of the stick but it is something I have been thinking about lately.